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Hi!!! I am a 28 year old lesbian, living and enjoying life in london. I am an avid writer and reader. I also enjoy the beach and the company of close friends. I hope to help people and may look for help from time to time. I am in a committed relationship, and have been for the past 3 years now.

After sex she has burning sensation,what is this from?

Q.   my girlfriend is on the pill and everytime we have sex her vagina starts to burn when we are finished is my sperm doing this?...

A.   10 October 2010: Anonymous, What kind of burning are you talking about, is it sharp and painful or is does she just feel warm? If it is just a hot feeling that radiates it is probably just the normal result of sex. I become very warm after a session and can feel... (read in full...)

I hate being so skinny and want to gain weight!

Q.   I want to gain weight, but don't know how. Im an 18 yr old female, about 5 ft 2 in and somewhere between 90-98 lbs...the women on both my mothers and fathers side of the family are skinny, petite women. and i have a very fast metabolism. Um, ...

A.   10 October 2010: lil_g, Congratulations on your sobriety, and may you continue to have success. As for a diet that will increase your weight, you might try eating more meats. Beef and pork are very calorie dense and provide heavy proteins to the body. However ... (read in full...)

Why does sex hurt more on my period?

Q.   Why does sex hurt more when im on my period? It doesn't always hurt the whole time of intercourse, but it does eventually hurt at some point EVERY time. Im more aroused when on my period, but sometimes it even hurts enough to bring tears (i almost n...

A.   10 October 2010: lil_g, The period is a painful time to begin with, and the fact that you are even remotely horny during it is completely opposite to my experience. I wouldn't touch the last man on earth with a ten foot poll during mine. Thats said, you are more... (read in full...)

I need help to know if I'm ready for sex!

Q.   Hey me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 7months and I don't know if we are ready for 'it'. We have been discussing sex for the past few days and I'm scared. I think I am ready but he really wants to do it because he loves me so much and ...

A.   7 October 2010: Makeout, If you are concerned that you will regret it you probably will, and are not ready to make this step in your relationship. Your other questions are easy enough. 1. Foreplay. You need to set the mood by kissing and relaxing maybe even som... (read in full...)

Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?

Q.   Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?...

A.   7 October 2010: Clarification: Germs are germs, and the male genitals are an area where they can freely enter the body. No he will not get sore dick because of her sore throat, but he could catch what she has. And then they both will be sick. Bad idea.... (read in full...)

I don't want to live in an abusive environment but I'm confused.

Q.   I have been in limbo for nearly a year, the stress is presenting viscerally now and my indecision is hurting all the people I care about and I really need help deciding what to do. I have been married for a year and a half, together three y...

A.   7 October 2010: Anonymous, What utter BS! "I don't want to hurt my husband"... Your husband is an utter psychopath for the way he treats you. I wanted to slap you for basically allowing him to get away with it and not standing up for yourself. Your relations... (read in full...)

Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?

Q.   Can you give a guy a blowjob even if you have a sore throat?...

A.   7 October 2010: Anonymous, I really think that you should not, for a couple of reason. I am all for bjs but there are somethings you need to consider, primarily his and your health. As for yours, it could really hurt to have something as imposing as dick in your ... (read in full...)

I love her and want to wait for her, but she wants to finish raising her children first

Q.   I'm 30 yrs old female in love with married female of 26 yrs and we are deeply in love and adoration of each other. We are also having physical relation. The thing is that she's not ready to leave her husband and 3 yr old boy at all for me. She's ...

A.   6 October 2010: Anonymous, Your question strikes me as odd for 2 reasons. First, that she is content to let you go, maybe never see her again, and that her husband is enabling that behavior. And secondly, because you speak of her as if she is the only one for you ... (read in full...)

Hinting as being gay, but messed up coming out completely

Q.   Lately, I have been wanting to come out. on my calendar I wrote "National Coming Out Day!" And I am starting to record the l word. I am 13. and 110% percent sure I am a lesbian. So, I am trying to come out. But, really messed up. I told my mom I wa...

A.   6 October 2010: Anonymous, I am glad you liked the advise, and I hope you strongly consider talking to your mom. As I said before there will be plenty if time ti come out, just enjoy life. Hopefully you find a girl you like and begin dating her. But for now havi... (read in full...)

Morally confused about lesbianism.. Don't know what to do?

Q.   Morally confused about Lesbianism. Dont know what to do??? I am 25 and married, been w/ my husband for 9 years,since I was 16.He was my 1st boyfriend.I have felt sort of attracted 2 other girls since middle school, but I always just convince...

A.   6 October 2010: Anonymous, I am sorry for both the long wait and reply, I had to get my, metaphorical, ducks in a row, "quack quack"; I also had to be certain that my brain was fit to be picked at. Although after the quacking I am not so sure anymore, mhmm : ). ... (read in full...)

I'm a bit of a novice where sex is concerned... help!

Q.   I'm a 15 year old girl and have a girlfriend of the same age, I'm soon to be 16 and I think she will want to have sex. Now I don't mind it, it's just, she has had past experience, and I haven't, so I wont really know what I'm doing and I would have ...

A.   5 October 2010: Hatz, I am impressed that you are very content with yourself to say that you have a girlfriend in an open forum at your age. When I was 15 I was certainly not as brave as you are. That said I am sure if you talk with your girlfriend you will find... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to live with her ex!

Q.   So....I'm a lesbian in a long distance relationship. We've met online and we've planned to see each other. But then one day, she and her ex boyfriend who i didn't really worry about, made a plan. To move to California, Which is just a state over ...

A.   5 October 2010: Anonymous, You seriously need to consider the commitment level of this girl you are dating. This statement about her makes me seriously doubt the truth of her love for you: "before she was with the same guy, the ex, just living off him, was tryi... (read in full...)

How did others get over this?

Q.   Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this ...

A.   5 October 2010: MeShell, I all can say is that comes with time, there is not sure fire way to null the pain in your heart without causing damage. Just don't let yourself dwell on him, even if he has that much of your heart. I hope you get to feeling less in pain... (read in full...)

My female friend calls me late at night and talks for hours, does this mean she is gay?

Q.   ok, am a female and i have a ladyfriend that was married,now she's not. and she calls me late at night and we talk for hours about everything.do this mean she is gay or what..i been thinking!!...

A.   5 October 2010: Prodonna, You really need to sit down talk with your friend. I am going out on a limb and guessing that she is not a lesbian, unless you spend hours on the phone discussing sex in graphic detail. In that case you would probably already know or at l... (read in full...)

Does it hurt really bad the first time you do it?

Q.   Does it hurt really bad the first time you do it? How do you know you've chosen the right person to do it with? Im kinda unsure so i need help!...

A.   5 October 2010: Anonymous, It is hard to say, to each woman it is different. For some it is almost unbearable and others it is like a light prick. You may be anywhere in between. For me it was painful for the moment but as things progressed it hurt less. I als... (read in full...)

I'm 15 in a month and I masturbate 5-9 times a week. Do you think I should try and cut down? ...

Q.   How much do you think a 14 year old girl should masterbate? Is about 5-8 times a week too much?...

A.   5 October 2010: Ellabells, I am re-responding to your question, which looks like the same as yesterday's, with a very similar response. I do not see anything weird about your masturbation routine. Everyone has their own unique sex drive, and as such will desire d... (read in full...)

Blood, but not period, from a virgin

Q.   Dear Cupid. Ok so on Friday when i was done using the restroom i wiped myself. As i wiped myself i saw blood and i figured damm i got my period. So i put on a pad and expected to see it very bloody the next morning when i didnt see NO BLOOD AT ...

A.   5 October 2010: Anonymous, There are several things this could be. I really reccomend you find a doctor or trusted adult to talk to this about. Without being there neither I nor anyone here can give you a definitive answer about what is going on, but i shall li... (read in full...)

How did others get over this?

Q.   Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this ...

A.   5 October 2010: MeShell, I find that getting over someone is different for everyone and for different partners. For example my first break up, it was talking to friends and crying a lot that got me through. I eventually found another and when we broke up, I only n... (read in full...)

Untitled and Undefined: The Way it Should Be

Q.   Dear Cupid, My name is Rebecca. I am a 20-year old aspiring journalist. Oh god, what a dreadful introduction. Is that supposed to summarize who I am? How god-awful is that! More so, how god-awful is it that that's how I would naturally begin ...

A.   5 October 2010: Beauty, It seems you are dancing the fine line. I know from experience that it will most likely lead to a disastrous result. On the one hand your family means a lot to you and you could end up distancing yourself from them by continuing to purs... (read in full...)

Questions on having a threesome!

Q.   Threesome or not? I would like some input on threesomes (or more). Do you regret it? Was the orgasm more mind blowing than being with a single partner? Was it worth it? Would you do it again? Did it cause trouble with your partner? ...

A.   5 October 2010: Anonymous, Your question seems to be pointing to a deeper insecurity within yourself that you have on this topic. I however do have the answer to your questions. I am going to answer your questions in reverse order building up to the "Threeso... (read in full...)

He says he CAN'T marry me!!!

Q.   i trust him but he broke my trust but now I'm very worried what to do? i have to marry someone else but please please tell me how can i hide this from my futur husband that I'm not virgin. plssss plsss dont say that i should tell him the truth.... ...

A.   5 October 2010: Sonaly, Virginity is the one thing you can't undo. I do not know what is causing your anxiety about not being a virgin, but what ever it is you need to realize that some acts cannot be undone. There is not cream nor medicine that will restore your... (read in full...)

I have been in love with my best friend for a few years now!

Q.   i have been in love with my best friend for a few years now and i hate the fact i have to feel this way. you can't help it. it comes naturally. we have known each other for over 7 years. i want to tell her how i feel about her but im terrified of ...

A.   5 October 2010: Anonymous, I am going to disagree with TimmD on the first obvious question, which should be: Are you Lesbian/Gay/Bi/ect? Just because your feelings for you same sex friend are strong does not necessarily make then sexual or romantic. You sa... (read in full...)

Morally confused about lesbianism.. Don't know what to do?

Q.   Morally confused about Lesbianism. Dont know what to do??? I am 25 and married, been w/ my husband for 9 years,since I was 16.He was my 1st boyfriend.I have felt sort of attracted 2 other girls since middle school, but I always just convince...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, I normally would not respond to those who believe my life choice is morally wrong, but I can tell that you are in need of perspective. I will not try to convince you that your belief system is wrong, just as I would hope you would let ... (read in full...)

Don't know how to snog.

Q.   Okay, I'm 13, im really nervous about saying this... especially on here. I don't know how to snog/tongue my boyfriend. He says to me last week, "You won't even tongue me." And i don't know what to do! I don't know how to! Can somebody exp...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, At 13 I am surprised you have a boyfriend, and serious enough about him that you are willing to snog him. Kissing and holding hands is a big enough step, are you sure that you like this guy enough to have his tongue in your mouth and your... (read in full...)

Help! What can I do to enjoy sex more?

Q.   hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old female and me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times ever yday. i am not that into sex but i do it for him. he enjoys it a lot and i wanna enjoy it too but i dont know why i don't enjoy it that much. yea i kinda like it ...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, If you are only having sex for him then you will never enjoy it as much as you want. It seems to me that you and your boyfriend have a mismatched libido, meaning he wants is 2-3 times per day, where you might only want it 2-3 per week... (read in full...)

He knows I like him, I think he likes me

Q.   Hi, i know nearly every girl says this but i am really struggling to understand the male mind! I really need some advice on my current situation... This boy who i like, knows that i like him and i think he sort of feels the same way. I havent k...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, I can't pretend to understand the male psyche any better then you do. All I can hope is my experience is enough to shed a different light on to your problem. For what I can tell you are way over thinking what is actually going on. It s... (read in full...)

I want to lose my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend! What should I do?

Q.   I'm nearly 15 and I really want to give up my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend or know anyone that would want to have sex with me. What should I do?...

A.   4 October 2010: Ellabells, I wish to advise caution to you, as loosing your virginity is not something to take lightly. I am curious as to why you are in such an immediate rush to have sex, and lose your virgin status, especially given that you haven't even turn... (read in full...)

Do I masturbate too much?

Q.   Is it weird for a 14 year old girl to masterbate nearly every day?...

A.   4 October 2010: Ellabells, I do not see anything weird about your masturbation routine. Everyone has their own unique sex drive, and as such will desire different levels of pleasure. When I was 14, i only masturbated about twice per week, but when I was 19 I was ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend treats me like a kid!

Q.   I'm 16, my bf is 18; he treats me like a little kid all the time! Seriously, I know I'm still growing up but really! So is he! I really do love him but I'm tired of being treated like a 10 year old... help?...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, Have you talked to your boyfriend about your concerns? I would suggest that as a place to start. I suggest that when you bring it up you tell him that it has been bothering you and that it is effecting your feelings about the rela... (read in full...)

Hinting as being gay, but messed up coming out completely

Q.   Lately, I have been wanting to come out. on my calendar I wrote "National Coming Out Day!" And I am starting to record the l word. I am 13. and 110% percent sure I am a lesbian. So, I am trying to come out. But, really messed up. I told my mom I wa...

A.   4 October 2010: Anonymous, Your question caught my eye as both a lesbian but also as an older female. At 13 you seen too focused on the labels and coming out. I encourage you to think less about the labels and more about the people you like. There will be plenty o... (read in full...)

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