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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi and thxIve been with my bf for a yr but Im getting tired of his actions and his words. Hes so hypersensitive! He had a recent bday and he was upset because he had only two bday wishes on that site. I reassured him those are ppl he knew from high school yrs ago not to take it personally. Then I took him out for a bday supper and he complained I bought him no cards or gifts. I was abit peeved as I thought it was nice. Then he texted his ex cause she didn't wish him a happy bday so he wanted to remind her. He also has a bday close to one of his coworkers and he complained he got only doughnuts and the other guy got a cake. I said at least your boss tought of u and don't take it personal. He sulks or argues for days if I have to cancel plans due to work. Hes jealous and possessive and doesnt like me talking or hanging out with males yet he does with his ex. He found out I had coffee with a male several.months ago and argued for 6 weeks. Yes I should have told him but due to his personality I didn't want to make it a battle. So Im drained by his ways. I do love and care about him but I feel Im with a man child at times but hes 50 years old. Should I let go?
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reader, Queen_mermaid  +, writes (8 June 2013):
Wow he is really like a kid!!!
I would never be able to handle someone like that. I agree with the answer above. Talk to him and ask him to change his behaviour because you can't give up your life making him happyy and eradicating his sulky face
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 June 2013):
 50 years old and acting like a tantrum throwing two year old?
Why on earth are you putting up with this crap? I would find his birthday behaviour intolerable.
If you really love and care about him tell him to grow up, although I doubt he is capable of it at this late stage, so I would be letting go by running away, very fast!
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