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*eganRivers
writes:My best male friend and I have been friends for about 3 years, and we're very close. We're college sophomores and we talk about school, parties, sex, orgasms, etc. -- we're really open with one another, which is great...and it's nice to have a guy around who isn't just obsessed with sleeping with me.The other night we were in his room, on his bed, chatting and drinking until late in the morning. Some times when I get drunk around him I have an urge that seems to bubble up to kiss him, but I usually keep it suppressed and rationalize it the next morning by telling myself "I was just drunk." Well, around 3am he passed out, and I was in a rather sleepy/drunken state. Just before he passed out he told me he thought that I "was gorgeous"...and then he was out like a light. I noticed his shirt was lifted up a bit, and for some reason I put my hand down and felt his abs (they're kind of amazing...). Then, and I don't remember how, my lips were suddenly on his. I'm such an idiot. I put my head on his chest, and seriously thought about waking him up -- to drunk for it to occur to me, that he may be awake, and just pretending to be asleep. The next morning he joked "Uh oh! We slept together again!" which kind of sent a shiver down my spine as I worried that make he was awake after all last night. It must have seemed a bit odd that when he passed out we were shoulder to shoulder but when he woke up my head was on his chest. Now I don't know what to do; I'm guessing he actually was asleep, but I can't even look at him without thinking of kissing him...and kind of wanting it to happen again (with him awake of course...ahah)
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 January 2012):
 He made a joke about you two having sex and didn't get uncomfortable with your head on his chest, I think odds are good he likes you back. So move to kiss him next time the time seems right, but when he's awake, and see what happens.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 January 2012):
 Don't worry about it. If you want more from him then being friends, maybe you need to decide if you are ready to tell him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 January 2012):
 If he didn't stick his tongue in to your mouth - to start a bit of "tonsil hockey" - you can be SURE that he was asleep!!! I know of NO MAN.... EVER... ANYWHERE... who had a girl pull his shirt up to touch his abs.... who didn't then try to liberate her clothes from her and enjoy the pleasures of life with her.....
Whew!!!!!
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (18 January 2012):
You obviously have some strong repressed feelings for your friend that you need to address. I know that guys are sometimes oblivious, but I'm sure he has somewhat of an idea that you like him as more than a friend. Its hard to keep your feelings from showing, especially when you've been drinking.
My advice would be to just tell him that you're starting to think of him as something more than just a friend. Its the best way to get closure on this topic and see where your friendship leads you two. Best of luck.
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