He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next ...
A. 21 December 2010: You both are 15... a kid is a big responsibility also if you two don't work out what will happen with the kid... that baby will have two different homes and have split holidays. He's 15 and wants a baby. There's something wrong with the kid. I a... (read in full...)
Why do I start shaking and get nervous when I chat to my ex on msn etc
Q. Whenever my ex girlfriend and I speak, via text or instant messenger or when I'm with my mates and I see her chatting to them via text when they show me what she is saying, I start to get shakey and nervous, and shivering mildly, as if I am cold. I ...
A. 20 December 2010: You have feelings for her that's why hun. Its normal and maybe you have very strong feelings you don realize you have. That's what happens to me with my boyfriend. There was a time we would talk off and on before we became serious and oh boy I used ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to do anal anymore? Is it me?
Q. Boyfriend and I have been dating two years, a while ago he asked me to try anal with him so i did. He liked the thought of it and it was something he always wanted to try. After we tried it he lost all desire to do it... which stinks cause i ...
A. 19 December 2010: I'm very sorry I know I should be giving advice but doesn't anal sex hurt? I never tried it.
And like c.grant said... I think you should ask him... y'all been with eachother for 2 years you two should feel compftable enough to ask questions and stat... (read in full...)
First she's available, then not, rejected me, now she's jealous. Is it just me?
Q. ok there's this girl i've been friends with for 2 years. i was at the pub with her and sort of started having feelings for her. So i invited her over for dinner and cooked her a meal to die for. I really wanted to impress her so i pulled out all ...
A. 19 December 2010: Maybe that's your answer... stop chasing her and see if she chases you. Its not fair that you put so much effort and she acts like she doesn't care. Then all of a sudden she does. Ignore her see what she does...
Some girls like having to foll... (read in full...)
It feels like hell when he can't even spare a thought for me!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. It was my birthday 2 months ago, and he didnt get me any present. Money is not an issue as he spends exuberantly on himself. i told him that it hurt me that i didnt receive anything,that he did ...
A. 18 December 2010: Well since he spends so much on himself he should be buying you a gift. Your not wrong for wanting one and feeling like hell. You care more than what he does in this relationship it looks like. From past experiance I've had an ex who was the same ... (read in full...)
Can my wife actually lose the weight?
Q. What is a person supposed to do when they are no longer attracted to there spouse? My wife and I have been together now for 13 years, 8 of which we have been married. She is awesome in many aspects which is why I love her so much. She has ...
A. 18 December 2010: All th people who have commented on this are right... they have a point! ... (read in full...)
Sometimes it just feels like he's too mature...
Q. hey everyone, i'm on my friend's account, so i'm not 16. i am 14, and a freshman in high school. Let me set the scenes here: i started dating a sophomore in august, and we fell in love almost instantly. I fell for his 'badboy' black-clothes, ...
A. 17 December 2010: by the way... i had that problem so i started dating younger guys... least two years younger... im not saying do the same thing in highschool i was a late bloomer... there was hardly any guys who where a virgin anymore. i was 16 and dated a guy who ... (read in full...)
Bi curious women???
Q. I have a new girlfriend. Now that we are getting into it, surprise surprise, she has a fantasy about carpet munching. Does every girl have a desire to have a bi-sexual experience at least once in their life. I would say that almost every single ...
A. 17 December 2010: I dont know if every girl thinks like that but ive thought about kissing a girl but nothing ferther. Girls are prettier than guys lol they look soft clean and gentel. Plus girls are always adveratized on tv lol. Im not guy nore bi. I just think ... (read in full...)
Sometimes it just feels like he's too mature...
Q. hey everyone, i'm on my friend's account, so i'm not 16. i am 14, and a freshman in high school. Let me set the scenes here: i started dating a sophomore in august, and we fell in love almost instantly. I fell for his 'badboy' black-clothes, ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well just be a were he may be nice and sweet to you know but he does show signs of being abusive in the future... more things might come about like how he want you to dress and talk to... and i dont think his feelings should be hurt if you tell him ... (read in full...)
Why does she find it hard to look at me???
Q. So theres this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other ...
A. 17 December 2010: I'm the same way... maybe she's really shy.It's hard for me to look people in there eyes. When im more comfortable I can, but that's usually when I'm in love, and i head straight for kisses. But most of the time I'm shy, and don't look anyone i... (read in full...)
Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important???
Q. Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important? I know there is no such thing but this is best way to describe it? or is vaginal the only one guys care about?...
A. 17 December 2010: Depending on the girl I'm sure the girl takes her virginity as important. Virginity has always been important to me. I don't know how some girls think nowadays... i never tried anal though. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him so he can leave me alone?
Q. Somebody plz help me. I made a stupid decision that can cost me my marriage. I'm ashamed,embarrassed, and feel like crap. I got myself involved with a man at my job who liked to do phone sex. He is older than I and married. It was fun at first ...
A. 17 December 2010: I think you should listen to what everyone is telling you... dont have sex with him the dude sounds crazy!
Also realize that Sex has a consiquence girl! What if he has an STD that cant be reverse? what if he gets you pregnant? what if he does some... (read in full...)
It's growing pretty fast down there, do I need to shave?
Q. hey everybody, i have a question that I feel to embarrassed to ask anybody else in person so i'm wondering if you could help? Im 14 and down below is growing fast.. I'm going to a party soon and wearing a really short skirt so was wondering what is ...
A. 17 December 2010: Lol Well if its too much than shave... cuz i remember when i was young that stuff was annoying. The hair would get stuck on my undies and crap. ugh
But remember your only 14... becareful at the party and not toooo short nena! lol
Im not your mot... (read in full...)
I hate being normal!
Q. I hate being normal. I've noticed that no matter how many times people say that looks don't matter, hey, THEY DO! I've noticed how my male friends treat girls differently based on looks more than personality. I'm not the most attractive girl, I'm ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well from reading what you have wrote you are beautiful!!!
And dont let some stupid guy tell you that your not that smart hes just trying to bring you down. Jerks have a tendency of trying to make women feel insecure so they can feel better abou... (read in full...)
Can my wife actually lose the weight?
Q. What is a person supposed to do when they are no longer attracted to there spouse? My wife and I have been together now for 13 years, 8 of which we have been married. She is awesome in many aspects which is why I love her so much. She has ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well hmmmmmmm. Being lazy is bad... being unhealthy is bad also. I honestly think shes peobably compfortible in her own skin. A lot of wemon struggle to be perfect and have a perfect body. For someone to actually be ok with how they look and not be ... (read in full...)
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