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30-35,
*rushed and gutted
writes:ok, so i have been going out with this girl for 5 months.im a 17 yr old boy she is a stunning 16 year old :) i met her before the summer and i asked her out. she said ok but i had to go to france for a month. after i got back we had sex and it was great. she was getting drives from her 20 year old ex boyfriend to see me(which i thought was weird ) but she stopped talkin to him after a while so it was all good :P then after a fight we stopped talking for a week. she started talkin to me again and we agreed to meet up on her birthday for birthday sex ^^ and get back together. i went to the bar where the party was and she kept eyein up a 20 year old and then started dancin with him, i felt uneasy but i ignored it cuz i amnt the jealous type. she then kissed him in front of me so i walked out and went home. i found out she went the whole way with this random guy over me. i dont get it, i really love her and all along she said she loved me too. i deleted her from facebook and my phone, and i am totally crushed i am was nearly obsessed over her. this was one moth ago and just yesterday she poked me on facebook(always her way of getting back in contact) i havent poked back thus far as the whole thing has made me rethink about all the sadness :( but i realy would love to get back with her but i would feel sooo weak and stupid. she always said she wasnt with me when people asked and i was standing next to her, and sometimes when we met up she would barely kiss me. im confused and i need ideas or somethin. thanks everyone :)
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reader, crushed and gutted +, writes (2 January 2012):
crushed and gutted is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe has since txt me sayin im sorry , and i said ok and then she said she is really sorry and i said dont worry its ok. after tht she said tht she loves me. i said if she loved me then why would she have done tht in front of me? tht was last night im still awaiting the respons :P thanks for the help this far guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Ask herwhy she did that. but in my opinion if she accually did that right in front of you tell her that its over. trust me you'll be better off without her
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (23 December 2011):
hey man, Thats not cool at all. You deserve better then her. Dont give in to talking to her, she seems very immature. If she was truly sorry for what she did she would have actually writen an apology instead of a lousy facebook poke. Dont give in man, you. Feel worse if you do,
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reader, soscared..  +, writes (23 December 2011):
i personally think you should give her one more chance..i have been in almost the same case..who knows what was going thro her head that night..girls always have about a million things we are thinking about at once and we do things we kno we probably shouldn't..if she does the same things to you again then i would say sorry but i'm done..and try to move on..(:
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