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writes:Threesome or not?I would like some input on threesomes (or more). Do you regret it? Was the orgasm more mind blowing than being with a single partner? Was it worth it? Would you do it again? Did it cause trouble with your partner?
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reader, Princess_Rae  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Anonymous,Your question seems to be pointing to a deeper insecurity within yourself that you have on this topic. I however do have the answer to your questions. I am going to answer your questions in reverse order building up to the "Threesome+ or not".As for causing trouble, we knew going into the act what our intentions were, so No there was no trouble with my lovely partner after the threesome. I think this one will depend on wether or not you and your partner enter the threesome with similar expectations. If you want or your partner are only doing this for the other, then the whole thing will blow up dramatically and cause trouble. As for doing it again, I would certainly consider it beforehand with my partner and on the condition that it will only happen if we both want it to. I guess, for you this one will depend on the consequence of the first threesome you have. Remember though that just because one might have been amazing, not all threesomes are created equal.The orgasm was not necessarily better or worse then any of my others. I certainly have had better with single partner and definitely had worse. In a way the orgasm was in a separate category from those that i have had with a single partner, just because of how different it was. I think this just depends on your relationship with your partner, and your relationship with the person you bring into your relationship with your partner. If you cannot already tell, I did not regret the threesome I shared with my partner. We both we into it with good intentions, had a great time and helped someone in the process. I am sure if you go into the threesome with the right expectations and intentions, you will not regret it but grow from the experience. So to answer your question: Maybe. A threesome or more is something you need to take serious. When you plan to bring another into your relationship think about everything you are sharing with that person and if you can handle temporarily not being your partners only focus, and vice versa. I hope my answers and thoughts have helped you think about this, and I wish you the best of luck in what ever choice you make.Love,Princess Rae
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