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He masturbates over Page 3 and its really upsetting me!!
Q. My boyf of 3 1/2 years is driving me mad! In the past Ive caught him lookin at Page 3 about to masterbate whilst he thought I was asleep. Ive caught him looking at it on the internet and during an argument about it he admitted the evening before he ...
A. 9 August 2006: Has the problem just started since your pregnancy? Maybe he doesn’t want to wake you because you need your sleep? Perhaps he is afraid he will somehow hurt you and the baby during intercourse? He needs to understand that you feel uncomfortable with ... (read in full...)
Ladies, tell me why you would want to have sex with a man who looks at porn and gets horny over other women?
Q. It is totally incredible to me that some women will still want to have sex with a man who uses porn. Ladies doesn't this make you sick? Why would you want to have sex with a man whos gets horny over other women? I dont understand. To the argueme...
A. 9 August 2006: I find that every man, that I personally, have ever been around has enjoyed looking at all women in general (fully clothed, unclothed, big, little, it really doesn’t matter). I think this is totally natural. I do not want my partner to feel that he ... (read in full...)
Dreading my child starting fulltime school because of his problems at nursery. Any tips?
Q. Hi,I should be looking forward to My youngest son starting fulltime school in september but I'm dreading it. He has been attending the nursery at his school for about 18months now and is due to start reception. however he has never really sett...
A. 8 August 2006: I don’t know if this will help but I baby-sit for children of various ages 2-5. I have noticed that it seems harder on the children when their mom’s actually come in with them "to get them settled". I ask the moms to do whatever makes them ... (read in full...)
How do I get out relationship out in the open
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now, but there's always been a problem in our relationship since day one: i am comfortable with my sexuality, and she's not. all of my friends know about me and the two of us. but i was her first ...
A. 6 August 2006: You are going to have a lot of work cut out for you if you decide to stay with her. It sounds like you grew up around a lot of open minded people, you are very lucky.
Imagine if you suddenly told your friends that you were actually straight, do y... (read in full...)
How to deal with a 4 year old who never stops talking?
Q. What advice can someone give me to deal with a 4 (almost 5) year old WHO NEVER STOPS TALKING. He starts at 8 am and doesn't stop until 9-10 pm. ~By 3 pm everyday I have a splitting headache. I mean he can't go for more than 5 minutes without ...
A. 6 August 2006: Hello, I had the exact opposite problem, my first son's speach was delayed. I had similiar problems with a 4 year old girl that I babysit for. I purchased some training material for younger children on sign language and I would make a game out of ... (read in full...)
My 32 month old daughter fights with her 26 month old naughty nephew!
Q. Have have a 32 month old daughter and a nephew of 26 months. Whenever they are together all they do is fight! He is one of 3 with busy mom...mine is only child who attends nursery 2 mornings and is told "no" etc when she does wrong. It is getting ...
A. 5 August 2006: Oops, oops my answer hasn’t popped up yet because I wasn’t logged in, so here I go again. The age differences between the two do not seem that great at first but I baby-sit for a group of children who are 6 months apart. The problems that I see ... (read in full...)
My 32 month old daughter fights with her 26 month old naughty nephew!
Q. Have have a 32 month old daughter and a nephew of 26 months. Whenever they are together all they do is fight! He is one of 3 with busy mom...mine is only child who attends nursery 2 mornings and is told "no" etc when she does wrong. It is getting ...
A. 5 August 2006: Oops forgot to log in before, I'm immuno. I am the one who baby sits for the "circus" I wrote about below :).... (read in full...)
Breaking up is problematic
Q. Hi,my ex and I broke up in January after a 4 year relationship, he decided that we needed time apart to work out our problems. We lived together until the end of June and during this time (at the beginning of June) he met someone else, he broke up ...
A. 5 August 2006: How are YOU feeling about all of this? I realize you say you are confused but how is your heart? This whole thing has to be painful for you. You have been helping him every step of the way so I am assuming you still care for him. Maybe he realizes ... (read in full...)
Can you forgive cheating behaviour?
Q. I am just curious as to whether or not people in general think that a cheating partner can be forgiven. If so, do you think that they are most likely going to do it again? Just wondering about what people thought of this kind of stuff. Thanks!...
A. 5 August 2006: Hello, everyones advice is really good. It does depend on the person who has been cheated on and also how the cheater behaves after. I personally am a very insecure person and I do not think I could forgive because I would never forget. This is ... (read in full...)
Is she having sex to trap me?
Q. I fear that my girlfriend was confused with love and lust when we had sex. Im not sure but i have been thinking deeply about my 8 n a half month relationship a lot recently. She has mentioned a lot about 'when you have sex' basically you can't leave ...
A. 5 August 2006: Unfortunately people tend to have sex before considering what the act means to both parties. You state that you are in an 8 1/2 month relationship, did you have sex the night you met or did you wait further into the relationship? If it was on the ... (read in full...)
Im a bit fed up and depressed and cant get out of it... Please help
Q. hey im just gonna get rite down to the subject, i feel so lonely and depressed at the moment, i feel worthless and that im never gonna accomplish anything in life, i dont want to talk to parents or that about it bcoz they think everything is ...
A. 4 August 2006: Hey you, have you found any of this advice helpful?! Let us know with some feedback. Take care, !!!!HUGS!!!! ... (read in full...)
We're in a seven year affair and he cheated on me! How do I get over my hurt?
Q. I have had an affair with my married boss (now, former boss) for 7 years. He told me daily how very much he loved me and that no one had ever made him feel the way I did. 2 1/2 months ago he lied to me. He told me he was going to be playing golf ...
A. 4 August 2006: I do not condone cheating on any level but I can have compassion for anyone who is hurting. We all make mistakes and I don’t think anyone ever goes into an adulterous affair intentionally. I am a very insecure person myself and I know that I would ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend for talking to this girl too much, now he wants me back, but I don't know if I can trust him!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year, this is my first relationship ive ever been in and im so confused. He is 22 and has been going behind my back talking to a girl that he works with. He knew it bothered me and told me he would ...
A. 4 August 2006: I was in a similar situation before. The girl kept showing up where my husband hung out. She would talk to him and ignore me. When she got a job at his favorite hang out and started offering to be his designated driver after hours I freaked out. I ... (read in full...)
We're in a seven year affair and he cheated on me! How do I get over my hurt?
Q. I have had an affair with my married boss (now, former boss) for 7 years. He told me daily how very much he loved me and that no one had ever made him feel the way I did. 2 1/2 months ago he lied to me. He told me he was going to be playing golf ...
A. 4 August 2006: I am so sorry for you. How did he react when you ended your relationship with him? Did you both discuss it thoroughly so that it is final or do you still feel like there are things you need to say to him? Seven years is a very long time and it does ... (read in full...)
Im a bit fed up and depressed and cant get out of it... Please help
Q. hey im just gonna get rite down to the subject, i feel so lonely and depressed at the moment, i feel worthless and that im never gonna accomplish anything in life, i dont want to talk to parents or that about it bcoz they think everything is ...
A. 4 August 2006: I have a seventeen year old son who was feeling the same way. Depression happens to many of us. You say your dad is depressed, is this adding to your depression? I know you say you do not want to talk to your parents but keeping them in the dark is ... (read in full...)
To shave or not to shave...now THAT is the question!
Q. Do men prefer a shaved woman or not?...
A. 4 August 2006: My man likes it smooth (or with a little landing strip). Unfortunately, as we all know, unless the hair is permanently removed it only stays that way for a short time. I like surprising him by doing it irregularly. I usually do this at a time when ... (read in full...)
How to do sex
Q. im a virgin so i dunno what to actually do with my bf. what should i do when im having sex with him?...
A. 4 August 2006: Being informed is the best advice I can give you. Make sure that you are both old enough to have sex according to the state laws that you live in. If either of you are under age that could mean big problems for you both. Take care of yourself and ... (read in full...)
How can I help her get over her insecurity?
Q. My girlfriend is incredibly insecure and puts herself down a lot. She thinks I'm better than her and that she is lucky too get someone like me. She is so desperate too keep me and constantly says things like 'if u ever finished with me i'd feel used ...
A. 3 August 2006: This poor little girl needs a confidence boost. I think you should make an appointment at a photog place to have your pix taken together. Have some apart as well. Let her know you like looking at her and you want to always be able to look at her ... (read in full...)
Do women prefer a hairy chest or shaved chest?
Q. what do women prefer, a hairy chest or a shaved chest?...
A. 3 August 2006: It depends on the woman. "Do you prefer eggs over easy or sunnyside up?" I think it my be fun to shave a hairy chest so I guess, personall,y I like both, lol.... (read in full...)
Internet guy verses Real World man: what shall I do???
Q. I have been talking to a guy loads on msn messenger and we met a couple of days ago. He is really into me and i know hes genuine but i didn't think i felt the same. Today, i bumped into a guy i used to really like and now we are meeting tomorrow...
A. 3 August 2006: I would let the "birthday" guy know that you made previous plans. You don’t have to go into detail about it. Just let him know you are sorry for missing his birthday. After that try to keep the msn relationship at a more friend only level. I think ... (read in full...)
On a relationship break and I like someone else
Q. I am so confused. I had to take a break from my boyfriend of 2 years because I don't know if I'm really happy. I have been talking to this other guy at work and I think I actually like this other guy. Problem is he has a girlfriend of 3 years and ...
A. 3 August 2006: It sounds like guy #2 just wants to be friends and you are trying to persuade him to take it to the next level. It doesnt seem fair to any of you to keep your guy as a backup plan. You sound afraid of being alone. Why not just take a break and work ... (read in full...)
I am just depressed all the time about my marriage
Q. hi i need to talk to someone, i hate being married all i've done for the past four years is look after my father in law no one likes me. It like i'm just part of the furniture in the house. I've cried and cried to my husband but he wo'nt do ...
A. 3 August 2006: Hello, I agree with "Dr psych". I just wanted to send you a...BIG HUG!!! Be strong and take care of yourself :). ... (read in full...)
She gets all mushy in front of my family...I hate it!
Q. My girlfriend touches me and always has to hold my hand in front of my family and it really annoys me and i feel embarassed in front of my family I mean its fine when their not around i just feel uncomftable... How can i tell her without upsettin...
A. 3 August 2006: Just tell her. Let her know you love it when your alone but you feel uncomfortable when your family is around, she should understand. She will probably be embarassed that she embarassed you. Honesty and communication is the best thing you can give ... (read in full...)
Ladies: do you think you're more sympathetic to females who cheat?
Q. Why is it on this site that women tend to be so sympathetic to a woman who has cheated and are so very understanding but when it's a man who cheated you hear phrases like, "Once a cheater always a cheater" or "A leopard never changes his spots". Is ...
A. 3 August 2006: Hi, lostandalone. I think perhaps the "once a cheat always a cheat", full me once etc.. has to do with the cheating happening within the same relationship. My feeling is that once you have crossed that line it is difficult to come back. The cheater ... (read in full...)
I love my ex's family, they're like my own. But my relationship with them bothers my boyfriend!
Q. I love my boyfriend very much! I plan on having a future with him and I'm not leaving him. The problem is that I'm close to my ex- boyfriend's family. I've known them all my life and they are like my own family. My friends are over at their ho...
A. 3 August 2006: If I were you (and I'm not) I would continue my friendships with the family but I would include my new boy friend in any excursions. I don’t think I would actually hang out at the house any longer but would rather do some things in a more public ... (read in full...)
Dating, friendships and being very puzzled about all this!
Q. i met dustin out one night we were like sole mates. i went shy and stopped talking. few months later met his friend out, david, he is 20 years older. ended up going to a football match with him, was stressing that all i want was friends, could ...
A. 3 August 2006: If you are at least 18 years of age it does sound as if Dustin is stepping aside for David out of respect for your/ his friendship. I only mentioned the age because if David is 20 years older than you he is an adult (~38?). On the other hand if ... (read in full...)
It took me a while to win her love, but things are good except her dad forbids me to talk to her.. please help!!
Q. i have a girlfriend and we have been goin out for 7 months, we been thru alot and it has taken me soo long to win her love. and wen i finally have it her dad forbids me from talking to her. i used to be good frends with her dad and we used to get on ...
A. 3 August 2006: Being a daddy's girl myself I can safely say that your girlfriend is probably the "Apple of Dads's Eye". He is probably more afraid to lose her than you can ever imagine.
I'm not sure if something happened between you and the father to actually caus... (read in full...)
Im 45 and cant stop feeling im addicted to sex, and its driving my poor man crazy!!
Q. Help, I think i am addicted to sex. I know this sounds funny, but I am making my partner unhappy. I never used to be this bad, but everytime I look at him I cant stop wanting him. We have been together for 2 years, and he introduced me to porn and ...
A. 3 August 2006: You go girl! I dont know if this helps but I have read that womens sex drives increase when we are in our 40's. I think it has something to do with pre-menopause and our bodies trying to get those last eggs fertilized. Mens sex drives are more ... (read in full...)
What is an orgasm?
Q. Okay... Heres me question... I'm 18 and have been sexually active for a little over a year. I just had sex with my boyfreind (the third guy i've ever been with). So yeah heres the question. What is an orgasum? I don't think that I have ever had an o...
A. 2 August 2006: I remember the first time I started to have an orgasm during sex, I thought I had to pee and I kept stopping the sensation. I realized after some experimentation exactly what was going on and I eventually did let myself go on to my first orgasm, I ... (read in full...)
Went out for a mates birthday, both my BF and my Ex were there.. I ended up splurting out to my current BF that I really wish I hadnt split with my ex!!
Q. I have royally screwed up, last nite we went round town to celebrate my mates b'day the only problem was my ex bf and my current bf were both gonna be there. So we all meet up and got some drink i was on vodka for most of the nite. We went and sat ...
A. 2 August 2006: Too much alcohol can really unmask hidden feelings, they pop up and then out before we can stop them. On the other hand it can also distort emotions and feelings. When you have time (after the initial shock of this “realization” has lessened) sit ... (read in full...)
I caught him cheating; will he always be a cheater?
Q. My bf and I have been together 3 years, but last year I learned that he had been unfaithful and although it hurt very much, I decided to stay with him and try and work through our problems. The last year has been hard but we have had good times and ...
A. 2 August 2006: You sound like a very understanding person, he is very lucky to have you. Was there problems with your relationship when he cheated? If this was the case perhaps he was trying to validate his desirability. Was it a one time stand or an affair? ... (read in full...)
I broke up with *her*, but the idea of her seeing someone else is killing me!
Q. I split up with my partner of 8 years three months ago. We have a 6 year old daughter together and she has 2 other kids from a previous relationship who still come out with me every Sunday. She has just told me she has started seeing someone else ...
A. 2 August 2006: When you broke it off obviously you still had feelings for her. You probably expected the break up to be a wake up call to her. When she accepted the break up you were not expecting it. You said she treated you like a doormat, sometimes when people ... (read in full...)
I tells me Im boring, and when it comes to sex he tells me I should buy sexier underwear!!
Q. I have been married for 10 years my husband is close to 40 years of age, we have 3 kids, of late he has shut me out, tells me i am boring, i must wake up and smell the coffee, when it comes to sex and ask whats wrong i get told i should buy sexier ...
A. 2 August 2006: Hello, my husband is also close to 40 and we are experiencing the same kind of thing. We are both attractive people and we have been married for 20 years. We have 2 children the youngest is 2. Between the kids and the every day routines its ... (read in full...)
My best mates don't get on with each other :-(
Q. Theres this girl called H i met her on my first day at secondary school. i have now known her 2 years about a year ago i met this other girl at school called C. They are both really gd mates.But theres a problem they dont get on. H has been getting...
A. 1 August 2006: Hello, it sounds as if your friend H is feeling a bit threatened by C. Let H know how important she is to you and that she (H) is the only one you can tell everything to. Remind her (H) that she is your best mate so your judgment couldn’t be all ... (read in full...)
How can I make understand my husband that it's over?
Q. I just quite can´t reach him by talking to him. After 10 years of marriage I want to move on, to be alone! I feel trapped and stuck with him. I have been thinking about leave him years ago, but maybe in my soul I don´t want to break his heart. He ...
A. 1 August 2006: Do you really want to be alone? If you are worried about breaking his heart then you might still have some feelings for him. If you can, then make an appointment for yourself at a family counseling center. This will show him that you are willing to ... (read in full...)
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