What should I do if the baby isn't his?
Q. I am a mom of 3 little girls and yesterday I found out I am pregnant again. When I became pregnant with my oldest daughter my boyfriend was delighted. She was a ray of sunshine. 4 years on and I became pregnant again but my boyfriend wasnt the dad. ...
A. 8 March 2009: Your pregnancy....soon to be baby isn't the case here, it's your unfaithful ways, your sexual need.
If you tend to be sexually active with different men, take extra precautions. There are a lot of viruses and diseases out there. Take the prop... (read in full...)
Baby mama drama makes me doubt my boyfriend
Q. me an my bf have been together for 2 years. he has a son and has full custody of him--mother has visitation rights. i have a hard time dealing with the situation. he tells me there's nothing to worry about because he loves me and he's with me. but ...
A. 18 February 2009: Is that what you want to deal with for the rest of your life?
Your boyfriend is going to have a different kind of love for his kids mother, they have kids together.
You are too young to be going through issues like that.
You have some s... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants her space to think after I cheated on her.
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend we have been together for two about half years it was hard for me to tell her but I did she was so angry with me, I felt like the scum of the earth knowing what I had did to her it was so hard to hear her cry that much I ...
A. 16 February 2009: You didn't love her when you cheated on her? You wasn't thinking about your relationship. When you cheated on her? Of course, she needs the space to think things over. I will give you this though...you apologized to her family for hurting h... (read in full...)
Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.
Q. I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...
A. 16 February 2009: Your upbringing must have lacked tremedous amount of parental guidance with any positive influence. Your life will lead to a great amount of troubles and more. You will get what you deserve. I hope your sexual partners checked themselv... (read in full...)
Has anyone else experience this in a relationship?
Q. My wife had an affair and through intimate vetting it seems to have made us more open and intimate with one another. Has any one else experienced this?...
A. 13 February 2009: I've heard of situatuions like that.
Do you trust her, again? Does that question ever come across your mind if she cheating again?... (read in full...)
I was unfaithful but never had sex. My wife doesn't believe me, how can I get her back?
Q. Me and my Wife of 2 1/2 years just recently separated. I was unfaithful more than once and twice with the same female. No sex whatsoever was involved at anytime, but she doesn't believe me. I'm sure I wouldn't either if I were in her place. I also ...
A. 11 February 2009: I wouldn't trust you either. It seems like you wanna have your cake and eat it, too, along with some added sprinkles from time to time. Your actions makes it harder for those men who are wanting a good woman in their lives. You really n... (read in full...)
My wife wants to use money that we don't have to help her family, I'm sick of it, please help?
Q. I am 39 this year. Have 4 children and a caring and lovely wife whom I have been married to just on 10 years. She if Filipino and I am Australian chinese. I used to work 2 - 3 jobs just to pay bills. Now I work one job, but work all day and night. ...
A. 10 February 2009: I didn't have to read everything. Why? Because I know what you are going through. I am a woman of culture. Your wife is trying to show her family she have lots of money. She will spend the rent money for show and tell and say nothing about it. The ... (read in full...)
He says he got her pregnant before we got together! Should I believe him?
Q. My question is, you see I'm with this guy almost three months now, now he's going to come and tell me that another woman is pregnant for him, he said it happened before we got together, my question is should I stay with this guy or should I move on ...
A. 10 February 2009: The question is are you ready to deal with "baby mama drama"? You might never know, it'll probably not be drama. Whether if you like it or not, he have to deal with the other female prior to you. Are you ready for that? When the child is bor... (read in full...)
I said yes to my ex's request to meet!
Q. Hi, thanks in advance for reading and answering my ?. The details are I broke up with my ex 3 yrs ago in May. He contacted me online and asked me to meet him next week to catch up. This is the first time we have had contact since end of 2006. At ...
A. 4 February 2009: Totally agree with the old man. The ex factor seems to be an issue in most relationships and marriage. Don't be one of them. ... (read in full...)
How to get on with life after a break up?
Q. Six months ago, I went through a break-up with someone I am truly in love with. We went our seperate ways, but about two months ago, he stumbled back into my life (single again, of course.) I still felt the same way about him, and after a month, I ...
A. 2 February 2009: Are you still in high school? Or are you attending college? Keep yourself busy with what's most important in your life. If school is one of them, let that be. If you have kids, focus on them. Find a hobby. Go to the gym. You can't put all your egg... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age... how can I tell him the truth?
Q. I lied to my boyfriend about my age. When we first met I was 18 (and he was 27) but I told him that I was 19. It wasn't a huge deal because it was only 1 year but now I'm about to turn 20 and he thinks I'm going to be 21. Going out to bars and clubs ...
A. 1 February 2009: I totally agree with Aunty Ranch. You started off the relationship with a lie, what else have you lied about? When people tell a lie, 20 more must be told in order to cover up that one lie. Peoples lives get turned upside down because of so... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a bad attitude when you have been treated badly?
Q. i wish to be happier but I find it hard to trust people as I have had many friends and boyfriends bertay my trust. I still am a happy girl inside but recently I have become very negative because people treat me awfully sometimes (i am patient too) ....
A. 1 February 2009: It is a common reaction for negative attitude when betrayal is involved. I speak of experience. I did have the negative attitude, remain to still not trust people, stay away from relationships, dating...the whole works because of the betrayal of ... (read in full...)
I always end up giving my friend oral sex!
Q. I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...
A. 1 February 2009: I totally agree with Satindesire, plain and simple.
It doesn't take someone professional to figure that out.
... (read in full...)
We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation
Q. Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband a...
A. 25 January 2009: He can really get into trouble for spousal abuse in military and serve time in the Brigg (not sure what the Marines call it -- military prison). It is obvious he needs help. There are programs in the military to help him. Call the Fleet and Family ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex b/f
Q. Short version: We were together for a short time but he's made such an impact on me that I can't imagine my life without him. It was passionate, real, so much love. We talked about moving in together, marriage and kids. He is 36 and I'm 33. He b...
A. 25 January 2009: You can't just put all your eggs in one basket, honey. When people do so, that egg maybe a bad one.
Hang out with friends. Find a hobby that will keep you occupied without thinking about him. Try dating other men. Your world doesn't revolve ... (read in full...)
Can I be fined for my first offence?
Q. This has nothing to do with relationships or anything like that... I just had a serious question. I got a ticket today for the first time. This was my first offence. The officer who gave me the ticket didn't tell me it was a warning or anything. He ...
A. 23 January 2009: What did you get a ticket for?
If you believe the officer is in the wrong for giving you the ticket, go to traffic court to fight it.
Some officers give you warnings and some don't. They don't have to give you a warning.
As far as ge... (read in full...)
Married but pregnant with my exes child, what should I do now?
Q. I have been in this relationship with my husband since I was 17 years old. Last year we started having problems nothing too major, but big enough for me to reach out to an old friend. Long story short I broke up with my ex to be with my now husband ...
A. 22 January 2009: Do you realize you were wrong once you and your ex made contact on myspace?
You have a lot to think through, carefully cause there's a lot to lose.
Yes, vows were made however, you broke them. You gotta tell your husband so he can make his dec... (read in full...)
What's bad is good what's good is bad?
Q. Why is the world like that? I'm just wondering. Especially on the internet. They glorify teen pregnancy, drugs and underage sex and partying and drinking. while they make fun of or condemn the virgins, pure and moral people...people who are not ...
A. 22 January 2009: I totally understand where you're coming from unfortunately, that's what todays society is all about.
From witnessing, seeing, going through and knowing all that, that gives us ideas of what we don't want in our lives espcially for our kids. Ou... (read in full...)
Baby mama drama
Q. Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him ...
A. 21 January 2009: That is one of the reasons why some people don't date other with kids.
If he's getting mad at simple questions that you are asking, he's hiding something. Also, if they are talking about there child, honestly, it isn't your concern unless y... (read in full...)
Is this finally my chance with her?
Q. There is this woman who has been a friend of mine for 10 years. I'm not sure why she told me about a good sex dream she had with me a while back. Today she planted a very nice kiss on my lips. Todays kiss was way more than the usual quick hug and ...
A. 21 January 2009: Some women like to play hard to get. Some men ask women on dates, they turn them down. Ask again, turn them down again. The asking finally stops. Vice versa. Some women are wondering why have he stopped asking me on dates or he isn't paying ... (read in full...)
I've been crying myself to sleep at night overthis
Q. Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes ...
A. 21 January 2009: Honey, cheer up. Don't stay depress. He will realize later he should have been where he needed to be.
Find activities to keep you busy. Where you are at is unhealthy. You have a whole life ahead of you.
Hang in there.
... (read in full...)
Three girls love me! I want them all!
Q. I have three girls i have been talking to!! they all have told me they are in love with me!!! I wabt them all but dont want to break their hearts =[=[=[=[, how do i choose??...
A. 19 January 2009: Aren't you the casanova in high school? lol/jk.
Take sometime to think about which one you would rather be with. If you still can't decide, you are better off alone without causing havoc among the girls.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
In love but hugely sexually incompatable - what to do!?
Q. I am a 25 year old gay man in a very loving and committed relationship of four years. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I have the strongest of desires to have sex at least every day while my boyfriend would be happy with once a week...
A. 12 January 2009: I...Myself have a high sex drive. My ex gets so exhausted every night because I want it before we go to bed. Although he have to be at work by 0630.
Unfortunately, every night had to stop because we now have kids. That's besides the point. ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting?
Q. I have been very stress out with planning my wedding, my work and my family life. So sex have the last thing on my mind. My fiance and me haven`t had sex in 3 weeks because I haven`t really been up to it lately. One night my fiance and me were going ...
A. 12 January 2009: Yeah, I do think she's over reacting.
She didn't have to leave the house.
Don't call or text her. She will realize she over reacted.
You should have just gave her the goods!!! ... (read in full...)
A year on and he says he's still doesn't know me well???
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now and every time I ask him what's up with us he tells me he doesn't know, he always tells me that he doesn't know me well and he's still getting to know me. What do you think I should do?....
A. 11 January 2009: Can you honestly say you really know a person after a year?
If he doesn't know where the relationship is going, from his perspective, than you should think about what you're going to do with your life. Why should you put your life on hold for... (read in full...)
She might be pregnant but wants to wait 9 months!
Q. ok me and a freind got together one day in ended up messng around and she straddled me i never ejaculated in her but something aint feel right so next day i told her take a pregnancy test she said no n im not gonna she thinks im making up excuses n ...
A. 11 January 2009: She have to wait two weeks to take the pregnancy test unless she gets a blood test, which is more accurate. Either way it goes she have to wait.
If you strongly feel that way about an added addition to the family, you should have thought about it... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed and cannot accept his so-called honest confession that he has thoughts of reconciling with his ex!
Q. I am in a relationship with a divorced man with two kids. When we first got involved, we fell madly and deeply in love (or so I thought). Over time, the way the ex-wife manipulated my boyfriend (via the kids) became too much for me, and it always ...
A. 11 January 2009: You can't always look at the ex wife. Some of the issues rely between the two of them. You have no clue what he's telling her, vice versa. He can tell you one thing while he's telling his ex wife another.
Maybe it's better for you just to ... (read in full...)
How can I shake off the thought of him?
Q. I'm feeling very sad today, I don't know why, the thought of my ex keeping coming to my head, I can't seem to shake it off. It has been 3 months since he broke up with me. I've tried almost everything to block the thought of him, I went out ...
A. 11 January 2009: Let me just say, I know how you feel. Yes, it is going to be hard not to contact him but be strong. Did you dial the number and then hang up the phone before the phone rings on his side? When you get to that point, call a family member, a close ... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this situation when I have extremely limited resources?
Q. I seriously feel stuck in a rut right now. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship and he's already going on dates with other girls, while I'm barely hanging out with even my friends! The reason we broke up is because he ...
A. 11 January 2009: I know you're down and out with the break up but honey, you can't stay in that rut. Don't let him see you break down, that's giving him power knowing it's really getting to you. Try dating yourself. Just because you don't have transportation ... (read in full...)
To be his friend or so much more?
Q. Thanks to those who answer this. But anyways, I used to be best friends with this one dude and I liked him too. But we fell apart over the years because of some disagreements. Its been a year now and I haven't spoken to him we say Hi and Bye but ...
A. 11 January 2009: Maybe you should invite him to have lunch with you so you both can catch up on what's been going on in your lives.
It wouldn't hurt to try.
You won't be able to know the answers to your questions unless you ask the right person....him. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!
Q. well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but ...
A. 10 January 2009: Can you say 15 to life?
You are going to keep hearing it...your parents should report him to the authorities. You are 14? He's 18? He is considered an adult so he preys on young girls. Classified Pedofile.
If your parents really care, the... (read in full...)
Stepfather exposed himself to me!
Q. I know this is Long, but I need some advice.. I've been knowing my stepfather since I was 11. He was always the "cool" parent. We developed a close relationship, talking about all facts of life. He was the first one to know when I loss my virginit...
A. 10 January 2009: First and foremost, I am truly sorry for what you are going thru.
Your feelings are legit. You have every right to feel the way you feel. No one can tell you different.
I agree with Angelic. Your situation is like "bitter sweet".
Good luck w... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed and cannot accept his so-called honest confession that he has thoughts of reconciling with his ex!
Q. I am in a relationship with a divorced man with two kids. When we first got involved, we fell madly and deeply in love (or so I thought). Over time, the way the ex-wife manipulated my boyfriend (via the kids) became too much for me, and it always ...
A. 9 January 2009: There's three sides to a story...his, hers and the truth.
Of course, you're going to believe what he's saying to you but what is he telling his ex wife? How many kids does he have?
This situations sounds so similar however, the reconciliati... (read in full...)
I need to get my ex out of my system.
Q. I need to get my ex out of my system. He still knows he has a hold over me and no matter which one he is seeing he still greases it up to me. It pathetic, we finished ages ago, but as we were together for year and years I find it hard to detach ...
A. 8 January 2009: You have no choice but to move on. Don't let him see you down.
Find activities to keep you busy. Of course, you'll be thinking about him but you gotta do what makes you happy.
Don't let him stop you from your happiness. ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband get so angry when I ask him a question?
Q. I don't understand when my husband gets mad sometimes when I ask him a question. We are both very busy and its like he takes offense for example if I ask him who the lady on the answering machine is or who the lady is that he made flight ...
A. 8 January 2009: I always answer questions honestly so here it goes.
From past experience, to me, this indicates infedility.
Sometimes, when men or women get upset because their spouse ask a simple question, it is a possibility he or she may be having re... (read in full...)
Would you send him a birthday card?
Q. Should i send him a happy birthday card? My ex is a complete asshole. I don't like him as a person anymore at all but for some reason i care what impression i leave him with of me. i want him to think of me as a sweet caring nice person not a cold, ...
A. 7 January 2009: So he's an "a" hole but not sure to send him a birthday card? Hmmm...?!
Send him a Happy Birthday email and call it a day. At least you don't have to physically see him if your feelings of him being an "a" hole is still there. ... (read in full...)
Was this mean or well deserved?
Q. In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now ...
A. 7 January 2009: Right on with losing weight. Congrats!!!
Some situation can be handled better however, I think it was all of a sudden for you. It just happened. Karmas a beotch, isn't it?!
I'm pretty sure you thought of a better way to handled it after... (read in full...)
We broke up, but will we still be good friends?
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 4 months and she broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. The reason we broke up is because she wanted to be single, she said I didn't do anything wrong and that she still cares for me and loves ...
A. 7 January 2009: I believe both of you should have dated before calling it a relationship. People feelings get hurt for the obvious reasons, in your case.
Maybe it is better for you to separate yourself before you get in to deep and she hurts your feelings... (read in full...)
Turning 30 soon and dreading it...
Q. I'm turning 30 and feeling old. I have nothing to look forward to. I am scared of turning 30. I really feel so old, unmarried and still living at home....
A. 7 January 2009: You are not the only person feeling like that. Some are turning 40, 50, 60...and feel the way you feel. I am getting ready to turn 30 with my second child due on Valentines Day. I am also unmarried because I left the relationship because he ... (read in full...)
Just want too much sex
Q. This is tad embarassing but anyway... I had probably an average sex drive and was in typical health but over the past two years have improved my diet and lifestyle and now have a VERY high sex drive. I want it at least every single day and my...
A. 7 January 2009: And why do you think that's a problem? LOL
There's nothing wrong with having too much sex. People actually lose weight doing that. Right on!!!
Just be sure you're using protection to avoid consequences.
I hope you're not having sex wi... (read in full...)
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