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He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?
Q. sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a ...
A. 18 February 2010: Wow. Okay first of all how can you truly claim to love someone that raped you? Call it what you want, and make yourself belive whatever you want, but that's the fact..HE RAPED YOU!!!!! You said you planned on breaking up with him a couple of ... (read in full...)
V-day ideas for a guy
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i dont know what to get him for valentines day. i dont want anything too soppy and i have also been looking for a card that isnt soppy because we havent been together that long. we are like ...
A. 5 February 2009: Well considering that you haven't been together that long, I would find a nice, cute blank card and write my own little message in it so it's not too "soppy". And it you don't have that much money you could do a few things. Buy him lunch, get him a ... (read in full...)
Jealous? Or thinking badly of me?
Q. I met this group of guys the other day and we partied at their house together. I kissed one of them two nights in a row and he wanted to do more, started touching me all over but I took his hands off and left. I really like him but he seems to be a ...
A. 5 February 2009: Maybe it's because he feels you were "quick" to mess around with him, but then kicked him off when it got a little to heavy for you, and then he see's you with the other guy at the next party, possibly about to do the same thing you started with ... (read in full...)
V-day Do guys like surprises?
Q. Any ideas of what to get my bf for V-Day? Is clothes okay...I bought him (2) dress shirts and plan on buying him a pair of jeans to go with it. Is that too much? I'll be spending a little over $50. On V-Day it will be 3 wks. of us being togethe...
A. 5 February 2009: Yeah that sounds good, and guys love surprises...they never expect for a chick to be the one doing the surprising. It would be better if you could get him something without him knowing what it is. Like maybe his favorite bands c.d, or a shirt with ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't miss me but I don't want to move on!
Q. So my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago after almost nine months. before we started going we were friends and she was dating someone else who she broke up with because she wanted to be with me. we got along great and fell in love. last month i ...
A. 5 February 2009: Well sweety, the only thing I can suggest is do like she said...give her some time and space. I know it's hard because of how much you love and care for her...the only thing you wanna do is be with her or at least around her. I understand, but she ... (read in full...)
I cant tell if he's asking to be nice or friendly or what?
Q. Hi there. I work with a guy who is forever asking me what I am doing after work. I cannot tell if he is asking to be friendly or if he is interested. I have noticed that he seems kind and compassionate but wonder if his question is based on his k...
A. 5 February 2009: I agree with Emily. I would wait for him to ask you again and answer him by saying something like, "oh well I don't have anything planned, why you wanna go for a quick drink/bite to eat or something after work?" And I'm sure you can tell whether or ... (read in full...)
Protect Myself, or Trust my Friend?
Q. This question is regarding a friend not a lover. My friend moved around the corner from me and her car broke down. The bus station is too far to walk and she has no way to get around. She asked me to borrow my car, and I let her use it everyday for ...
A. 4 February 2009: That's true. Ultimately it's YOUR car. You have the upper hand in this and the "last word" in conversation cuz your the owner. Tell her just like you told us...that if she genuinely needs to use it, that's fine but she has to have it back by a ... (read in full...)
Protect Myself, or Trust my Friend?
Q. This question is regarding a friend not a lover. My friend moved around the corner from me and her car broke down. The bus station is too far to walk and she has no way to get around. She asked me to borrow my car, and I let her use it everyday for ...
A. 4 February 2009: I agree with kellyxxx. I have actually been in the same situation. My best friend and I are both single mom's and when I didn't have a car, she let me use hers and vice versa. But you do need to establish ground rules like kelly said. Being that ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.
Q. Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...
A. 29 January 2009: Another good thing is to warm the guy that your not into that BEFORE they do anything to you, that's selfish if you ask me, I wouldn't receive if I'm not going to give....it's just rude. Also it's something that may just take time to get used 2...a ... (read in full...)
How do you make guys like/approach you?
Q. I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do....
A. 29 January 2009: Instead of asking "how can I get them to approach me" why not try approaching them? I think us as women, got so used to guys initiating everything that we rely on just that aspect, a man approaching us and making all the first "moves". If there is ... (read in full...)
How do you terminate a toxic friendship?
Q. Hoping someone can help here. I have a friend who I am trying to end the friendship with as I have had enough. There are plenty of articles on how to end a relationship but not much on terminating a friendship. This girl tends to be really rude to ...
A. 23 January 2009: Yup. If you have told her about how her behavior bugs you and is not appreciated and she continued to be the bitch you described her to be, the best thing you can do is ignore her completely. She'll get the hint and eventually leave you alone. Don't ... (read in full...)
My sister's daughter had sex and I think her reaction is too harsh...
Q. My sister is the mother of a 14 yr old girl, who she recently found out that she snuck her boyfriend in the bedroom window and had sex with him! The mother went bananas and told her daughter that she had to quit basketball and all other activities, ...
A. 23 January 2009: OUCH!!! That's just awful. *She sighs* The only thing I can suggest is to talk to your sister. I'm sure she didn't whole heartedly mean every single thing she said, she just said it out of anger, fear and reaction. Explain to her that yeah your ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant or is this just normal?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship but everytime we meet up we have sex. We met up and decided to not use a condom. He didn't "cum" inside me but could i still be pregnant as i have missed a period or is this just normal?...
A. 23 January 2009: YES you can be pregnant! I don't know how many times I have said this....just because the guy doesn't "fully" cum in you doesn't mean he didnt "pre cum" in you. Lord have mercy when will we learn. I am 5 months pregnant and proof that the pull out ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy is for real?
Q. is he for real? am 24years old and my bf is 34. we have known each other for about 4years. the problem we have always had is distance, but more to that now is that he proposed to me some months back which i accepted and he promised to see my paren...
A. 23 January 2009: I also think this can be one of two situations. My first thought was that he only proposed to you to shut you up and keep you off his back..I think he has another life wherever he's at now. But then again like PunkyPippi said, if he's always been ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait and should I just ask her if she likes me?
Q. I've had a crush on this girl for 2 years but never brought myself to asking her out. She has two kids, as I do, and she recently broke up with her boyfriend because he didn't like her kids. We've been to lunch, movies, and we talk at the gym but ...
A. 23 January 2009: It's great that you respect her need for time, that is so awesome and shows that you care about her. And well you took the words right from my mouth..because I was gonna suggest little dates like that, that are harmless (gym, lunch, etc) but if it's ... (read in full...)
Why do all these guys take me for granted?
Q. Right then here goes, what I want to know is this-why is it that the guys I have relationships with always seem to take me for granted then after we've split up they (and it can be a few years after we've split) they say I was the love of their ...
A. 23 January 2009: I think for one that maybe your giving them too much of you. Like your too nice, your too giving, your too available. They know that they have you wrapped around their finger and well to be blunt, what guy isn't going to take advantage of a girl ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the "nasty", hardcore, pissing porn?
Q. Do you think it's a serious problem if my boyfriend of two years looks at " nasty" porn , like with women drinking piss while getting f@cked? I don't have a problem with him looking at "regular" porn, but what scares me about this is that it seems ...
A. 23 January 2009: Yeah I agree, I think he's just curious and that's okay, we all are in our own way. Now I have even experienced the "degrading" part of it, I actually was seeing this guy that wanted me to pee on him and do all sorts of gross things...and well, if ... (read in full...)
Circumcision problem???
Q. So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...
A. 21 January 2009: Oh sweety I'm sorry. Well, the only thing I can offer now is to talk to my bf and see what works best for him. Maybe whatever he does to fix the problem, can help you too. I'll ask him and get back with you.... (read in full...)
Circumcision problem???
Q. So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...
A. 20 January 2009: My boyfriend is also and I go down on him all the time. We normally don't have any problems with oral, just a few times we have with sex. He said the same thing about the foreskin behind the head. Best thing I could say is try to get your penis to ... (read in full...)
I hurt my ex deeply and he doesn't know if he wants to give us another chance
Q. I need lots of answers for this one please.... I am 21 years old and I have met the man of my dreams. Only problem is that I made a mess of the relationship 3 years ago and while we still talk and care about each other, he cant decide whether h...
A. 13 January 2009: I agree. Explain to him that it was a long time ago (what 3 yeas ago) you were a different person then, you thought you needed and wanted something else but that you needed the chance to realize that what you truly needed was him. Get really serious ... (read in full...)
I get no pleasure out of sex
Q. Ive had alot of sex, but ive NEVER had an orgasm with a guy. I think Ive had an orgasm while touching myself, but even then I was only rubbing my clit...and there was no "cum". Did it count as an orgasm or was it just me thinking I had one!? A...
A. 13 January 2009: Your young and it's going to take time to realize what will get you there and what won't. Being female has it's up and downs and sometimes sex is where the "gray area" begins. Some of us can have multiple orgasms and some of us will prpbably never ... (read in full...)
Moving on is not easy
Q. This is a long story but I have to get it out of my chest...Hardly slept last night thinking again of her and how I know she never forgot..I remember the day we went to the bar to eat the same week It all happened and she said to me in a deceiving ...
A. 13 January 2009: You should really become a writer. Publish some books, I think that's your gift.... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant if the guy didn't cum?
Q. Ive had lots of sexual experiences, but im really clueless about it to be honest! So Im wondering.. -Can i be pregnant if the guy didnt cum? -Would I notice if the condom breaks? -If a guy cums in my ass is there any possibility it might som...
A. 13 January 2009: Oh the common misconception. There's a really good chance your pregnant if he didn't cum in you...cause well, I'm pregnant from pre-cum so yeah, it's possible. Wait and see if you missed a period then take a test if you have. Just because the guy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is away for a week and I'm a mess... how to cope?
Q. Ok my boyfriend of a few months went to Las Vegas for a friends wedding. He'll be gone a week and I'm losing it! We are still in that see each other 24/7 phase. We never go more than an hour or 2 without getting at least a text from each other. Last ...
A. 20 December 2008: You need to pull yourself together and stop being a []Du$$y! Seriously, its 7 days not 7 months. Give yourself a chance to miss him and let him miss you. How fun is it seeing each other EVERY SINGLE DAY? Texting/calling each other EVERY OTHER HOUR? ... (read in full...)
Woman's muscle control?
Q. I was told some girls are good in control her vagina muscle and can make her man ejaculate sooner that usual in intercourse. Is it true that girl can control the muscle inside? is it true can make her man cum quicker that usual?...
A. 19 December 2008: It's called a kegal muscle and yes it can tighten and help them "get their" faster if the woman knows what she's doing. Example: When you go pee, to make yourself stop peeing, that muscle you use to cut off the urine...that's your kegal. Go pee and ... (read in full...)
Guys, what body...?
Q. What body type do guys prefer? Short? Tall? Long torso? Long legs? Thighs? Chest? What's your ideal type? Just curous. ;0...
A. 19 December 2008: There is no "ideal" type. If you have boobs and a vagina your pretty much in! :-) Joking aside I would say at least 5'6, at least a B cup and a nice booty. Mainly a woman that takes care of herself...inside and out.... (read in full...)
Can this really work? Will he wait for me?
Q. I need help! I really like this guy who's out of college, but I won't have time for a relationship until I'm out. How can I let him know I'm interested so he'll wait for me until I'm out?...
A. 19 December 2008: You can't because he won't wait for you. Plain and simple. I've seen this situation too many times and it never ends up being the way you picture it or hope it will be. He's not going to wait for you. He might say he is, but trust me, he is sleeping ... (read in full...)
If anything 'does' happen... is he just using me?
Q. I've been friends with my guy friend for years over the internet, but he lives hours away. We've met up twice, and we acted just like we were going out - he brought me lunch, payed to go to the movies, he was hugging and kissing me - the one ...
A. 19 December 2008: I'm gonna say that he's using you. I think that you are his "Plan B". I think that he has another girl, if not more, that he's on a more serious note with. When that girl, or girls, aren't available...he calls you, e-mails you, wants to see you. You ... (read in full...)
I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why.
Q. I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why! We have been before... We have been friends for a long time, had a fling, for a reason too long to get into we didn't see each other for a while, now we've got back in touch, f...
A. 17 December 2008: Well if you feel you "need to get out of the rut" you shouldn't be thinking about sex with him again. There's a reason why your hesitating and I think it's because your afraid, which is totally understandable. I'm absolutely on your side with this ... (read in full...)
Am I being too pushy with him?
Q. Hello, Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now and we lived together for 2 years. I moved here in california last year. Before, he asked me to stay with him and not to moved anymore but i said i cant because i cant live with the we...
A. 17 December 2008: I would say that yeah you were a little too pushy with him. First of all, I wanna say that kids and marriage should have never been brought up, considering that he is in another state..long distance relationships almost never work out (you can trust ... (read in full...)
Are you a tall girl and self conscious?
Q. No need to be! I can relate. I am almost 18 years old and 6'1"! When I was in middle school, I absolutely hated it, and if you are one of those girls, there's no need to hate your body or your height! I have found that many young tall girls are v...
A. 17 December 2008: I used to hate it too...in fact, sometimes it still get's on my nerves. I am 24 and 5'10, been that tall since about 5th-6th grade. I can only find one pair of pants if I'm lucky in the winter time and well, being pregnant now for the 2nd time, the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he cant get any sleep when I am in the bed with him
Q. Hi, So I started dating this guy a month ago and I have slept over. It seems he can't get any sleep when I'm in the bed with him. I don't move much nor snore, and I'm able to sleep well. He hasn't had someone in his bed for the past three ye...
A. 17 December 2008: I have the exact same problem with my guy. And honestly, I think it's a lot of reasons. He's hasn't shared his bed in a really long time, he doesn't sleep (1) cause he's trying to have sex every other hour without telling me (2) once he finally is ... (read in full...)
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