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anonymous
writes:I need to get my ex out of my system. He still knows he has a hold over me and no matter which one he is seeing he still greases it up to me. It pathetic, we finished ages ago, but as we were together for year and years I find it hard to detach myself. He has started seeing someone else now and I know her, she is a friend of mine on the website facebook - I dont want to delete her and look petty but I cant help feeling bot down about it. I just want to meet someone and be happy, not to just show him what he's missing - I just want to be happy in love again!
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reader, huneygyrl  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 You have no choice but to move on. Don't let him see you down.
Find activities to keep you busy. Of course, you'll be thinking about him but you gotta do what makes you happy.
Don't let him stop you from your happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): do whatever it takes to be happy,forget what others think its you who is suffering and he knows this,you can escape unlike myself i have 2 children to mine
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Let me ask you something....
What is better for you, to have a temporary feeling of pettiness, or to get this person out of your system?
It happened to me before and I'll tell you the only thing you can do at this point is cut the abcess.
Social Networking Sites are harbingers of ill will. Just last week I finally joined Myspace and I am not shitting you, within 1 hour after joining my ex was up my ass so far my teeth were floating. Apparently she decided that it was too much for her that I innocently joined the site. I had no idea she was even there, but she found me quickly.
About 3 hours later, I recieved threatening IM's from her about what a piece of crap I was and how could I ever think of being in the same place. She said she had "Dibs" because she was there first, and I better just leave.
It got so bad over the course of the evening I had to block her from viewing my page and had to report her. Not only to Myspace, but she kept trying to jump onto other sites (18+) I actually own on other platforms. She was sucessfull long enough to find me on a music site I was a member of and post on my page that I did nothing but have sex with strippers and whores before she was unceremoniously ejected from the site.
Just do yourself a favor and block her. Meet some new friends and try to put it all behind you. And if you get a hankering to look up your ex over there...DONT!
Its not worth the hassle, I assure you.
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