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*rishLeprechaun
writes:Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see him again in September. I guess I'm asking, how can I take my mind off of him? Like last night I burst out crying because I miss him so much. Thank you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): hey,
i have had a crush on my teacher for years now, and he left for good and i miss him SO bad.
BUT i'll tell you what helps me stop crying as much and takes my mind of it. i have recently start'd going out with friends more and that has taken my mind of him. i have also spoken to someone about my feelings for my teacher that left my school and things.
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (28 July 2009):
This is not good!! Whatever has happened to make you so dependant on seeing him every day? I'm so sorry you feel this way. I used to feel that way; sort of about my teacher. I never cried from not seeing him, but i certainly missed him. years toughened me, and alot went wrong. In the end it nearly destroyed my life; i miss the past alot, i wish sometimes that i could go back and be 14-15 again when things were simple and i could just fancy my teacher and the biggest worry in my life was whether or not he fancied me too. I don't know about you;; but i felt this way because there was nothing much else in my life. I had one close friend, was badly bullied, not close to my parents and was very lonely and felt isolated and dissatisfied. What is it in you life that you are dissatisfied with, that is making you lonely, that is meaning that you are dependant on fantasy rather than living life? There is obviously something missing and maybe this is what you should concentrate on.
I hope things get better, i hope this attraction passes - don't let it consume you. I'm still consumed by what i felt and still feel for my teacher and this was because i persued him. It wasn't that he didnt return my attractions - he did, very much so. Only problem was these attractions were not what i had wanted. He tried to blackmail me into sexual favours by saying he wouldn't help me anymore lest i gave him something back- then lowered my grade when i refused.
This is quite extreme;; but is what can sometimes happen when you persue teachers. Try not to focus on fantasy and live in reality for a while ;; perhaps consider the holiday as a break from trying to impress or see or think about him and think of it as 'me' time; for you to do things that he would usually distract you from doing(when you would prefer fantasise about him)
Hope things get better x
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 awww, retrofashionista. I'm in the same situation!when school let out this year, I started sobbing uncontrollably because I knew I wouldn't get to see him for 2 months so I completely understand.
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