We are fighting because we don't spend enough time together but I can't help it!
Q. i'm so so confused about everything that is happenin to me now. Me and my boyfriend of two months have been havin a fight. The fight is all about how much time we spend together. Not that im not spendin time with him, but since school resumed i've ...
A. 11 June 2013: First of all, Know that its not you who is being selfish, its him actually. He should understand you. If it keeps going on this way, i don't think your relationship will work out actually.
But since you don't want to let go of him...i would ad... (read in full...)
Is he jealous or just think I'm being inappropriate?
Q. I work at a sports bar and all my male co-workers really like me. I never thought of it as a problem, they're all very nice and I'm nice to them back because I have no reason not to be. Usually it has never been a big deal, they just compliment me ...
A. 11 June 2013: It seems he feels something for you and is upset of how your co workers is flirting with you and you are reciprocating the same things.
Try to flirt with him and see his reaction to be much more certain.... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend's constant texting with his ex die down or should I worry?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around two years and have an apartment together. We have been very happy together. Recently, my boyfriend's ex came back from a study abroad program in Europe. When they split up after dating for 4 years, t...
A. 11 June 2013: Your boyfriend ex texting him to be friend and sending him pictures of her wearing heels and so on is definitely not normal. The way you described, she is trying to get him back. Is she trying to seduce him with her butt or is your boyfriend a foot ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to reconnect with my friend that I haven't talked to in over a year?
Q. I have a really unique situation here. I met this guy more than one year ago on the internet. We were pen pals and wrote back and forth for over 6 months. I was traveling to NYC and we decided to meet for the first time there: best day ever. Two ...
A. 11 June 2013: You are right. Trying to reconnect things with him even if you get a refusal won't make you lose anything. Its worth a try definitely.
But, in this 1 year, exactly how so many thing happened to you, that might be the case for him as well. 1 year c... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's childhood female friend
Q. Hi everybody, so I am a newb in dating. i currently have my first boyfriend. I am feeling jealous and insecure right now. He have this childhood friend who he have known since he was 2 years old, even though I have never asked him if he have ever ...
A. 10 June 2013: A friendship like this would make many people feel insecure: your boyfriend has known her far longer than you, he’s physically and verbally affectionate with her.
Perhaps he simply cares for her while being in love with you.Love isn’t somethin... (read in full...)
What are your opinions on a spouse using a fleshlight?
Q. Hi I noticed there is alot of questions about porn, I don't like the use of it myself but I would like to know about your opinions on your spouse using a plastic vagina (fleshlight) or sex stories would that bother you as much? It wouldn't me, I'm ...
A. 10 June 2013: For a try it would not be bad. But it should not be like a daily dose. Why he have to use it when his wife is around!!?... (read in full...)
How do I read the signs from this guy?
Q. I'm basically just wondering if this guy likes me. I've been out of the dating scene for so long (was in a long term relationship and have purposely stayed single since) i'm not even sure HOW to read the signs but my friends all seem to think he...
A. 10 June 2013: Next time you go to the store. You try to start the conversation on a friendly note and try to keep it as long as possible. The longer it is , the more chance you have to know more about him : Whether he has a gf or not.
He might even ask your con... (read in full...)
My inlaws want my husband to send me away!
Q. have being married for two years nw bt there is issues between me and my inlaws,what i say and what i didnt say my husband sisters told my husband parent and my husband parent told my husband to send me out of is house but my husband didnt accept ...
A. 10 June 2013: Talk to your husband and tell him about you feelings. Let him know how you actually does not want to be away from him and tell him you sincerely regret for whatever you did.
Apologise to your in laws in front of your husband. Because its wrong th... (read in full...)
Since my family and friends will not approve of this love: should I let him go?
Q. I'm a 20 year old girl who has been brought up in a conservative family with certain values. I was reluctant to behave in a certain way and do certain things in order to fit in with the rest of the people at my school and college. I'm a responsi...
A. 10 June 2013: Why will your parent despise him? Whats the reason behind it? The way you described him, i actually did not find any strong reason for why they should dislike him. You know the reason. Analyse it and see if it is truly a serious matter.
You c... (read in full...)
We're on our third try at the relationship
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 3 years. Over that time we broke up twice and we are currently back at it for the third time, but we are not "back together". He constantly flip flops his feelings about us from one week to the ...
A. 10 June 2013: Hello Dear,
This guy seems to be unsure about his feelings. Instead of sorting out problems between you guys, he just gave up each time. He told you he was bored and breaking up. Still after that you came back to him. What if he get bored with you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ways are draining me! Is it time to go?
Q. Hi and thx Ive been with my bf for a yr but Im getting tired of his actions and his words. Hes so hypersensitive! He had a recent bday and he was upset because he had only two bday wishes on that site. I reassured him those are ppl he knew from...
A. 8 June 2013: Wow he is really like a kid!!!
I would never be able to handle someone like that. I agree with the answer above. Talk to him and ask him to change his behaviour because you can't give up your life making him happyy and eradicating his sulky fa... (read in full...)
As cousins, should we have strong feelings for each other?
Q. So, I have these feelings for my cousin and he returns these feelings. We've kissed and spent a lot of time together. But we're distant cousins whose families barely know each other. Is it ok for us to feel so strongly about each other?...
A. 8 June 2013: Since you are very young, i don't think the strong feelings will last for long. In life everyday you find people who are more and more compatible with you.
If ever you end up badly, that will affect you both and your relations as you will keep com... (read in full...)
Could dating someone in our group of friends ruin our cohesion ?
Q. I have five male friends that I both work with and go to social events with, such as movies, concerts, restaurants, etc. We are all in the same "group". I am normally considered "one of the guys" as I generally do not hang around other females......
A. 8 June 2013: From my experience, this will surely affect your group negatively. First given the fact that two of them , you've already rejected. Knowing you are going out with the third one will somewhere hurt their male egos. Finally the group might end ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that my boyfriend is familiar with a website snapshot nude?
Q. Not sure how to react to finding my fiance using a nude chat twitter feed and need your views please! we've been together 3yrs, living together 6months and have a 3month old baby. He was showing me on his mobile how to use Twitter today. he'd asked ...
A. 7 June 2013: You should talk to him as this not going to do your relation any benefit. It will distance you guys. If not now, maybe later on. You will feel uneasy about the fact that he is looking at another woman instead of you. Gradually he might find others ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me or are we just friends?
Q. 1. He's my friend's cousin. About 6 months ago, we first met when he picked me up to go meet my friend for some coffee. Along the ride, we got along quite well, like, the conversations were smooth and from both sides [although my friend told me that ...
A. 7 June 2013: After reading the whole things, i actually did not see much hints that he gave you for you to assume he likes you.
I agree with the other response. Most probably he wish to be friend with you. As you said he is the silent type and its hard for... (read in full...)
How to bring back the "honeymoon phase" in an 8 year relationship?
Q. It's a cliche question, but I gotta ask it! I've been with my partner for 8 years now. First few years, very hot and heavy - we couldn't keep our hands off each other. You know, the honeymoon phase. I don't expect things to stay like they ...
A. 7 June 2013: First thing you have to do. Take out time for each other. With so many works you will never be able to revive the old spark again in your relation without making any efforts! Why not taking a few days off work and spend a bit of time with each ... (read in full...)
In a relationship, but I just fell for my newly discovered second cousin!
Q. Hi, i'm 19 years old and i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. Six months ago i discovered a cousin (technically second cousin) i never knew i had, he's 25 and he has a girlfriend. From the momemt we met we hit it off, we talk nonstop ...
A. 7 June 2013: I find this weird. You are in a relation and he is as well.
Somewhere i feel the love, closeness and affection he has for you is just the family love type. He is also grateful to you for having made him to get into contact with the company ... (read in full...)
She hurt me incredibly bad, I don't know why or what she wants from me, or even how to proceed from here. Help?
Q. help me, please. i have no idea what to do. i love my ex so much. we just broke up about a week ago and she hurt me incredibly bad. we had a stupid, small misunderstanding the other day and all of a sudden that night, she told me she needed space ...
A. 7 June 2013: Given all her family problem, She was stressed and perhaps at that time in anger she threw out all her frustration on you. Maybe somewhere she felt that you should be supporting her in such a situation.Instead You was adding up to her stress. ... (read in full...)
Why did he hone in on me, and keep those feelings even though we haven't talked in a while?
Q. I used to casually date this guy about a year ago, I really didnt take it seriously, because he's one of those guys who is always joking and having fun, and I was also involved with someone else at the time. I learned a few weeks ago from one of ...
A. 7 June 2013: Now that's difficult to answer. Maybe he find that spark in you that he did not find in anyone else.
I think you should go straight to him and ask him the reason for that. Actually he will give you a straight answer than any of us here will be ... (read in full...)
Can I operate to become a virgin again?
Q. Can i have my virginity back by doing an operation?...
A. 6 June 2013: Guys chill she is not asking about getting back virginity mentally but physically . so of course it is possible to do an operation for that but am not sure if its possible in mauritius... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy back to his warm usual self?
Q. Hi, need help understanding the male psychology a bit please. There is a guy I met at the pub (35), he was going through divorce and my case is the same. We connected, in his words he was very intrigued by my story and he found me very attractive. ...
A. 2 June 2013: Hello,
I think AuntyEm is right. He used you after which he is slowly cutting connections with you. I don't suggest you to contact him as you will more or less be an unwanted thing. Sorry for that...
Yours,
Queen Mermaid... (read in full...)
How do you know whether to keep trying in a relationship, or to just move on?
Q. I'm 20, have been with my boyfriend (25) for 2 years. He is very loyal, affectionate, loving and absolutely adores me. For the past 6 months he just irrates me constantly. He's not very intelligent, lives with his parents, works in a fact...
A. 2 June 2013: Hello,
It seems like you don't want to let go of this relationship. I think communication is a wise step. You should talk to him about his bad habits and changing his job. Tell him, its not going to work the way he is behaving and try to pacify h... (read in full...)
The first guy knew the other guy. Did I do the right thing by telling the truth?
Q. So I went out with this guy on a date, and go figure one of co-workers and I slept together, before even started talking with the guy I went on the date on. He asked me if I knew him since he had seen we were friends on facebook and I told him the ...
A. 2 June 2013: Hello Melissa,
No, you did not do any wrong thing by telling him the truth. I think the guy must have like your sincerity. You took a wise decision by telling him that because if you would lie on the first instance then many other lies would ha... (read in full...)
Should I ask her if she wants to meet up? Or are my friends are right, that I should leave it and not bother contacting her since it's been too long ?
Q. There's this girl who I used to really like and we both liked each other last summer, but I was seeing someone and there was other complications that happened and because of it, I wouldn't say we left things with us on the best terms. I tried to...
A. 2 June 2013: In some way, Your friends are right. I know Its quite discouraging from my part but i would advise you that do not keep great expectation. First of all, You guys did not left on a good note as you mentionned. That's the thing That might ruined up ... (read in full...)
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