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writes:Hey, I'm abit fed up, I date boys but then they always seem to get a gf. I'm not saying I dont get boys attention because I do but I think it's the wrong attention. I admit my past isnt the best and I did use to sleep around, iv slept with 65 boys and am shamed of this, but I have changed but I don't think boys views of me have. I'm not going to change my appears as it's me and I look after myself if myself no one else, but just would like any suggesting in which I could change the way I act or deal with boys thinking the way they do about me ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): If a guy in your friend circle had played 65 girls, how easy would it be to convince you that he wouldn't do it again?
I think the others are right, if you want to get away from this reputation it will probably take an entirely different group of friends.
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (23 February 2012):
sadly i think you will have to move or find a completly new circle of friends . A woman reputation as someone who has slept around alot will not disappear or change in the eyes of men . Even if a guy does like you within the circle of people you know ,he Probly Wont take you serious and will be thinking that he will be made fun of for being with you . You very well might have changed but your facing an uphill battle to change your reputation .
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 Honestly, if you've slept with 65 boys already, you probably have a reputation now. The only way to fix this is to work very hard at proving that reputation wrong. Or moving and getting a fresh start.
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reader, Beaniepants +, writes (23 February 2012):
 Well...dress sexy, but classy. Don't look like a streetwalker, or have your buttcheeks hanging out. Guys like a girl like that for sex, and it's a different girl they take around their family and friends and announce she's his gf.
A good rule of thumb is if you're showing a lot of leg...keep the top more demure. Or vice versa.
Don't come on too strong. Hang out with a guy for a bit, then let him make a move.
And lastly...65 guys at your age means you may very well have a "rep" around town where you live. If that's the case...MOVE!! If you can! You're young and (I'm assuming?)childless. Move somewhere where you get a job, stay wherever you can afford, and start making friends and getting to be known for who you are- not who you were.
Hope this helps :o)
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