Could I still get pregnant?
Q. Today me and my boyfriend was in bed, we didnt have full intercourse but he put his penis inside me with no condom but didnt ejaculate or move it about, could i still get pregnant?...
A. 14 September 2009: While the odds are much much lower than if he finished inside you, yes, it's possible. Some sperm are in precum, and that will dribble out even without much motion.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I won't find anyone to be with!
Q. I am 25 and at the stage where I am afraid I wont find a partner to spend my life with. I have been in four relationships, the first 3 I ended because I dind't see myself with the person and the last 1 broke my heart. Finally when ive been through ...
A. 14 September 2009: I'm a 25 year old male and I have been in two serious relationships, one that ended when I found out about her several other boyfriends on the side, and the other when she dumped me without giving me a reason and insisted we never speak again. ... (read in full...)
It appears to be over, but I have no closure...
Q. Okay, so a beautiful relationship I was in ended badly. We were together for a little over two months, but I poured my heart and soul into the realationship during that time. After she did many hurtful things to me in the last few weeks, she call...
A. 12 September 2009: I know the feeling. I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged, and the wedding was half planned. Then she gave me back the ring with no warning or discussion and has refused to speak with me since. I still don't know why she dumped me. She ... (read in full...)
Am I asking for sex too much?
Q. I am a newlywed (20 years old) to a wonderful husband (25 years old). We got married in May, and we have always had a great sex life. Before we were married, he wanted sex every time we were together and I was sometimes hesitant, but would still ...
A. 12 September 2009: You're young, healthy, in love, and attracted to your newlywed husband. That's normal and to be expected. You SHOULD expect sex with him. Ask if he's back into porn, or stressed over work or money, or if he's been feeling well physically, or s... (read in full...)
We went out for two days and then he dumped me. I can't stop crying!.
Q. I need help, I'm 15 in year 11 and there's this lad I like at school I havent been talking to him long, and we got together a couple of days ago, he dumped me last night, but I have never felt like this before. I havent stopped crying, I can't ...
A. 11 September 2009: First heavy crush. I felt much the same when the first girl I gave a Valentine's gift to wouldn't accept it. All I can say is that it gets easier, you'll come to realize that he wasn't as perfect as you believe him to be now, and that there are TONS ... (read in full...)
She only wants me forever, but can I really trust her
Q. Ok, me and her have been together for the last 3 years but for some reason I have my doubts about her. Well, everything with us has always been great and we love each other to death and have had many great times, the only bad thing is it is a ...
A. 11 September 2009: I'd say trust her. From what you wrote, it seems that she was kissed two years ago, didn't move to kiss him back, doesn't and didn't like him, and now they aren't even friendly. And she hung out with another guy, but wasn't even alone with him ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me. He doesn't know I cheated on him too. Should I tell him?
Q. My boyfriend has cheated on me twice and I've forgiven him both times because he came out and told me I didnt have to find out or any other immature things involved. While he was cheating on me I kinda felt that something was going on so I cheated ...
A. 11 September 2009: Tell him. You've stayed by him after he cheated. And he told you, risking you leaving him. Tell him it happened just once, in the past, while he was cheating, but that you've both stopped and are devoted to each other now.
He was honest with you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?
Q. My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to ma...
A. 11 September 2009: As TheSpaceBetweenWords said, not *everyone* has sex. I'm 25, have been in two long term serious relationships, the more recent being a 3 year long one including engagement and wedding planning, and am still a virgin. I'm a 25 year old male, but ... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend wants to get back with me but I'm engaged, how do I tell him?
Q. I dated a guy in high school for 2 and a half years. During that time I fell in love with him. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first time, my first everything. We ended up being forced apart by my parents from some trouble we got into. ...
A. 11 September 2009: You've only been dating this childhood friend for less than a year, and you're not 18 yet (or have just turned 18)? In all honestly, you're probably too young to marry anyway, particularly if you're still not sure who you want to be with. Firs... (read in full...)
Since we had sex for the first time last week I keep getting sexual urges!
Q. My girlfriend and i have sex for the first time last week, the night before I went on holiday. Ever since ive been on holiday I get sexual urges and every girl I see looks like my girlfriend, why is this? Also Ive never been able to give my girlfrie...
A. 11 September 2009: I have urges with women all over the place too. Ahh, the joys of being a healthy male. It's normal, just try not to leer too much.
But very few women (I've heard it's only 25%) can climax from penetration. To make her toes curl, you really h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?
Q. My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to ma...
A. 11 September 2009: I'm sorry to be blunt, really, but if he DID care, he WOULD wait. If he's pressuring you, and even using cliché lines like the old "if you love me" crap, he's only concerned about his own lust, not your love.
Tell him he has two choices: Dating y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont spend the time on foreplay and sex is getting painful!
Q. My boyfriend and I enjoy sex together a lot. But lately things have been horrible. We both kinda like our sex rough and never had a problem. However, he just started graduate school and is working full time so he feels crushed for time. I like to ...
A. 11 September 2009: As a man who was more horny than my recent girlfriend, and who felt hurt that she couldn't provide what I wanted, I STILL have to say that if he doesn't take the time to get you turned on, doesn't wait until you're ready, and is literally hurting ... (read in full...)
I don't really feel sex. Whats wrong with me?
Q. OMG help me!!! wen I masturbate nothing happens. I'll rub on my G spot but nothing.. it doesnt appeal to me one bit not even a little!! my boyfriend will do it but nothing either.. sex feels ok but not like what its made out to be for me...i fake ...
A. 11 September 2009: Many women don't feel much or even anything from their GSpots (one GF of mine just described it as feeling "weird"), and penetration only can bring about 25% of women to orgasm. The clit is the best place for the majority of women. Ask your ... (read in full...)
I made up my mind that I want to marry him, but he is "forcing" me to have more time! Has he lost interest?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about three months. He is wonderful, we are so much compatible and am in love with him (he tells me he is too) We we disscussed our future together and agreed that we would get married sometime. After a while, i...
A. 11 September 2009: Three months is the fast lane. It can be perfect, absolutely blissfully perfect, but still not have that staying power. My fiancée just left me after three years together, so I may be a bit jaded, but even after a rapture-level bliss with this girl, ... (read in full...)
How cliche, in love with my best friend; how do I get him to be mine?
Q. I need to know if i should give up or wait for him. I've been friends with this guy for 8+ years and at times i guess we're more than friends we flirt and talk dirty to each other on the phone and through text but nothing physical we've never even ...
A. 11 September 2009: Talk to him. Openly, calmly, in a safe place so he won't feel trapped (maybe over dinner some time you both like), but be honest. Don't just blurt out "I love you" but you have to let him know. It sounds like you share just about everything already, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wasnt paying me any attention when we had a threesome but now I think I want to try another one!
Q. so I'm bisexual female and Ive had the same boyfriend for over a year now. a threesome came up in our conversation about four months ago and we'd thought it be fun to try it with one of my friends thats a girl whos also a bisexual, we asked and she ...
A. 11 September 2009: Threesomes are fun to think about, even talk about, but they will always leave hurt feelings. Even if you both share the friend evenly, you'll always feel like too much attention is paid to her. The only way to feel good about it is to have her ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a man to want to climax too?
Q. I'm 25 and have had two serious relationships, one seven months before I found out she was cheating on me, and the other three years and a half-planned wedding before she dumped me without explanation. I've performed and kinda-received oral, but ...
A. 10 September 2009: Mostly to the male reader below:
In this last relationship, I had been her friend for months before dating, and we were dating almost two months before becoming sexual. We did share interests in movies and books, discussed morality and psycholo... (read in full...)
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