My boyfriend wants me to say 'thank you' for everything he does for me!
Q. My boyfriend has make so uncomfortable lately, everytime he brings me out to eat he always wants a thank you right away. he treats me like a uneducated person who doesnt know how to thank people when things are done or given to them. i always say ...
A. 22 June 2012: how is saying tanks for a glass of water too much ? .
The rest i agree with you . ... (read in full...)
1st date and he forgot his wallet and now I'm turned off
Q. I'm in my late twenties. I m very much financially independent as I own my business and I do pretty well with it. Why I m telling this about myself before I start my story just to show that I'm not at all need any kind of financial support from any...
A. 20 June 2012: i say give it one last chance . It could have been a honest mistake that he forgot his wallet . Let him treat you this time and see how generous he is . See if that time he orders and expensive dish for himself , and see if he offers to get drinks ... (read in full...)
Is this normal for a 25 year old man?
Q. Hey! Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. Ever since we became active, he can never really bust more than twice in a day. He is 25 years old, very healthy, works out every single day, he has no health problems at all. It ...
A. 25 May 2012: its normal .. we arent machines . it takes time to refill the sperm bank lol . ... (read in full...)
I started to love him, but its complicated!
Q. First thanks for reading and please answer :) I am 20 and before the graduation. I decided that I will continue my studies in the movie-field as I always wanted to be a director. So, I chosed the school and applied for a course. On the course t...
A. 25 March 2012: Dont string your boyfriend along , u obviously Dont respect him if u went on a romantic date and developed feelings for this ther guy . Dont use your bf as a backup plan.....thats cowardly . First thing you have to do is know if u want to be him ... (read in full...)
I've got a crush on an actor! Please help?
Q. Firstly, please take this question seriously, because it is really bothering me. I just don't want people to think I'm some whiney child or something. Basically, I have really strong feelings for this nineteen year old actor. He is fairly famous a...
A. 25 March 2012: you really have no chance with him . Its a crush , super fan type deal . You will have to find a 'real' person ....its Ok to have a celebrity crush , almost everyone does . ... (read in full...)
When he confessed it wasn't what I thought it would be!
Q. I am 24 and I met this genuinely loving guy at a charity organisation which helps disabled children get into sport. Anyway, we started dating 9 months ago and he has asked me to move in with him. I agreed and am in the process of packing my stuff. ...
A. 14 March 2012: hey your over thinking this . He asked if you still wanted to be with him after he told u Hes rich because you had previously said you Dont like rich ppl because they can be arrogant .well u proved that your not a gold digger and he knows this , you ... (read in full...)
How can I cover up a hickey on my breast?
Q. I am 21 and I am in a relationship with the most amazing man in the world. We have been together for 9 years (we were in the same class when we were 12)and now live together at his parents house while we save for our own place. Anyway, last night ...
A. 14 March 2012: say you got your period ? ...lol ... (read in full...)
Hair extensions, whatever next?!
Q. I met this beautiful girl, she is laid back, funny, interesting, smart just a great girl! She has a great figure and is a natural beauty, unlike some the girls I see she doesn't look like she even has to try to look good. Well one thing about her ...
A. 14 March 2012: i Wont give you paragraphs like most ppl here .
Your over reacting, its hair ......get over it ....said she was growing it and the extensions are only a few inches . GET OVER IT , YOUR OVER REACTING . ... (read in full...)
Hair extensions, whatever next?!
Q. I met this beautiful girl, she is laid back, funny, interesting, smart just a great girl! She has a great figure and is a natural beauty, unlike some the girls I see she doesn't look like she even has to try to look good. Well one thing about her ...
A. 14 March 2012: i Wont give you paragraphs like most ppl here .
Your over reacting, its hair ......get over it ....said she was growing it and the extensions are only a few inches . GET OVER IT , YOUR OVER REACTING . ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating? should I say anything to her or let it go?
Q. I NEED SO MUCH HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!A couple weeks ago my GF and I broke up. We broke up for the weekend. She thought/thinks I am not the type to go hook up with other girls. Just because of my past and just who I am.. Well dating her I changed....
A. 14 March 2012: you didnt cheat . She made it very clear that the relationship was over with , she broke up with you .
With that being said.......you fucked up by hooking up with her friends .
If you tell her be prepared to lose her, if .you Dont tell her ..... (read in full...)
His actions are confusing me, am I a booty call, or something more?
Q. Hey guys, I'm 18, currently a new uni student. A couple of weeks ago (at uni orientation week), I met this guy on a bus (with another friend of mine) back from town, who also lived on campus. We all talked quite a bit on the trip back and decided ...
A. 14 March 2012: its sounds like he is also confused . He Probly Donsnt know whether to commit or explore the college single life . He might still want just a FWB situation . ... (read in full...)
I quit talking to her and now she's got a boyfriend!
Q. Im 19. There was this girl I wanted to be with. She would give me random hugs sometimes from behind and in the summer of 2010 I was going to join the army.. And she told me your not going to join the army We were hanging out every day. We had so...
A. 14 March 2012: hey , i think she is just being respectful to her current bf . You both had mutual feelings and she knows that if your contacting her its to rekindle past emotions . I think Shes honestly just trying to respect her bf and not be tempted to cheat . ... (read in full...)
What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?
Q. Ok, I know this isn't a major issue but I'm curious what you guys think... I've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. All of her special days fall right on top of each other (Christmas then V-Day then birthday in March) and I'm not sure...
A. 3 March 2012: perfume , maybe like some funny pajama bottoms . I got my wife ( gf at the time ) a pair of hello kitty pajama bottoms lol it was part of a joke gift the real gift was some expensive perfume . She hates hello kitty but the pajama bottoms are warm so ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to put on facebook that he is in a relationship
Q. okay my boyfriend and i have both have a facebook he use to not have problem with putting that he is in a relationship with me now he don't want to he just wants to keep it as single. i have begged him to change it cause ill feel more comfortable ...
A. 3 March 2012: yes let it go . Change your status to single or better yet just leave it blank . And have him change it to nothing so that way none can see if your single divorced in a relationship or its complicated . Facebook does cause a lot of drama . ... (read in full...)
What do I get my boyfriend for our 3 year anniversary?
Q. I'm not sure what to get my boyfriend for our upcoming three year anniversary. Please help! I am so clueless as to what to get my boyfriend and I would appreciate any suggestions. Here's some background... He is 20 years old (will be 21 a month ...
A. 3 March 2012: a gaming headset . Turtle beach is the name of a good gaming headset . ... (read in full...)
I've changed but I don't think boys' views of me have.
Q. Hey, I'm abit fed up, I date boys but then they always seem to get a gf. I'm not saying I dont get boys attention because I do but I think it's the wrong attention. I admit my past isnt the best and I did use to sleep around, iv slept with 65 bo...
A. 23 February 2012: sadly i think you will have to move or find a completly new circle of friends . A woman reputation as someone who has slept around alot will not disappear or change in the eyes of men . Even if a guy does like you within the circle of people you ... (read in full...)
LDR b/f coming to see me but I've been seeing another guy every night. Should I tell b/f or take break?
Q. I had this guy in my life for 6 years. We always had a little connection, and as we got closer that connection grew deeper. So in December, we hit a new point. We decided to become exclusive and get serious. Anyway, time goes by and we kind of d...
A. 23 February 2012: your a coward sorry to be so stright with you. Dont string along your bf . Come clean , be honest its not fair to him . If you want to be with the new guy go ahead but Dont play games with your bf . If you Dont want him and want to be with your bf , ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook
Q. My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...
A. 23 February 2012: why would you have to meet up one on one with this friend ? . Cant you catch up just IMing ? . You said u didnt go to a party or meet up with him because you were busy with your bf or family. This indicates that you would have met up with this guy ... (read in full...)
What does he mean? He's says I'm and open book with no writing in it.
Q. Hi I like this guy and he knows I like him but he never told me if he likes me or not so he started saying he likes some girl everyones saying he likes me and is trying to get me jealous. I didnt give any reactions and he goes Im like an open book ...
A. 20 February 2012: id go in another direction . Your an open book meaning that its easy to read you, but with no writing in it , could be that he just cant figure you out . ... (read in full...)
Long distance phone sex
Q. My boyfriend and I are long distance and recently he's been saying he wants to hear me come over the phone. The problem is I feel silly, I'm not a kid but I get the giggles and when we do do this I want it to be amazing - I want him to be thinki...
A. 12 January 2012: you can start by talking about and describing your past sexual experiences . Then start saying things like i wish you were here so that you could ( fill in the blanks) by this time you both should just be in the moment and focused . If you do giggle ... (read in full...)
How do I not look like a fool in front of new co-wokers?
Q. Hi everyone, Just a question regarding work-related relationships (sort of?). Anyways, I recently started working at a prestigious investment firm in an entry-level position (before this, I've never worked in an office, just mostly blue-coll...
A. 28 December 2011: yea the weather plays a bit of an obstacle . Try to get in a bit more early so that you Dont run into your co workers. Rehab they thought u went going to change and that what you were wearing would be your wrk cloths . ... (read in full...)
Too extreme or too sweet?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend were hanging out and i saw one of my BEST BEST friends i haven't seen in like 1year! so i ran up to him and hugged him. my boyfriend instantly got up and walked by me and kinda pulled me back. than he looked at me and said ...
A. 26 December 2011: he probably saw the way you ran up to him and hugged your best guy friend, and realised that you have never been so happy to see him or ever hugged him the way you hugged your best guy friend. He is Probably thinking that you interact with all your... (read in full...)
Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?
Q. I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...
A. 24 December 2011: You feel used? Well uhh Thats what FWB are...you both USE each other to satisfy a need . It isnt a relationship. If at the beginning you both discussed that you Wouldnt sleep with anyone else rend you, have a reason to feel "used"... (read in full...)
Slept with a close friend...How do I get him to talk to me again?
Q. My friend and I were practically the only ones still at college, due to our exam schedule. Our exam finished at 10:30am and we both planned to fly home the next morning. We spent the whole day together; we were practically the only ones around. ...
A. 24 December 2011: maybe he doesn't want to lead you on ? He probably hesitated because he didnt want you to catch feelings ?. Its tough to say just wait until he contacts you.....you don't want to come off like some crazy clingy girl after having sex with some one. ... (read in full...)
How can I figure out if he wants a relationship?
Q. Hi On Wednesday I was out clubbing with my friends, I ended up kissing this guy - He asked for my number which I gave him. I didn't expect him to text me but he did today. However I don't know if I want a relationship atm as I have so many other th...
A. 24 December 2011: lol hold on hun Dont get ahead of yourself . How can you already be thinking about a relationship? . You random made out with a stranger at a club . I Dont see how you can be contemplating a relationship versus not having one. I suggest you just ... (read in full...)
Why does she want to get in touch with me after calling it off? Does she regret what she has done and does she still love me deep down?
Q. Hi There, I need some advice as I'm not sure what to do, I have used this site in the past and it has helped me a lot so I have come back for some more help :) I was engaged to get married and 3 weeks ago my partner told me out of the blue she doe...
A. 24 December 2011: its probably the classic case of , she loves you but isn't in love with you. Dont put your hopes up man, its not fair to yourself and interferes with your progress of moving on. She told her sister that she wouldn't get back with you, i Dont thin... (read in full...)
Is it over?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space ...
A. 24 December 2011: like she said stop worrying. If its over you will know forsure. She might just be busy or still might be mad at you for alrdy sending her that txt . Dont stress about it , let her contact you now. ... (read in full...)
Is it over?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space ...
A. 23 December 2011: like she said stop worrying. If its over you will know forsure. She might just be busy or still might be mad at you for alrdy sending her that txt . Dont stress about it , let her contact you now. ... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?
Q. It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...
A. 23 December 2011: just tell him , it Wont hurt his pride....why would it? Lol but you do have to go at it in a nice way. Say you read online ir heard that fruit makes semen taste sweet and you want to see if its true or not . Make it a challenge to him to see how ... (read in full...)
I was sneaky about meeting up with an ex, but it was only as friends and now I don't know what my boyfriend suspects!
Q. Is hanging out with an ex a terrible deed? this is an ex of mine from 4.5 years ago, the one prior to my current boyfriend of 4 years. It wasn't even really a relatonship, it was more fwb. but it ended because i found myself developing feelings ...
A. 23 December 2011: you say you love and respect him...... If you respected him you would have ran the idea by him. So now you look sneaky because you were and your bf is doubting why you had to withhold this "innocent" information from him .
If it was innocent then... (read in full...)
We agreed to meet up for birthday sex and she ended up going all the way with some random 20 year old
Q. ok, so i have been going out with this girl for 5 months.im a 17 yr old boy she is a stunning 16 year old :) i met her before the summer and i asked her out. she said ok but i had to go to france for a month. after i got back we had sex and it was ...
A. 23 December 2011: hey man, Thats not cool at all. You deserve better then her. Dont give in to talking to her, she seems very immature. If she was truly sorry for what she did she would have actually writen an apology instead of a lousy facebook poke. Dont give in ... (read in full...)
Is this one of the situations where everyone knows and the person actually "involved" is the last to know?
Q. I've known this guy since we were in high school. We're both 25 now. Recently we took a 2 month training course together, where I got a chance to get to know him a lot better. There were only about 15 of us enrolled in this program, so we a...
A. 22 December 2011: you didnt offer much detail.......what kind of things have you noticed? Are you both partaking in relationship habits ?... (read in full...)
Are we just friends or are we more? Should I make a move and tell him again how I feel?
Q. Ok, so to make the story short I am a 24 year old college graduate with a good job, raised as a roman catholic, believe in God. My guy friend who is 25 years old college graduate and no job when out for a couple of months during high school (it was ...
A. 22 December 2011: sounds like a genuine person and so do you. Sometimes the woman has to make the first move. It cant hurt to kiss him . So i suggest you make it romantic , while your cuddling or something sweet . ... (read in full...)
Might I be bisexual and should I tell my fiance about this?
Q. I've been with my fiance for two years now, and I really love him. Lately I've been attracted to this woman at work. I've dated women in the past, but always thought it was just a phase i was going through. I still find myself checking out othe...
A. 22 December 2011: you should tell him . What you Wouldnt do is be unfaithful with this co worker. Even tho Shes a women if u end up doing anything with her your being unfaithful. ... (read in full...)
My b/f is too jealous and I'm afraid it might get out of hand!
Q. Okay this was my weekend! I went to my boyfriends house with his friends and when his one friend (Josh) saw me he ran up to me and hugged me and said i look sexy. my boyfriend got really really mad and pushed him off me i felt like he went a bit to...
A. 20 December 2011: uhhh JOSH went to far. Your bf did the correct thing , he saw someone disrespecting you and him and del with it . I would do the same . I Dont think you have to wrry too much about him punching many guys unless they step over the line and kiss you ... (read in full...)
My husband accused me of being insecure after he was flirting at his christmas party! Am I insecure?
Q. Recently my husband and I went to his company's annual party. I have met a few people he works with but I do not know anyone well. It is awkward for me because once we get to the party he acts like I do not exist and gets mad if I stay wit...
A. 20 December 2011: ill keep this short and sweet. Your husband is inconsiderate. You are not asking obscure question . Your in the right .... (read in full...)
Would you date an escort?
Q. Would you date a girl who was or is an escort? but she is really loving, smart, honest and does everything for you. It's just her job and she's only doing it a few years to save up some money and invest in something good. (house, car etc) ...
A. 19 April 2011: I would not be able to handle that. I feel like I should be the only person to see you in that light and those experiences. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?
Q. Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However,...
A. 18 April 2011: Yes you can chat on FB using the iphone... (read in full...)
Penis size insecurity...help me out here!!
Q. Hey people out there I'm a 16 year old guy and i have a little problem that i need advice on. So this not easy for me to talk about but going to any way. Well the problem is i have a very small penis of only 4in when erect and 1 to 2 inches when ...
A. 18 April 2011: a vagina is only 3-4 inches deep when arroused (average) so if your 4inches that's no problem . ... (read in full...)
He turned down a handjob, does that mean I'm not good at it?
Q. The other night I was over at my boyfriend's place but since I was on my period we didn't have sex. We still had a good time, went out for coffee and watched a movie. Later in the night I offered to give him a handjob and he said no. His reason was ...
A. 9 April 2011: BJ's are so much better. If he rejects a blow job then it could be that you're still learning at giving head, handjobs are so boring we can do them ourselves.... (read in full...)
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