Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?
Q. Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our ...
A. 30 March 2009: Yes... You very well could be.
Why in the world did you have unprotected sex?... (read in full...)
Am I right to tell my wife to drop this stupid idea?
Q. I have a situation which could have serious ramifications for other people, not just my wife and I. My wife and I are married for 7 years now, have 2 great kids, and are timing out having a 3rd child. The issue is, when I was younger (18-19),...
A. 29 March 2009: Oh me... Please just leave it alone. You may be this little boys "father" but you are not his daddy. He has a dad. He has a mom. He has, more than likely, bonded with his paternal family. This could very well ruin lives. Even this little boys ... (read in full...)
Birth control options & opinions
Q. I posted a question like this yesterday but I didn't get many replies. So, I'm posting again and hope to get a few more answers than last time. Anyway, I'm 13 years old and I'm getting put on Birth Control next week. I was wanting the shot but my ...
A. 29 March 2009: With ALL forms of birth control, there are possible weight gain side effects. Usually less that 10 pounds. Its water retention, and usually passes after about 3 months. The water weight is usually unnoticed.
I would never ever recommend the pill... (read in full...)
What happens in the 1st weeks of pregnancy?
Q. Hey,im just wondering what happens in the first week of pregnancy?do you have certain syntoms or you feel different?if you drink is there a risk of loosing your baby?my friend is not sure that she's pregnant but she's been feeling weird this past ...
A. 28 March 2009: You don't begin to feel any symptoms until you are about 6-8 weeks along. Which is about 4-6 weeks after conception (unprotected sex). One of the very first symptoms she would feel is very soar breasts. Following that would be morning sickness ... (read in full...)
Situation with teacher and me and I don't know what to do.
Q. I haven't spoken in a year (to my teacher) had a bad time with him, I am leaving school in 4 weeks and I somehow want to talk to him and ask why he never spoke back to me when he promised he would never ignore me when he did so harshly. I want to...
A. 25 March 2009: Your very *BEST* bet is to just leave it alone...
Just do something with your time. Think about a summer job, maybe? Or get involved in summer school. Send time with your friends this summer. Get involved in a club. Do something with your time so ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby by this guy?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he asked me recently do I want to have a baby with him. He already has 2 kids already and I told him if we do decide to kids and if we're still together maybe within the next 1-2 years. The mother ...
A. 25 March 2009: Wow. As the other aunt said, 2 kids under 1 year, been with you 6 months? Wants yet another baby? Something isn't right here. You guys are VERY early in your relationship when you are still infatuated. Wait until you pass that phase before thinking ... (read in full...)
Questions for pregnant or formerly pregnant women
Q. Hi there. I'm a little over 5 months along and and I have a lot of questions. Even if you only answer a few, I'd really appreciate it. 1- my breasts are pretty large now, will they stay that way? or be bigger after I'm done breastfeeding? I...
A. 25 March 2009: Wow... I will try to answer all of your questions to the best of my ability...
1. I was a VERY small B cup when I got pregnant. Basically an A cup. 34 in band. When I was about 9 months pregnant I measured at nearly a D cup. After my daughter... (read in full...)
Situation with teacher and me and I don't know what to do.
Q. I haven't spoken in a year (to my teacher) had a bad time with him, I am leaving school in 4 weeks and I somehow want to talk to him and ask why he never spoke back to me when he promised he would never ignore me when he did so harshly. I want to...
A. 24 March 2009: He did the right thing by letting this go. I know its not something you understand now, and probably won't for many years. He is an adult, and you are a minor child. I honestly don't know how it is on that side of the pond, but in the states, a ... (read in full...)
Not having my period a week later mean anything?
Q. I am 19. My bf and I always use a condom when we have sex but about a month ago when we were messing around I sat on his lap with his penis in me for a few seconds, and we didn't think anything about it. But we started worrying when I didn't have my ...
A. 22 March 2009: They are pretty darn accurate after a missed period. The results you got were more than likely the real results. Try again in a week if still no period... ... (read in full...)
Not having my period a week later mean anything?
Q. I am 19. My bf and I always use a condom when we have sex but about a month ago when we were messing around I sat on his lap with his penis in me for a few seconds, and we didn't think anything about it. But we started worrying when I didn't have my ...
A. 21 March 2009: I would recommend taking a home pregnancy test...
I never understand why people come on here to ask US if they think they are pregnant. Its not as if we have magic powers and can tell you that kind of stuff... If there is question in your min... (read in full...)
Should I wait till the 6 weeks is up or take it that I am not pregnant?
Q. Heya. I was just wondering, I have had my last period about 4 1/2 weeks ago which normally I don't have a period for like 6 Weeks. But recently I have been very tired, aching and some white quite thick sticky discharge. I have been told these are ...
A. 21 March 2009: deejuliet is correct and on point.
Agreed.... (read in full...)
Kitchen a good place for sex?
Q. Is the kitchen a good location for sex? Did you do it on the floor, counter, table, chairs, or other places? What positions did you use and enjoy? Was it a fun location for sex? I think it would be fun to make human sundaes with my boyfriend. Us...
A. 19 March 2009: Never heard the term 71, but it makes sense...
Sure. I've had sex in the kitchen. I mean, its not like it was planned. And its not a room I sit an fantasize about. What made it fun was that it was spontaneous. Out of no where, I ended up bent ove... (read in full...)
Pregnancy and having sex!
Q. I'm 21 weeks pregnant. I know that as long as you are told it's okay to have sex by your doctor you are in the clear. The only thing that I was wondering, and quite embarrassed to ask my doc, is does it matter how rough you do it? My husband and I ...
A. 19 March 2009: You can have a healthy, "frisky" sex life, without harming anything. Keep in mind that the baby is in your uterus, not your vagina. Two completely different parts of the body... (Yes, they are near to eachother, but still not the same thing.) The ... (read in full...)
Masturbation and carrots!
Q. I'm 13. I went to my friends house to sleep over and I got a bit drunk. Ok a lot drunk. Her brother who is 16 was with us the whole time. I remember me and my friend masturbating, with carrots, but recently I've been itchy and I think I had sex with ...
A. 19 March 2009: Now, now, now, first aunt. That was uncalled for.
Yes, sweetheart, you are a little to young to be heading down this path. You probably have an infection. I am assuming the carrots were raw. Possibly very dirty. (Keep in mind, they *do* grow in ... (read in full...)
I used the Plan B pill and denied it! Now he accuses me of lying when he has told me so many, himself! Is this fair?
Q. Ok... So I come on here regularly and give advice every once in a while, but now, I really need to hear others opinions. I posted this question last night, but didn't get much responce. So, can anyone help? Ok. My boyfriend and I went on ...
A. 18 March 2009: To rythmnblues- I don't speak up because if I do, he gets pissed and says I'm being "bitchy". No matter how calm or nice I try to be. If I come to him about anything, he shuts down and "stonewalls". If I don't let it go, he will end it with, "I'm ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 18 March 2009: I wish you the best with the counseling. But, as I stated before, if your unwilling to see her view of the situation, accept it as how she felt, then it will get you no where and she will see right through it as just another act to get her ... (read in full...)
Bump after unprotected sex 3 weeks ago..pregnant?
Q. Hi, im 15 and 3 week ago i had sex for the first time, and we didnt use protection, i know it was stupid not to, but now ive started putting on weight, to form a sort of bump on my stomach, and people have started asking if im pregnant, and i keep ...
A. 18 March 2009: Honestly, it sounds like your bloated, gassy and maybe constipated. In all honesty, I'm not trying to embarrass you. Try increasing your water intake, maybe up the fiber a little bit...
I was very petite when I conceived my daughter and didn't e... (read in full...)
How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?
Q. I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?...
A. 17 March 2009: What armymedic said was sooo very true. Guys REALLY do say that kind of rubbish when they find these kind of things out, usually in the order that he stated it. I found it incredibly funny. I was not laughing at you or your situation. Wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?
Q. I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?...
A. 15 March 2009: LMAO @ armymedic
That was fuuny.... (read in full...)
He flirts like crazy on line, but I don't think he would really cheat. Do you think this is ok behaviour?
Q. I am getting married in 2 months. My fiance and I have a great relationship, however, sometimes I find it hard to trust him. I have found a few emails he has had with other girls, flirting and asking them to come over. We have had open ...
A. 12 March 2009: I agree with the other aunt. I hope you don't expect this to change once you two are legally married! If he is doing this, and knows you know, and knows it bothers you, but keeps on, you have a big problem! One that should be addressed *BEFORE* a ... (read in full...)
Follow up: In college and pregnant - am I overreacting to my doctor's remarks?
Q. I'm a 21 year old college student about to graduate with my biology degree and i've just found out i am pregnant. I posted a few days ago about how i didn't know if i wanted an abortion or not and i am still undecided. Well the plot has thickene...
A. 10 March 2009: Wow! Your going to an ob before the abortion clinic?! Honestly, I would sit down and figure out what I want before stepping foot in an ob office where they may try and sway your decision. On top of being offered a scan possibly and seeing pregnant ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I should tell him and explain why I did it, or keep it hidden.
Q. Little advice here please! I had an abortion last year and only told my best friend, and sister. They encouraged me to have the abortion, and at the time I thought it was for the best. I was in the middle of exams and just weren't ready for a baby. ...
A. 10 March 2009: I would first ask how he would feel if his partner had an abortion. If he says it would be a deal breaker, you have to figure out if now is the right time to tell him, if you ever do? Wouldn't it be good to just wait for a better time?... (read in full...)
Follow up: In college and pregnant - am I overreacting to my doctor's remarks?
Q. I'm a 21 year old college student about to graduate with my biology degree and i've just found out i am pregnant. I posted a few days ago about how i didn't know if i wanted an abortion or not and i am still undecided. Well the plot has thickene...
A. 10 March 2009: Hmmm... It would be hard to tell without hearing his tone and how he said it. Sometimes, in situations like these, our emotions can be raw and even the littlest thing said at the wrong time, can really rub us the wrong way... If you really don't ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: John, you may never cross that road. You messed up big time. Just learn from it and never treat another girl that way.... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: I very much agree on that, Tomas. Every part. Good job. ;-)... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: Well, that would piss any normal, sane human being off. More than likely felt like one big head game: "come on! Please! Your my girlfriend! I need it!" That goes on and on and on and on. Then she *finally* caves and says fine; just do it, just to ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: *is wishing Tomas would take John under his wing and be his mentor* :-)... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: John, you said yourself that you would yell and scream, and what not. Have you ever thought that maybe she stopped speaking up because she just didn't want to hear you yell and scream?... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: Thank you, Tomas. That was very wise. I'm glad a man finally said something...
I agree with him. If she said no, and made it clear that she didn't want sex but you pressured her into giving it up, and you took it knowing she didn't want it, that... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: Thank you, Tomas. That was very wise. I'm glad a man finally said something...
I agree with him. If she said no, and made it clear that she didn't want sex but you pressured her into giving it up, and you took it knowing she didn't want it, that... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: What just frustrates me, John, is that you just...don't...get...it.
She was in the early stages of pregnancy.
She was in HORRIBLE, TRIMENDOUS PAIN, and you are actually pushing her, and bullying for sex or *anything* of that nature?
Becau... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left me
Q. Ok here is my situation. My pregnant girlfriend has left me and is claiming that I verbally and sexually abused her. We had been together 8 months and she was 2 months pregnant when she left. She is 24 and I am 34. She has a four year old son from a ...
A. 8 March 2009: Omg! *claps loudly at Tisha's response* that was really, really great to read... I was reading this and thinking the entire time that this sounded SO much like an abusive relationship I was in when I was 17 and 18...
Look, I'm gunna be honest h... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex and the pill
Q. My boyfriend and I have always been very (perhaps obsessively) worried and careful about contreception. However, recently, I started taking the pill, so we 'relaxed' a little the other night. I have never missed one, always taken it properly and ...
A. 1 March 2009: No! Do not stop taking your pills. Birth control can sometimes cause "break through" bleeding. (Bleeding/spotting between cycles) if you have been taking your pills properly, on time and not missing any, you should be just fine. Don't worry, ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy cramps - is this normal or should I consult a different doctor?
Q. please don't tell me to ask my doctor about this because i have and she didn't give me an answer. i was wondering if any other pregnant women have had cramps and felt there abdomen harden. i know that's a sign of it contracting, but i get it once or ...
A. 28 February 2009: Yep. Sounds like a braxton hicks contraction. Which are just "practice" contraction. They are normal. Happens to most women. Towards the end of my pregnancy, I would have them multiple times a day. As long as there is no blood, and they are not ... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
Anyone involved with a cop?
Q. Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a ...
A. 7 February 2009: I must disagree with rcn...
My boyfriend is a cop. And we have been together for some time now, and trust me baby, I have learned so darn much about men in law enforcement...
Good ones are very hard to fine. I know a lot of people are going... (read in full...)
Will a condom be safe enough, or will I need to take the morning after pill?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have decided to sleep together, I am not on the pill (I had a bad time with it years ago), will a condom be safe enough, or will I need to take the morning after pill....
A. 6 February 2009: satindesire is right. Test spermicides before you use them. They are GREAT, if you are not allergic to them. But, a condom should be fine. As for taking the morning after pill, you can't use it as a form of birth control. It should only be used in ... (read in full...)
Should I wipe the street with his ass?
Q. I need advice. Here is the background. My wife is a teacher and has been at the same school for 3 years now. Well, she told me a little after the beginning of this school year (last October) that this guy, who is an ex-boyfriend started teaching at ...
A. 6 February 2009: I don't think there is anything to worry about here. Like the other aunts said, she's being honest with everything that’s going on. He hasn't crossed any line that would warrant you demanding she not go... Until that happens, just don't let it get ... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 16 January 2009: Oh wow. This is pretty huge.
Before I can say anything, what do you mean by exit strategy? To plan your escape? I can see how it would be hard to believe her. She obviously has problems with telling the truth. The lie she is telling is just obs... (read in full...)
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