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9 November 2009: For those who have a crush on their teacher; When I was 14 I moved into this teacher's group. He was really flattered by this and wanted to speak to me, see me all of the time. But only in terms of work in the beginning. People generally didn...
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My g/f considers himself infallable and the best a girl could hope for
Q. Hi I am 25 year old working gal.. 2 years back :i have been a wonderfull gal.. smart.. intelligent, lively and confident..I have been chat freak and got into a relationship with one of my chat friends.. we met and i really fell in love with the gu...
A. 24 April 2010: What a f**king weirdo. Run like hell!... (read in full...)
Student-teacher relationships, and the importance of keeping it strictly professional
Q. I met my social studies teacher in 6th grade and since that day I've never stopped liking himm. On a personal level him nd I are best of friends on a professional level we're still best of friends and its because we get each other I get him he gets ...
A. 31 March 2010: YES!!!!... (read in full...)
Student-teacher relationships, and the importance of keeping it strictly professional
Q. I met my social studies teacher in 6th grade and since that day I've never stopped liking himm. On a personal level him nd I are best of friends on a professional level we're still best of friends and its because we get each other I get him he gets ...
A. 30 March 2010: I dont think you need to grow up.. ur only 14 for gods sake! lol. I would worry if this guy likes you.. you are far far too young for him to consider you in that way. You are a child, and if he is attracted to you that makes him a paedophile. You ... (read in full...)
I think my teacher knows I fancy him! Help!
Q. Hey. I don't know if my teacher know I like him. I've liked my reacher for just over a year now and he wasn't at my parent teacher meetings so my mum and dad made an appointment to go and see him and I was there. Well he jokes with me and...
A. 9 March 2010: :S I would hope teachers would lose more than just their jobs if they tried it on with a girl under the age of 15. Infact id hope they'd land their names on the sex offenders register and spend a few years in prison. If a teacher ever acts on any ... (read in full...)
Loving a teacher...
Q. First of all, I'm 14 years old and he's somewhere between 28-35.I know this doesn't sound right but I've really got a problem in here.It's been three years already and I cannot get over him.This feeling is growing stronger and stronger because I ...
A. 9 March 2010: :S:S:S You don't want him to notice you trust me. I had a crush on my teacher when i was your age also. And for me it went somewhere- he fancied me also, we fancied eachother things progressed to the point where he was touching me and getting me to ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my teacher and I'm very confused.
Q. I'm attracted to my teacher!? I know that there is a lot of questions on many websites about students being in love with a teacher, but its a confusing time. I'm attracted to my teacher. I wouldn't say its love... but i cant stop thinking about h...
A. 9 March 2010: Be careful. I had a crush on a teacher when i was your age and i prayed desperately prayed for it to go somewhere-- for him to want me and for us to end up together. And you know what? I got my wish-- but it stands to be careful for what you wish ... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher and I don't know if I should tell him...
Q. Hi everyone, I wondered if anyone can help me. I am 16 and I am really friendly with a 32 year old male teacher at my school. He is like a best friend to me he has helped me through some really tough times in my life. I tell him everything, but I ...
A. 27 December 2009: I am sure if you spend so much time with him-- he already knows u like him. The fact that he spends time with you knowing this is not a good sign. i wud detach a little and spend some time away from him- nothing abrupt and be pleasant. if he fancies ... (read in full...)
My close friend likes my teacher too, it makes me so jealous when she spends time with him!
Q. This is probably the most stupid jealousy question you've heard! But anyway, student-teacher-whatever-you-want-to-call them. I'm in one. One of my teachers is just the nicest guy etc. etc. We get on quite well, and we can have a laugh pretty eas...
A. 27 December 2009: Right well--- for one if anything 'weird' i.e. him touching her, cuddling, brushing up against her anything of this sort is mentioned to you i would urge for you to report it. Secondly, if you want your teacher to be 'put off' your friend as such ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 11 November 2009: But he didnt seem it to begin with...... (read in full...)
The truth about teacher student relationships
Q. For those who have a crush on their teacher; When I was 14 I moved into this teacher's group. He was really flattered by this and wanted to speak to me, see me all of the time. But only in terms of work in the beginning. People generally didn...
A. 9 November 2009: Unfortunately schools are not often concerned with individual students. I did tell the school that i would go to the police; this made no difference to them. I feel its best just to stay away from these situations altogether.... (read in full...)
The truth about teacher student relationships
Q. For those who have a crush on their teacher; When I was 14 I moved into this teacher's group. He was really flattered by this and wanted to speak to me, see me all of the time. But only in terms of work in the beginning. People generally didn...
A. 9 November 2009: This was NEVER love.... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 3 November 2009: Shit,k this guy is a weirdo... please for gods sake stay away froim him. I was sexually abused by a teacher when i was at school from age 14; who behaved EXACTLY how yours is behaving. Please dear god stay away from this man!!! Yes he is nice, of ... (read in full...)
In a student/teacher fantasy, what role does the man prefer to play?
Q. this is going to seem really random, but i need to ask: in student/ teacher fantasies, do most men prefer being the student or the teacher? i ask this because it seems to me that most women i come across prefer to be the student, so i assumed that ...
A. 1 November 2009: Guys generally like dominant role; i.e. teacher. 'Schoolgirl' is a common fetish and is very common in amongst porn. If your boyfriend is the same age as you;; thjere is possibility that he is into being the student. If he is older high probability ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher crossing the line?
Q. Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...
A. 1 November 2009: Doesnt sound right to me. You're over 16 so that makes it less weird, but even still he is meant to be a teacher, meant to be professional. You already know he fancies you he is quite young; however it seems a bit creepy and he shouldnt be touching ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 1 November 2009: Do what you feel is best; i myself feel that you should keep the baby because of course;; no innocent life should be taken on account of a mistake, i also believe you might regret an abortion. However, a baby is obviously a massive responsiblity and ... (read in full...)
If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?
Q. My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an ...
A. 7 October 2009: Hmmmmmmm
Weird. Why is there a teacher going around dating the students? This is not appropriate...
Ok; well all i can say is; whether or not this guy breaks up with his girlfriend i dont think makes any particular difference to your chances.... (read in full...)
In love with my teacher. He is single and I want to get more involved
Q. I've had feelings for my teacher for a while now and I;m pretty sure he feels the same way by the way he talks to me, approaches me, and we even hug and slightly touch sometimes. Anyway, he's single and I want to get more involved but im not sure ...
A. 22 September 2009: Ok;; firstly. Just as comment to those people saying 'you could ruin his job etc.. etc..'' fact is this is very unlikely. Even if you got involved you probably wouldnt ruin his loife; more likely yours. Teachers can get away with alot;; more than ... (read in full...)
How should I tackle things with my cheating hubby...?
Q. Dear Readers Hi! I'm a 31 years married lady and mother of two young kids. I'm beautiful fair and my hubby and his family and friends thought him to be very lucy to wed me I'm married for past 7 years. I can't recall a single day when i could ha...
A. 28 July 2009: Find a lawyer who is sympathetic to your situation;;; or find a lawyer you can befriend and will become sympathetic to your situation. You may find one who will do it at a reduced cost;; people can be touched by the suffering of others;; especially ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused...
Q. I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused. In the past, he had a relationship with another guy but that's not my issue.. We also recently wanted to further our relationship and have sex but he was unable to keep an erection... He's an ...
A. 28 July 2009: I suspect he is a homosexual - although you say he is not. There are overwhelming signs;;; he is introvert and finds it hard to communicate -- may be unsure of himself - including his sexuality. He experimented; well again unsureness of sexuality. ... (read in full...)
Help its my first time today!
Q. okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...
A. 28 July 2009: If he is a few years old than you;; don't. He is obviously experienced yes? Coz he doesn't want sex on top because he will be 'tired'.. but he is obviously insensitive as sex on top will hurt you if you are a virgin. If this guy has pressured you, ... (read in full...)
I'm being pursued by a married man! Not interested! Is it time for me to find another job?
Q. I work with a married man..nice guy but married so I am not interested. The problem is that he is interested in me...I think. He will talk about his wife all day long and then email me in the evening saying he is looking forward to seeing me the ...
A. 28 July 2009: Lol. Just ignore him. He'll get the message; if he doesnt. When he talks about this wife; talk about how much you fancy this guy (made up) that you met out lol.. or whatever. Or talk about a boyfriend (non-existant whatever). If he doesnt get the ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by saying they have a great 'personality'?
Q. Hi Everyone I would like to know: My husband (been married almost 10 y) always says the same thing... What does it mean?When he sees a naked woman, on TV or in the newspaper or in a magazine, he looks her up and down, and says: she looks like s...
A. 28 July 2009: Ask him; why he says it. 'Why do you always say they have a great personality?' Could be sarcasm. I think the bigger question is;; why does it bother you so much? ... (read in full...)
24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!
Q. I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...
A. 28 July 2009: Yuck. The way this teacher is behaving is entirely innappropriate. And no this would be a big deal EVEN if he wasn't your teacher as you are underage. Men who are attracted to young girls under the age of 16;; are much too close to men who are ... (read in full...)
I sent a love letter to my teacher. What would he/she do?
Q. This question is specifically for teachers to answer, but if anyone else wants to have their say then that would also be appreciated. If a pupil gave an innocent love letter to you (by innocent, I mean that she made it clear she is aware of the ...
A. 28 July 2009: Oh. Well how nice of him to make sure to protect himself. (by informing the head). I wish you hadn't gave him a love letter, what happened is standard procedure your teacher was protecting himself from a 'love sick obsessed teenager who might make ... (read in full...)
I've just had sex with my TEACHER!
Q. I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...
A. 28 July 2009: Why did you have sex with your teacher;;; how old is he? What influenced this decision. You are 16/17 years old so not that young - were you a virgin? Are you attracted to this teacher;; how long have you been (if so). Were you pressured, were you ... (read in full...)
Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?
Q. I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...
A. 28 July 2009: This guy is 48??? And is giving you his mobile number and home address... to get help? This is highly HIGHLY innappropriate. And really weird... i don't like this at all. Steer clear of him. Very odd;; teachers should not be giving their mobile ... (read in full...)
I cry because I miss my teacher so much! How can I take my mind of it?
Q. Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see hi...
A. 28 July 2009: This is not good!! Whatever has happened to make you so dependant on seeing him every day? I'm so sorry you feel this way. I used to feel that way; sort of about my teacher. I never cried from not seeing him, but i certainly missed him. years ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher and I accept that we can't be, but I've moved and I miss him too much
Q. I know you've all heard this one a million times before, and I've searched this site for a possible answer to my worries, but I just can't seem to find one for me. I'm 15 years old and I live in the UK. Plus, I'm deeply in love with my teacher....
A. 28 July 2009: Ok;;; i can tell you straight away what yopu have told me is escapism. You had all these issues with your father and immediately you displaced your emotions onto this teacher at school as a way out - as a fantasy you could lose yourself in to get ... (read in full...)
What did my teacher mean when he said "I'm not playing favourites now"?
Q. ok first off me and my bff's were walking down the hall way to get my sweatshirt so we could go outside and 2 of our teacher both menwre standing by the lockers and and to go outside and i said i need my sweatshirt so then the teacher that always ...
A. 28 July 2009: I have no idea-- you need to repeat that again more clearly. i.e.
Is this during lesson or break?
What do you mean he made your friends go outside? Why was this?
Playing favourites between who;; you and your friends?
Ok;;
With that info be... (read in full...)
Does my Piano teacher like me?
Q. I'm 16 and my piano teacher is 28 and I've been noticing a lot of weird things that he does around me and doesn't do around his other female students and I am really confused. Does he like me? (I know dating him would be dangerous and I don't want ...
A. 28 July 2009: Yuck.. Ok well;;; my opinion on this. You are 16, not 18. This makes a difference. I don't necessarily know your laws as I am british - but i read somewhere that age of sexual consent is 18 in america (however i know this varies across states). The ... (read in full...)
I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!
Q. I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...
A. 28 July 2009: Hmmm ok. I take it he is about 30 then? These sort of things depend alot on the personality of the person in question. If he hasn't attempted to make any moves on you, if he hasnt touched you, or behaved innappropriately these are good signs. When ... (read in full...)
My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.
Q. Hi all I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a ma...
A. 26 July 2009: Lol. They are just wasting time getting off on their fantasy that's all. I don't find it threatening i find it amusing. And the way they have written you would consider that they don't expect their partner to read it. The anonymity wouldn't count ... (read in full...)
My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.
Q. Hi all I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a ma...
A. 25 July 2009: Ok. I'll tell you why. Because this person is registered as a male on this site. I don't think its odd that they share an email account i think it is odd they are both signed up to this site in the same name. The reason i think this is odd is ... (read in full...)
My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.
Q. Hi all I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a ma...
A. 24 July 2009: Why are both you and your husband registered to this site? How odd.... (read in full...)
My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.
Q. Hi all I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a ma...
A. 24 July 2009: That's strange.. if your name is sarah.. the why does it say you are male? :) ... (read in full...)
17 and only find men over 40 attractive
Q. As you have probably seen from my last post I am in love with my teacher. But I only seem to be attracted to older men, I dont know why. I have never felt any affection to boys my age. Im 17 years old, im quite friendly to one guy who kissed me th...
A. 24 July 2009: You have a hole somewhere you are trying to fill. Many people say it is a 'daddy-complex' looking for a father figure because yourself do not have one. It is infact usually more complicated than this. Unfortunately i cannot tell you specifically why ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my teacher is flirting?
Q. Hey, im 16 and i have a situation with my teacher.this year i had a teacher who sends me those same mixed signals and i dont know how to take that. in the beginning he treated me badly. i would come late and sleep alot but so did other students...
A. 23 July 2009: Hmmmmmmmm It all sounds a bit creepy to me. 'You know you like me' sounds all too familliar and weird..i don't like any of what i've read. This teacher, as indicated by what you've said, is obviously quite odd anyway as a person and his behaviour ... (read in full...)
Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?
Q. Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...
A. 21 July 2009: Hmmm, well if you were younger i'd be a bit more worried. I am sure you are capable of dealing with this situation accordingly. Essentially I can't tell you what is going on because i need more information to do so; however i can make a few ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??
Q. 1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentr...
A. 21 July 2009: Ok; essentially if this man is 29 and you are 'nearly' 14. Then any attraction he has to you, is very.,.. very wrong and weird. Being attracted to girls under the age of 14 (even 16) actually puts a person into the category of 'paedophile'. This ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should I tell him how I feel... and if so HOW should I tell him?
Q. Hey, I'm writing in hoping that you could give me advice of what to do with my teacher. Usually I'm quite rational in making decisions of what is good or what is bad to do. But more than i think, more I'm confused. That's why i'm asking you for a...
A. 11 June 2009: I meant when a married man is interested in a woman outside of his marriage;; he is usually interested in one thing only. I dont mean that all married men are looking to cheat; i mean the ones who are, want a bit on the side. Out to ruin her day lol ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should I tell him how I feel... and if so HOW should I tell him?
Q. Hey, I'm writing in hoping that you could give me advice of what to do with my teacher. Usually I'm quite rational in making decisions of what is good or what is bad to do. But more than i think, more I'm confused. That's why i'm asking you for a...
A. 7 June 2009: Lol. Difficult; the biggest problem i find with married men is they are always looking for their 'bit on the side'. Generally, they would like to have all of a good thing. Because he is married, and still married he therefore either loves his wife ... (read in full...)
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