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writes:hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old female and me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times ever yday. i am not that into sex but i do it for him. he enjoys it a lot and i wanna enjoy it too but i dont know why i don't enjoy it that much. yea i kinda like it but i wanna enjoy it more (i wanna make it wild for him) does anyone have any suggestions??thanks!! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 October 2010):
 I agree with the Princess. You might just need more time between sessions. Maybe it's starting to feel like a chore, or just getting too routine? I know when my fella gets like that I start to feel like a piece of meat and I'm just not quite as into it.
Maybe you need to take a break and have a reason for having sex, not just because you have extra time. Maybe you need to have that moment where you are going crazy with lust and jump his bones. When you're having sex that often, there's no time to let the anticipation grow!!
As for spicing it up, there are endless possibilities. Go pick up a copy of Cosmo and get just a sampling of the latest and greatest moves. But, don't just make it wild for him, make it wild for you too! Find new things that you might be into, that will get you exciting about climbing into the sack. Good luck!
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reader, Princess_Rae  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Anonymous,
If you are only having sex for him then you will never enjoy it as much as you want. It seems to me that you and your boyfriend have a mismatched libido, meaning he wants is 2-3 times per day, where you might only want it 2-3 per week. I suggest maybe cutting back on the quantity for each day and focus more on the duration and quality of the sex. If you can have 1 intense session per day, where you both reach orgasm, you might feel closer to him and certainly might enjoy the sex more.
There are several was to spice up your sex life, but some of them especially those that are more kinky require you to enjoy the sex as much as he does. I would talk with your partner about what he wants to do and not do in your sex life. Have a conversation about his likes and dislikes and maybe even experiment a bit to find yours. You will only know somethings when they happen. I hope you get to enjoy sex and have fun doing so.
With Love,
Princess Rae
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