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writes:So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin behind the head when I am erect... Did anyone experience this? What should I do? I really need advice please. Thank you.
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (22 January 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI will wait lacexoxo22 thank you! i would really appreciate it if you can give me as much info as possible because i really need it and it will help because he was like me, or at least almost...
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reader, lacexoxo22 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Oh sweety I'm sorry. Well, the only thing I can offer now is to talk to my bf and see what works best for him. Maybe whatever he does to fix the problem, can help you too. I'll ask him and get back with you.
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (21 January 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlacexoxo22 the thing is that when i am erected the foreskin doesnt retract by itself, i have to do it manually and as i said it hurts if i retract it behind the head...
satindesire thx for advice.
I don't really have to go see a doctor beause the frenulum breve can break or strech during intercourse... It's better if it breaks though but that will cause a bit of bleading... but then sex will be just fine. I am kinda afraid because american grls don't really see uncircumcised penises...and that makes me unconfortable of what will happen the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): My parents too decided not to mutilate their baby boy by circumsizing him.
Best to go see your doctor, they can advise you on the best solution. I know guys that had a frenulum breve and had to get a frenectomy, very minor procedure, but it makes a lot of difference. It's abnormal not to be able to pull the foreskin fully back over the head. Especially seeing as it's that part of the head thats most sensitive and hence the pleasure centre.
I'm lucky I live in Ireland it's very rare for guys to be circumsized here, so Irish women know what they're doing when it comes to foreskin. Just remember though it is extra important to uncircumsized guys to make sure the girl is properly lubricated before penetration...
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reader, lacexoxo22 +, writes (20 January 2009):
My boyfriend is also and I go down on him all the time. We normally don't have any problems with oral, just a few times we have with sex. He said the same thing about the foreskin behind the head. Best thing I could say is try to get your penis to where the skin doesn't "roll" behind it. I realize sometimes that's easier said then done, cause like I said I know from experience with my bf. If she knows that your not circumcised and acts like she has no problem with it, then by all means, let her do her thing. But if she isn't aware, then you need to tell her. I mean it "looks" the same when your hard anyway so I don't think she's going to be scared, just if your soft and she looks down and freaks out because she didn't know. Know what I mean? I think you'll be okay with getting head just take extra precautions before sex. Good luck, hope this helps.
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