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writes:Hi, im 15 and 3 week ago i had sex for the first time, and we didnt use protection, i know it was stupid not to, but now ive started putting on weight, to form a sort of bump on my stomach, and people have started asking if im pregnant, and i keep getting a sort of twinge in my stomach, i have done a pregnancy home test, and it appeared negative, but whats worrying me the most is the bump i have got on my stomach to say it was like only 3 week ago, surely if i was pregnant it wouldnt be that big already, or could it, im really confused....
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reader, MommyOfOne  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Honestly, it sounds like your bloated, gassy and maybe constipated. In all honesty, I'm not trying to embarrass you. Try increasing your water intake, maybe up the fiber a little bit...
I was very petite when I conceived my daughter and didn't even BEGIN to form a bump until I was 4, darn near 5 months pregnant. If a test said negative, I'm leaning towards that. But, if your period hasn't shown in a week, retest. If that's negative, and you still don't start, see a doctor. You more than likely won't be preggers, but something else may be going on...
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (17 March 2009):
 I doubt you are pregnant! But see a Doctor anyway and also use protection in future as next time you won't be so lucky!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (17 March 2009):
 You wouldn't have any pregnancy weight coming on yet. That takes a couple of months.
If things don't feel better after your period, which I am assuming is coming up soon, then go see your doctor. But if the pain gets worse before then, see your doctor anyways.
Point being, a doctor can explain this best to you.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (17 March 2009):
 It could be wind thats very painful and will make you bloated
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): think it sounds like bloating - go to a docs as we don't know. And it could be important.
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): I would say DON'T use two condoms. Its causes alot of friction and makes it more likely they'll break. And if you must have sex make sure you know what your doing and he knows what he is doing or you might end up pregnant. But it is to soon to have a baby bump.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (17 March 2009):
 sometimes if you worry about being pregnant your mind can cause you to go through something called phantom pregnancy symptoms, where you may experience several symptoms of pregnancy even when you're not pregnant - stress can also affect the way you're eating or sleeping, which can also affect your weight or make you bloated. You may just be due on or hormonal right now - either way, it is too early to have a bump from pregnancy, but if it was 3 weeks ago, wait another week, see if your period comes, if not, re-test, if it says negative the likelyhood is that you are not pregnant but it might be too early to tell, so, if you still dont get your period, retest a few weeks later and see a doctor. You are possibly worrying over nothing, try to chill out for the next week and let your body breathe. Then, when its time, check again and of you are not pregnant, take it as a lesson learned and use protection in future. I was 15 when i had my son. Iwouldnt swap him for the world, but at 15 you have so much life left to live and to learn about that it wouldnt be fair on yourself to allow that to happen in future.you take good care, and the very best of luck to you xxxxx
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reader, tux +, writes (17 March 2009):
 You wouldn't get a baby bump so soon.. My wife is very petite and didn't start to get any kind of pregnancy bump until the 2nd month. 3 weeks in is too early for a pregnancy bump.. it's either your period coming or you're putting on weight from eating too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): no not pregnant - bloated, alien growing anything of that ilk. but not a baby, unless its an elephant. If it doesn't go at next period or gets uncomfortable go to a doctors.
ok now the unprotected sex thing - go see satin desires outstanding article on virginity. (its the best thing i have read here)and she tells it like it is. some very good advice in there:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
next you need to be prepared next time and make sure either of you has a condom on. Preferably two.
Hugs, Star.x.
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reader, xX__JESSIE__Xx +, writes (17 March 2009):
xX__JESSIE__Xx is verified as being by the original poster of the question every so often i will get bad pains in my stomach, but they arnt a pain ive ever felt before, they are differrent to the pain i get when im on my period, the pain gets so bad i can hardly stand up...
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (17 March 2009):
I dont think you would have a big bump at 3 weeks, 3 months yeah but not 3 weeks, you could just be bloated, are you due on soon? Because i get bloated before im on. If your that worried then go to the doctor but i dont think you are pregnant especially this early on besides you would have other symptoms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): If you were pregnant then you'd have to wait a good few months to get a bump on your stomach.
Maybe your tummy is just getting swollen because it is getting time for your period to come.
Try not to worry because stress can cause your period to come late. Stress can also cause some people to put on wieght.
Please be more careful in the future, I'm sure you don't want to go through this again.
Take care
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