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writes:I used to casually date this guy about a year ago, I really didnt take it seriously, because he's one of those guys who is always joking and having fun, and I was also involved with someone else at the time.I learned a few weeks ago from one of his friends that it turns out he really thought something of me, told his friends we were exclusive-which I didn't know we were- and whatnot. I really do like him, I mean he's fun to be around, he's just not someone I can over invest emotionally invest in.He's visiting in the next couple weeks and is making it a point to spend a lot of time with me, i guess introduce me to his mom. He's lived a few states away for the last year and thats why we broke it off, and we really havent talked.He knows a lot of really beautiful girls who are actually interesting but I guess, coming from his friends, he doesnt go after many and they're still surprised he was so heavily into me.I guess my question is why me? I know I'm pretty and I'm funny, smart, everything everyone else explains themselves as, this isn't an issue of low self esteem. I just really am baffled that out of everyone he knows he's honed in on me, and has kept these feelings even though we havent talked for a while.
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reader, Queen_mermaid  +, writes (7 June 2013):
Now that's difficult to answer. Maybe he find that spark in you that he did not find in anyone else.
I think you should go straight to him and ask him the reason for that. Actually he will give you a straight answer than any of us here will be able to give you :)
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reader, playitagain-sam +, writes (5 June 2013):
I don't think its unusual for someone to still have feelings a year later. Especially since the relationship never fully materialized.
So long as its not coming from some kind of desperation on his part, then I think its alright. Maybe he has dated other girls and realized they don't compare to you.
Whatever it is, he's interested, so how do you feel?
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