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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): just close the room with ur bf and stand naked in front of him he will do the rest
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): just have sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you want it go and get it.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 I won't repeat the advice already given here, as most of it is sound, good common sense, especially with regards to safe sex, making sure that he is really the one to give up your most precious gift to; knowing you are in charge of your own body, knowing your rights, and observing the legal age laws, etc. These are all extremely important, and must be given careful consideration.
As far as technique goes, make sure you are in a nice relaxing place, as you will always remember your first time, and a little music, soft lighting, and romance never hurts.. Just take it really slow, relax, and let nature follow it's course. Make certain that you trust him. Tell him what feels good for you, and ask him what he would like you to do. You can always say if you don't feel ready to do certain things, at least maybe not yet.. This is why it is so important that he is a special guy, and treats you gently, and you should be able to talk in a mature way about any subject, and feel comfortable with everything he does. If not, say so! If you like, you can move your body with his, and imagine what will feel nice for him, stroke his skin in sensitive parts, kiss him wherever you feel. You will develop your own unique style, in time, as you get to know what you both like, and I wish you good memories, that will last and give you pleasure for many years to come. They will last a lifetime, so take it easy, and enjoy it! Take care, and be GOOD to YOURSELF! :o)
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reader, cutiebutterfly +, writes (4 August 2006):
when i first started having sex with my ex-boyfriend i was so worried he would think i was crap but when it happens all of your worries seem to disappear and if your really ready you will both enjoy it.
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (4 August 2006):
 just go with the flow it all comes natrual but please make sure you are ready to have sex
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reader, bonym +, writes (4 August 2006):
 The female (immuno) below has given you great advice, just perfect. I dont think its necessary to say "well just do this and if you try doing that it will feel great" NO. Some people may be able to give you that sort of advice, but I wont, its not me.
Sex is a act of love, well it ought to be anyway and when 2 people are genuinely in love and want to be together, you find that there need be no questions asked, the act is done. If you are both ready, you will know what to do. xXx
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reader, immuno +, writes (4 August 2006):
 Being informed is the best advice I can give you. Make sure that you are both old enough to have sex according to the state laws that you live in. If either of you are under age that could mean big problems for you both. Take care of yourself and make sure you READ as much as you can about the PREVENTION of STD's as well as pregnancy BEFORE having SEX. There are some really great web sites out there that can answer your questions, just google "Safe Sex". Remember that abstinence (no sex) is the only real method to prevent both of these things.
Also, one very important thing, always remember that it is your body and you alone should be in control of it. If you want to say no at the last minute that is your right. Never let anyone try to talk you into something that you do not want to do. Make sure in your heart this is the right decision for you because once its over you can never have a first time again.
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reader, Nish +, writes (4 August 2006):
Since you're still a virgin and you don't know what you're donig, you should just lay their. If your bf isn't a virgin, you should let him do all the work. Just be sure to tell him to go slow, because believe me, it's going to hurt and you might even start bleeding. But you'll only bleed for a couple days. No more than two, depending on how your body will respond to it. NOw if you really, really want my advice, then I think you should wait. Because once you lose it, you'll never get it back. And once it's gone, you'll wish you would of never gave it away. But the real question is, do you think he's the one? Are you sure he won't take it and then treat you like dirt? That's usually what happens. All I'm saying is make sure that he's the one you want to give it away to. Trust me, you don't want to give it away to the wrong person. He just might break your heart and then your going to want revenge and when you're thinking that way, the consequences aren't pretty! Trust me, I know the feeling. It's happened to me and a couple of my friends. Just make sure he's the one!
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reader, trita4 +, writes (4 August 2006):
You have to be psycologically ready for it and should not feel used after the action that is why it is ment to be done after marriage and with the one you love and they also love you. in most cases, you ahould start with kissing and your mind will relax and each step will follow. but please be careful and do it with the right person so that you do not have regrets after it.
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