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writes: Theres this girl called H i met her on my first day at secondary school. i have now known her 2 years about a year ago i met this other girl at school called C.They are both really gd mates.But theres a problem they dont get on.H has been getting very jealous as i see C more as shes in all my classes and lives just down the road from me.i try to set up shopping trips and sleepovers with just me and hayley so she doesnt get jealous.She either comes up with a excuse or says why dont u invite C im sure you'll have more fun with her.It really getting to me now as we are drifting apart and she doesnt see to wanna fix things. I can also talk to H alot better than C i tell her everything. What can i do to fix things?
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Hello, it sounds as if your friend H is feeling a bit threatened by C. Let H know how important she is to you and that she (H) is the only one you can tell everything to. Remind her (H) that she is your best mate so your judgment couldn’t be all that bad. And why don’t you invite C, try to find something that all three of you have in common and then do it together. Chances are H will see the same things in C that you did and your friendships will become even stronger. You can never have too many friends.
Good luck :)
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