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writes:is he for real?am 24years old and my bf is 34. we have known each other for about 4years. the problem we have always had is distance, but more to that now is that he proposed to me some months back which i accepted and he promised to see my parents before i come back from the state but he never did, making it the second time.. the other problem is that he can stay a month without calling,and when i call, he says is work stress and also loses focus in his work whenever he hears my voice on phone, but still love and ready to spend the rest of his life with me. am really worried cos i dont know what he is up to over there, do you think he is for real? your advice will be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to first of all say thank you to all the help you have rendered to young people on relationship problems, including myself... Please I want to know if is really necessary to understand your fiance tribal language before getting married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): I agree with punky, this isn't normal, when I am stressed my girlfriends voice immediately puts me at ease. I love to hear her voice especially when I'm feeling down, I don't think I could spend more than a couple of days without talking to here either.
I don't understand what is happening with your guy, but you need to find out, to put your mind at ease.
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reader, lacexoxo22  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I also think this can be one of two situations. My first thought was that he only proposed to you to shut you up and keep you off his back..I think he has another life wherever he's at now. But then again like PunkyPippi said, if he's always been wierd and not as available then maybe nothings going on. But I find it really hard to believe that he could go up to a month without one, short, phone call just to make sure your okay...considering you are his fiance, if nothing is going on. I don't know. You know him better then any of us, what do YOU think is going on? What do you FEEL in your heart? Your first initial reaction and 'gut feeling'-intuition is probably right. Good luck, hope this helps.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Hmmm....
I don't think it's normal to go a month without calling your fiance. Has he always been this way or just recently? If it's recent, I think there's more going on than what he's told you. If he's been this way the entire time, he either has a wife, or he's the most scatterbrained human ever.
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