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Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?

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Question - (16 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *rax writes:

11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me lately. I don't know whether I should accept her back into my life or just be done with her.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntWas she cheating on you with the other guy?

Honestly, i would take someone back knowing that I was that person's second choice. That is just not something time could erase.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntI would be questioning what happened with this other guy to make her come crawling back to you. If she truly loved you and was ready to marry you then she wouldn't have broke it off to be with this other guy for 11 days. You just don't take time off your engagement. Don't take her back, it wouldn't be very wise of you. It also says that what she did can easily be dismissed..so more than likely she'll do it again.

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A male reader, ljhenhmla United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

only you can decide if you want to take her back. but you have to ask yourself if she left you now will she do it again. when you love someone want to try and make it work but sometimes it best to just move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 November 2010):

Be done with her. She dumped you, had sex with this other guy, then has come back and expects you to pick up the pieces. She will do this again. She will fail you again. Be rid of this one.

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