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writes: I have royally screwed up, last nite we went round town to celebrate my mates b'day the only problem was my ex bf and my current bf were both gonna be there. So we all meet up and got some drink i was on vodka for most of the nite.We went and sat down and by this time i was extremely drunk and my ex was annoying me i tried to hit him but my bf restrained me by this point i was so wound up and we had been split up from our mates i didnt have a clue where anyone was.Things were starting to get very stressful between me and my bf he kept walking off and leaving me so i went for him and slapped him round the face.He walked off and left me and then i bumped into my ex and my mate i was in such a state im sat left on a bench then my bf comes back the only reason was cause he had nowhere else to go.So we started walking back to mine i was so drunk we began walking when all of a sudden i broke down saying how i wish i hadnt dumped my bf back in April the worst part of it is its all true i still love him and its making me ill.And now my current bf wants nothing to do with me anymore i just wanna forget about all of them they arent doing me any favours apart from making me feel like crap.
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reader, kirstylouise  +, writes (2 August 2006):
Hi there i think the best thing for you to do would be to take some time out from both of them - so you can clear you head.
Do you know if your ex feels the same as you?
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reader, immuno +, writes (2 August 2006):
 Too much alcohol can really unmask hidden feelings, they pop up and then out before we can stop them. On the other hand it can also distort emotions and feelings. When you have time (after the initial shock of this “realization” has lessened) sit down and really think about what happened and ask yourself if you really do still love the ex. Was the relationship a good one, there is a reason why they are an ex? If you truly do have feelings for this new guy and he cares for you maybe its not too late. I would try not to make too many decisions right now because you sound really stressed. Let all parties involved know that you are taking some “me time” and try to take a relationship vacation for a few days. Do at least one thing a day solely for yourself, it doesn’t have to be major thing, take a long hot bubble bath, get your nails done , etc.. These types of things can help you relax and give you time to sort things out. Good luck, I have been there.
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