Why does he press on my bladder area during foreplay?
Q. Hi, My new partner likes to press down on my bladder area just above the bikini line during foreplay but this really makes me want to pee. Is there any reason why a man would like to do this? I'm so worried I will eventually pee on him but I als...
A. 8 April 2012: Maybe you should 'pee' before, so when it happens, you just enjoy the feeling?... (read in full...)
I was a narcissistic b*stard. I owe her full closure.
Q. Before I start I'm asking that you guys don't answer with remarks like you deserve it, leave her alone because what -m trying to do is needed because she needs to know I'm living up to my wrong. Its like this I hurt a really great gal awful bad. ...
A. 19 March 2011: This isn't about her at all, you're the one that selfishly needs validation to prove you're not so bad - you need her forgiveness to move on. She doesnt't need to forgive you, she needs space and time without you bothering her! All you're doing is b... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 2 years is incredibly stubborn!
Q. My boufriend of 2years is incredibly stubborn he is 18 like me and claims to be "one of the most mature people of our age group" how ever it will stop at nothing to prove a point and if say anything prime example being last night he always spins it ...
A. 19 March 2011: Tell your boyfriend he is very immature, being an adult isn't telling your partner off like a child, it's acceptance and compromise! Tell him unless he wants to pay for you everytime you go out then you'll stop doing overtime and rely on him. He... (read in full...)
Is this a little odd?
Q. This isn't really a love question as such, but it involves a girl so I thought this was as good a place to ask it as any. So sometimes I play a particular online game. Not a lot but maybe once or twice a week I will play for a little bit and c...
A. 27 August 2010: Why is it odd? She probably felt comfortable as you already spoke for a while for you to add her on your facebook and MSN. Maybe she just wanted to give you her number as a friend, not a potential partner as she lives so far. U dont have to take ... (read in full...)
Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy?
Q. Dear Cupid.! Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy? i personally think not but alot of people disagree with me so i want your opinion please. Remember she's single but she messes around with ALOT of guys. ...
A. 27 August 2010: She may not be easy as she is young, but if she is so free to kiss guys who she isnt with maybe in the future, when she is ready for sex she will be sleeping around? Its very hard to change habits, so just tell your friend to be careful as some ... (read in full...)
I made a decision about the cheating father of my baby, now a friend is telling me I did the wrong thing
Q. I have a 2 week old son. His father is not in the picture. He pretty much just up and left and I haven't had any contact with him. At first he wanted to be there. He kept trying to agree to letting him get a place and have me move in with him. ...
A. 27 March 2010: She did say she didn't expect to cheat...thats y she chose not to be with him...karma is a bitch but it happens. Anyway, u made the right choice as he left knowing you was pregnant with his baby. Tell your friend he knows where you are and he chose ... (read in full...)
Help me win my ex back before she ruins her life with alcohol poisoning and one night stands!
Q. hi there, i just got dump by my girlfriend, after a 2 yrs relationship..well mostly its my fault, not that i cheat or an big major asshole phychopath but mostly i am way too busy workin and i dont put enough effort to spend time with her...and i ...
A. 25 March 2010: Why dont u leave her alone? Not once have u mentioned y u want her back or her good points u just went on about her friends and her having 1 night stands. She chose to not be with u anymore, wont listen to anyone when they bring ur name up so stop ... (read in full...)
Has anyone taken a partner back after an emotional affair?
Q. I was wondering if any of you have ever forgiven your partner and taken them back after an emotional (non-sexual/physical) affair? I am seriously considering taking my partner back. I can't believe how much healing we've done with our talks s...
A. 25 March 2010: if u feel its right, and u have spoken alot about what happened take him back. What will u regret more, being with him or the job? If it is possible y dnt u use this job opportunity as a fresh start together and move away a little closer to ur new ... (read in full...)
Is this pattern of sexual interaction common?
Q. Surprise surprise!! another guy with issues about his girls sexual past. Her number is a okay in my book (I'm her 7th) at close to 30 years old. However, five of those fellas were in a six month period her last semester of college. Three of those...
A. 19 February 2010: To be honest it doesnt matter, or shouldnt. Its in her past and cant be changed and it shows she can trust u as she told u the truth. Look at time in her life as just one of them things. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to believe I don't want anyone else?
Q. i have been goin out with this lad since 22nd december 09 then he dumped me on 15th jan 10 so i thought maybe i have done something wrong and the excuse i got was x said that you fancied someone else and yo took my name off msn so i explained that x ...
A. 11 February 2010: hey, sorry if i seemed harsh in my previous advice, its just that i dont want u getting unnecessarily hurt so young. :)... (read in full...)
How do I get him to believe I don't want anyone else?
Q. i have been goin out with this lad since 22nd december 09 then he dumped me on 15th jan 10 so i thought maybe i have done something wrong and the excuse i got was x said that you fancied someone else and yo took my name off msn so i explained that x ...
A. 17 January 2010: Give up. U was only together for a few weeks and you already giving eachother hassle. Forget it, its over.... (read in full...)
Embarrassing wind problems...
Q. this is not a relationship question, but i wondered if anyone would be able to help. usually my diet is very very poor, i work in mcdonalds, and on a typical work day but diet would be... cereal or toast for breakfast, say a big mac meal plus a ...
A. 13 January 2010: if it bothers u eat the windy foods for the days/times u not at work or out socially, if u work evenings or go out more in the evenings have it in the morning, or the days u dnt have plans, or eat the foods in the evenings if u work or go out during ... (read in full...)
Embarrassing wind problems...
Q. this is not a relationship question, but i wondered if anyone would be able to help. usually my diet is very very poor, i work in mcdonalds, and on a typical work day but diet would be... cereal or toast for breakfast, say a big mac meal plus a ...
A. 13 January 2010: if it bothers u eat the windy foods for the days/times u not at work or out socially, if u work evenings or go out more in the evenings have it in the morning, or the days u dnt have plans, or eat the foods in the evenings if u work or go out during ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mom seen nude pics of me and says she's going to show everyone!
Q. I sent my boyfriend some nude pics of me, and his mom saw them and took his phone. Now she is saying she is going to show people the pics of me. I was just wondering if there was anything i could do. Now before you judge me, i have been with my ...
A. 11 January 2010: O, poor u! His mum is tryin to blackmail u, possibly trying to get u and ur bf to split up. Tell her she is harrasing u and if she she'l get a criminal record coz ul report her to the police. I dnt no if u still considered a minor in where you ... (read in full...)
Should I meet for sexual activity? I don't want to date him and I'm 15.
Q. I am meeting with this boy this friday from my school. He is just so mmmmmm sexyyy its weird coz i never fort i wus ever go out with him before in my life. i think he wants to have sex with me but so do i ha i dont wanna go out with him tho j...
A. 9 December 2009: Although i dont think u dont have to wait till u married, I think you should wait till u in a proper relationship coz if u do it this way and never hear from him again ul feel horrible, and sex shouldnt be horrible! Besides, ur underage, the law ... (read in full...)
Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married?
Q. Happy Holidays to all!! I have a question for everyone out there. Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married? Did it work? Is it possible to put all of the burned bridges behind you? ...
A. 8 December 2009: i havent been married, but have split up up and got back together few times with a guy i thought was the love of my life...He wasnt. But each case is different, as long as u work hard and overcome the problems that made u split up the first time ul ... (read in full...)
I've played it cool, but I am not sure what to do next....
Q. I have been in a non committed relationship for nearly 7 years. We are long distance and meet up every now and then for a bit of fun and company. I know that he has slept with others and so have I during our off periods. He does his own thing, w...
A. 6 December 2009: he can go off with another woman disregarding how u feel but u cant? Pack up move on and dont look back coz he'l never feel the same way, if he wanted to have a serious relationship with you it would have happende by now, but all he wants is to ... (read in full...)
What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys?
Q. What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys? How much outgoingness? How much confidence? More of a child, an equal, or a mother? I don't think an equally shy partner works. They tend not to talk much. Neither of them draws the othe...
A. 30 November 2009: loads of girls like shy guys (including me) Im moderatly confident but can be shy. You need someone who can come up to you and talk to you 'just like that' so you can get to know her without feeling nervous. Judging by your age you should stil be ... (read in full...)
His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?
Q. This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...
A. 30 November 2009: it really doesnt matter bout the size of the car as long as the engine runs well! You say he is good but you dont want to heave sex with him?? If you care about him than you should show him but if the size too small maybe you dont care about him at ... (read in full...)
I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!
Q. i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...
A. 30 November 2009: it doesnt matter about her, she'l find out eventually! You should do what you want to tell her and dump the useless muppet jerk! and you should have realised he was a jerk when he started an affair with you. Dump him, let him be, he'l get what he ... (read in full...)
I saw her breastfeeding and it soooo turned me on!
Q. We have a maid servant living in our house along with her husband, who is our driver. she gave birth to a baby girl about a month ago. About two days ago, I accidently, I repeat ACCIDENTLY saw her breastfeeding her child in her room when I had gone...
A. 21 November 2009: look...at your age its normal but DO NOT approach her and tell her your feelings or it may be seen as harrasment, dont touch her dont tell her...just do what most normal boys your age do and one day youll get to see the female form in normal ... (read in full...)
How do you break up with a habitual cheater for good?
Q. I'm in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a 1 and a half year old son, and live together in a home that we own jointly. He has cheated on me countless times (I've caught him at least 25 tim...
A. 20 September 2009: why does it matter what he has to do? he a grown man not a child, ur only resposibility is towards ur son, not him and his sex life. Get rid of him, he doesnt care about u and what you have done for him he only cares for himself!... (read in full...)
What can I call him?
Q. he is very affectionate towards me and calls me really sweet names.so i want to do the same with him but i need some ideas.......
A. 31 August 2009: depends on his personality...but i find chocolatebum works well. Sounds daft I know, but its kinda nice.... (read in full...)
New relationship, what should our conversations be based upon?
Q. To begin with.let me say i'm a guy who just got into a new relationship.i need advice on how to begin,i.e d type of conversation we should start having.cos any time we talk,she always wants to hear more from me.so i just nid to know what our ...
A. 31 August 2009: Just take her out...be romantic, picnics in the park and stuff, and she'l get to know you.... (read in full...)
Husband gave me an ultimatium to either move with him or get out
Q. my husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have no family of my own, but he comes from a large family. His family is now back east and my children are here in the pacific northwest. Hes always disliked my kids, so its hard when he says ...
A. 29 August 2009: Y do your older children want you to move with him? He mistreats you so I understand that logic. I wouldn't want my own mother to be abused in that way! But I think you should let him go, and you move away with your daughter wherever you want to go. ... (read in full...)
How can I withhold sex until I know the guy better?
Q. hi, can anyone help?... I want to be in a relationship but whenever i try to wait for sex it doesnt work... I havent had that many but I dont know how to withold sex till I know the guy... what do I do?...
A. 20 August 2009: Thanks for most the answers...big help, but the nickel comment made NO sense so no thanks to that person. You all seem nice.:)... (read in full...)
How do I cope with this break from my boyfriend? Does this mean we're over?
Q. Ok my boyfriend just asked for a break! it sucks!! It came up all of a sudden for me. We arent seeing other people which im really really happy about but this hurts!! He wants No communication between us. he decided to have this break and when it ...
A. 19 August 2009: There is no such thing as a temporary break so its over! These breaks are just a way of tellin someone you dont want them! Just start trying to get over him, if he wants you back then its his loss not yours, because if he really wanted you he ... (read in full...)
4 years and 2 kids isn't enough for him to marry me?
Q. ok, im not sure where t start, i have been with this guy for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. i love this man with everything i have. well we live in his home town and my home town is 1200 miles away where all my family and friends live. i dont ...
A. 19 August 2009: This is abuse! Leave and take your kids with you RIGHT NOW! Go back to your family and let that son of a b*tch run back to that b*tch...he a mammas boy! She clearly didnt raise him right if he thinks its acceptable to treat women this way! Its good ... (read in full...)
Her ex destroyed my property, what should I do?
Q. I'm 24, my girlfriend's 23, and we've been dating for 6 months. Her ex has tried to complicate things though - he threw a brick through our window, let the tyres down on my car, and has tried to follow me to work. I reported it to the police, b...
A. 19 August 2009: Go back to the police, ask to speak someone more senior, and tell them what happened...throwin a brick through your window is criminal damage! If that doesnt help go to the Complaints commision, there should be one in whatever country you are in. ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to forgive me?
Q. hi all, got an issue , if you could drop in a suggestion. I have broken the trust of a close one a close friend.for namesake its friendship , but i love her and its not the other way round. she was into a relationship but had broken up and ...
A. 19 August 2009: What do you mean when youre low she comes and consoles else ignores? But anyway all you can do is beg and wait for her to want you back in her life... She still loves you because she wont be so angry if she didnt.... (read in full...)
Not just a metaphor...
Q. Two weeks ago I was in Germany. The Rhine Valley, to be precise. I went there on a trip with my Wind Band. I wont say what I play, for fear of discorvery, lol. Any one of the 66 people with me could be on this site! One of the other 66 people ...
A. 19 August 2009: So what is the relationship between you and her now? Sorry to be nosy, its souns as there is something special between you and her, I want to know if you and her are together now? If not then hope you find someone who raises your blood pressure rise ... (read in full...)
Is she still in mourning, or is it over?
Q. My girl has been acting differently for the past two weeks or so. She's 30, I'm 28. We met in church years ago, she was dating a guy I went to high school with back then (he's actually getting married in three weeks). We've been dating for 10 months ...
A. 19 August 2009: She is clearly bored of you, so just get rid of her before she can get rid of you. May sound harsh, but you deserve to be with someone who wants you, not someone who uses you till someone else come along.... (read in full...)
How can we strike a compromise on our religious beliefs?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now, and recently, a discussion came about regarding marriage and children. First let me say, he is Catholic, I am Episcopalian. He's not extremely religious at all, but when the aforemen...
A. 19 August 2009: I think he should go...not because he wants any children he has to be Catholic, but because he seems pushy and domineering. Do you want any children you have to have a father who thinks its acceptable to act towards their mother like this?... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and have just found out my boyfriend has another 3 babies on the way!
Q. I'm pregnant by my boyfriend. I told him he wants nothing to do with the child. Found out he has 3 babies on the way. I don't want a abortion because I had one when I was younger. I just turned 30 years old. He's 26 years old. I've been seeing him ...
A. 19 August 2009: get rid of him and bring up your baby on your own.... (read in full...)
Christians: is it a sin to have sexual feelings?
Q. as a christian,having feelings of sex when growing up,is it sinful?...
A. 19 August 2009: I assume you want to wait till youre married? The way you feel is normal as its the way God made you, but the sin is how you act on it...basically sleeping around, and having one night stands. Does this help?
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How the way he kisses you says more than you Know
Q. Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...
A. 19 August 2009: good article but how do u make a man stay rather then push for sex? U gave her that special kiss to make her want you but what did she do to make u stay and for for her the way you do?... (read in full...)
Should I have gone in for the kiss?
Q. Hi i need some advice. A couple of months ago a met up with an old firend on facebook she 51 i 47 now both single both have early teen kids.We have met up four times now getting on really well been for meals ive been to her place a few times now and ...
A. 19 August 2009: Hi, sometimes women need to be kissed properly as it feels nice... its not always a sexual need but an emotional one, she probably felt bad like u werent attracted to her so she is holding back. Keep in touch with her, if you see her again try a ... (read in full...)
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