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I'm tired of being single and the odd man out!

Q.   Hello everyone. I want to know why I'm still single, in your opinion. I know there's no real 'right' answer. Okay...here we go! I've been single for about 5 years now. I'm not terribly picky, so I don't really have a 'type' that I go after. I'm a ...

A.   27 January 2011: I work at Panera Bread, and at our store we call people up to get their food. When me and a few other guys work we scribble our number on the napkins of every decent looking girl that comes through. I met my current girlfriend that way, obviously ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   25 January 2011: Just want to thank you guys for the advice, the clit advice being the most useful. I coordinated a bunch of stuff and the result was basically a more intense version of what was going on before. So I guess she wasn't faking. I noticed every sign ... (read in full...)

Does he notice me in class?

Q.   there is this boy in my class and i really like him but i don't know if he notices me in class, cause he doesn't talk to me but on face-book and stuff he talks to me all the time and we talk for hours and he is the first person to start the ...

A.   25 January 2011: As a guy who has done similar stuff, (I m 17, just past your age group the odds are he's at least interested in testing the water. The fact that he initiates the conversation is a good sign of that. You should make an effort to ask him to hang out ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: For some reason the idea of using a toy at age 17 on my first partner doesn't appeal to me. It also makes me feel like I fail as a lover and need a machine to get my girlfriend off for me. If all that gets her off is a toy, why do I even need to be ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about the condom breaking?

Q.   My girlfriend is on the pill. She was prescribed it for acne reasons around 6 months ago but kept at it now that we're active. I use a condom every time as well, but I feel like kind of whimp for doing so. A spermicide lubricated condom broke the ...

A.   24 January 2011: Thank you again for the answers. You guys are great. Theres no STD concern we're each other's firsts. But I'll stay in the habit. ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: Why is that a favorable timeline? ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: Uplifting YouWish. Thanks a bunch for the answers guys. Eased my mind a bit. I'll update you guys tomorrow. I'm going off to college in August though. So is she. I don't see it lasting beyond then because it wouldn't be fair to eith of us. I gu... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: I've seen it. No need to get smart. Just please answer my question. ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: I feel like a jackass for continually posting, but the back arching and breathing pausing before a gasp. That is exactly what happens. Can girls fake that, could a 17 year old with her first sex partner fake that? Is that an orgasm, or is that the ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: Its not that don't give her oral sex and its NOT just intercourse It just seems like she prefers my fingers, followed by intercourse. She always says its good and she doesn't normally exhibit any theatrical moaning or signs of fakeage. Part of the ... (read in full...)

Lost in love!

Q.   Ok. So Iim an 18 year old guy. At the age of six I moved to the US from Chile. I lived there 12 years and now I'm back in Chile with my family. I have a cousin that is an amazing person. She is 19 years old. She is kind to me, loving, and she makes ...

A.   24 January 2011: If she's your cousin by marriage there nothing wrong at all. Theres only an issue if she's related to you by blood. for example Mother's-Sister's daughter. ... (read in full...)

I'm a closet gay. I'd like to come out but I'm afraid to

Q.   Hey, I'm 15 and am a closet gay. Lately I've been having this urge to tell someone about it. I live in a country where there are not all that many gay guys. In fact even my brother is not really okay with gay people. I cant tell anyone in my school, ...

A.   24 January 2011: First off, its likely that there are just as many gay guys in your country (India if I'm correct by the flag) as anywhere else in the world, its just the closed, ignorant culture that keeps them down. In a country like yours, your best bet is to ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she's having an orgasm or just faking it?

Q.   I'm sure this question has been posted time and time again, but I want an answer for my particular case. I'm 17, and just starting having sex with a girlfriend of mine (also 17) a few months ago. I really care about her and want nothing more tha...

A.   24 January 2011: Note: I am 17. I said 22 when I registered because I was scared you had to be 18 to join. ... (read in full...)

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