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Do I masturbate too much?

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Question - (4 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2010)
A female New Zealand age 26-29, *llabells writes:

Is it weird for a 14 year old girl to masterbate nearly every day?

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (4 October 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntNo, it's not weird. Unusual though may be a better word. But everyone's different and this is just you doing what feels normal to you. It's not a bad idea to masturbate and find out how your body responds to different stimulations. This way when you are ready and able to have sex, you'll have an idea of what is pleasurable to you and what is not. I wouldn't worry about this too much, there are worse habits to have like nose picking for example...very gross :p

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A female reader, Princess_Rae United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2010):

Princess_Rae agony auntEllabells,

I do not see anything weird about your masturbation routine. Everyone has their own unique sex drive, and as such will desire different levels of pleasure. When I was 14, i only masturbated about twice per week, but when I was 19 I was masturbating at least twice a day. So do not be alarmed if your masturbation changes over time. This may in fact just be a faze that you are going through as you grow into your body.

However, if your masturbation is taking time away from your school or other activities then you may need to think about cutting out a session or two. Self-pleasure only should go as far you have the spare time for, and need eat away at the time needed for homework and your other activities.

Also, I would encourage you as sexually curious teenage to sit down and talk with an adult, female preferably, that you can trust about sex. If you are masturbating that often you have probably considered sex before and should talk with an adult to get a better understanding of sex and its consequences. I wish you the best luck as you grow and experience the world around you, and hope that you follow your heart wherever you go.

With Love,

Princess_Rae

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010):

Not at all... My partner said she did so from age of 13.

There is NOTHING wrong with masturbation, and no-one should tell you otherwise unless they are some kind of messed up religious nut.

I know as a guy, I did... more than once a day.

Have fun with it :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010):

No, you are young and it's normal. People are differnt, but everyone does it, in private, unless their super religious of course.

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