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writes:I need help! I really like this guy who's out of college, but I won't have time for a relationship until I'm out. How can I let him know I'm interested so he'll wait for me until I'm out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs there any way that I can turn the odds towards my favor? Maybe visiting him often? idk... :(
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reader, bookiebabyyy +, writes (19 December 2008):
I agree.
The odds don't seem to be on your side.
If you talk to him and work something out, depending if he is willing to commit to a compromise with you than it can work.
Just maybe
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reader, lacexoxo22 +, writes (19 December 2008):
 You can't because he won't wait for you. Plain and simple. I've seen this situation too many times and it never ends up being the way you picture it or hope it will be. He's not going to wait for you. He might say he is, but trust me, he is sleeping with other people or getting involved with other people. Your not the only one he is "messing" with. Leave it alone sweety, he's gonna dissapoint you and probably hurt you. I mean if you really think you know him and that him waiting is a reasonable and possible option, then just talk to him and explain to him how much you care and how you really wanna be with him. But my advice is don't even waste your time. Find someone that will wait for YOU, not you waiting for HIM. Cuz if he cared for you as much as you do for him, you wouldn't even be on here asking that question...you would already know that he's gonna wait for you...no questions asked! You would need no reassurance or advice on how to tell him. Leave him alone sweety. Good luck, hope this helps.
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