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Really bad crush! please advise.
Q. okay so i've loved this guy for 3 years now and i don't think he knows and he won't care either. What am i supposed to do? i look at his picture and cry all day long.. i can't take it anymore.. its like suicide.. i love him.. what am i supposed to ...
A. 5 June 2008: TELL HIM AND GO AROUND WITH HIM and then you would know what actually suicide means?lol... (read in full...)
What does this dream mean?
Q. I had a dream about my wife having sex with a friend i have not talked to or even thought about in a long time. What does this mean....
A. 4 June 2008: It means that you should make your dream come true.
lol!!common.that was just a dream and yes,sometimes a dream is only a dream.... (read in full...)
Help me out of this circle
Q. i really luv him lyk anything...but thatz not all...he is being 11 yrs elder to me..and am now 18.We met through net..chatted..been friends for long.... shared our pics and slowly got intimate...and fell for each other..We even decided to marry each ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi!
i read it all,but before reading my answer cool down and relax.be patient and composed when you are reading it.
You are 18 so are you in college??your studies and career??are you doing something in that area??
am very sure that your mind h... (read in full...)
I know it's not just lust, but he is going out with another girl.
Q. I am in love with a guy a year older than me. Before anyone says am not in love its "lust" I am. I know I am. I never stopped thinking about him and he just makes me so happy and want to smile all the time any other time I am depressed and not happy ...
A. 3 June 2008: At present he is going aroung with other gal and sending you flirty texts too then before moving any further,just know what's there in his mind?if you got the hints from someone that he liked you then gather some courage and speak out.
if he want... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my fiancee, please help!
Q. ok i've been engaged to this guy for a year and a half and we have been living together for 4 months and he hangs out way more with his friends then with me...do i have a right to be upset?...
A. 3 June 2008: ofcourse,you do.... (read in full...)
Do you think she may like me? I like her and thats why I held her hand.
Q. I was at a party last week and i saw a girl that i see maybe every month and a half or more than that, i have known her for a year and a half. Every time i see her we always talk and really get on well. I was sat next to her later on in the night ...
A. 2 June 2008: hmmmmmmmm
first know her and what she's looking forward to?... (read in full...)
Does he like me or was that a one day thing?
Q. it was 2 days before the last day of school.we were in 4th period about to take our exams.everybody was out in the hall.he came over near me and smiled.i didn't know what was going on so i turned around.i dropped my paper by accident and leaned o...
A. 31 May 2008: That was cheap!... (read in full...)
I can't forget my ex. Help me.
Q. hey... i am with this great guy... so happy ... but i can't forget my ex...i don't love my ex but i can't get him out of my mind...verywhere i look... everything i do.... what should i do????? can anyone help me????...
A. 31 May 2008: Its cos you bumped into this new guy just to get over your ex.
I believe its a recent break-up and to make it worse you opted to go around with other guy.
you don't love him but you are used to him,to his way of loving you etc and you expect t... (read in full...)
She was drawn to me because of my guitar playing. Should I send her song lyrics, nothing too sappy, just light and funny! I don't want to push her away!
Q. Hi, I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a litt...
A. 30 May 2008: I would suggest that you should look for some place where she won't mind coming and you two can sit and talk.
when she comes make sure that whatever feelings you are showing here in your question,she too can get a feel of that from your face and ... (read in full...)
I want closure on this! He's making me out to be the bad guy to mutual friends. Help!
Q. Hi everyone. I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue that has been hanging over me for a while. Sorry it's so longwinded but I feel I have to tell the whole story, and if someone would take the time to read the whole story and help, I ...
A. 30 May 2008: "All I want is some closure from him and it would help me to move on but he won't give it to me."
This is just an excuse you are giving to yourself for still hanging with him.if YOU want to end all this,then you don't need him anywhere for anyt... (read in full...)
How do you get over an ex?
Q. I was with my ex for over 2 years and fell deeply in love with him it was fantastic! I lost my virginity to him and doted on him. We split up last september due to their being an age difference and i was really depressed for 4 months. In April I met ...
A. 30 May 2008: Is there anyway you two can get back??
if yes,when?
and if no,then you know
there is no use of feeling that heat with him.
I agree its reallly hard to do this but life is all about timing.There are times when one has to be practical and ... (read in full...)
How can you tell when a boy likes you?
Q. Hello. How can you tell when a boy likes you ? hurtagenn x...
A. 26 May 2008: How can i tell when a boy likes me????ask him.... (read in full...)
My wife has always had someone else on her mind. Is our marriage worth saving?
Q. Hi All, I have been married for last Two and a Half years. We have known each other for about eight months before marriage. In those eight months we talked on phone and dated. Since the time we got married, my wife kept nagging about small thin...
A. 25 May 2008: I know indians think 1000's of time before seeking a divorce but then you must have already done that,i think you have no other opiton left.she has ruined your life but you still have time to fix it by throwing her out of it.
what else can i sa... (read in full...)
I've never had sex. Now we will. Advice, please.
Q. I am 25 years old but have never fucked before! I have now gf and we have planned to do sex just after one month. But I am afraid that I might get satisfied before she does. What do you advise me?...
A. 25 May 2008: You are a virgin.rite??
And you know yourself so well.lol!!i mean,what makes you think that you will get satisfied before your gf?
You have never done this before,so how can you judge your perfoemance?common,you can't learn swimming without jump... (read in full...)
What can I do? I know the boy I like only wants to use me!
Q. There is a boy I really really like and I have done for a while. He says he likes me too and I really want to believe that he does but I KNOW he is just trying to use me. He is only after 1 thing and he doesn't care which girl he gets it from. I ...
A. 25 May 2008:
I KNOW he is just trying to use me. He is only after 1 thing and he doesn't care which girl he gets it from.My mates have told me he's just gonna hurt me too.
so??
what new can we tell you??
you know it,you know the solution and you ju... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess it up for my Ex and his new girl....
Q. Hey all, il try to make this quick. I used to date this guy around 3 years ago and since we split for the reason i cant remember, i havnt spoken to him since. Anyway around a month ago i was out drinking with my cousin and we ended up bumping into ...
A. 25 May 2008: I guess you are just having fun.neither he nor you want anything more than this.
If you have no issues then whats a big deal.
He inspite of having a gf doesn't feel guilty about that and you knowing the fact ,still slept with him and is consider... (read in full...)
I have been tolerant and swallowed my pride too many times with my ex, how do I move on as I am scared of being on my own again??
Q. Hi guys my gf broke up with me several times before and I've always managed to get her back but this time she broke up with me again for no reason but only this time I don't want her back I want to get on with my life as soon as possible but I cant ...
A. 24 May 2008: You really made a right decision.now just have to stick to it,the way a fat person follows his diet plan.its not easy for him to leave those chips,coke,burgers etc but his dietician brings negatives of junk food in light and it helps him to cut on ... (read in full...)
I am fourteen and haven't had a boyfriend yet
Q. i am ashamed even though i dont have any need to be. but i am fourteen and havnt had a boyfriend yet. I just wanted to know how would you begin the relationship without going too slow or too fast or messin it all up. Adivce needed!...
A. 24 May 2008: oh!!
14?
and no boyfriend??
what a shame?lol!!
common,you aren't that old and lemme tell you if you are unaware of, that you are among few lucky teenagers who are actually giving time to these stuffs and there is no specific way to trap... (read in full...)
He got a new girlfriend but still told me that we could maybe go back out again?
Q. me and my ex boyfriend broke up because i was gonna do home schooling but tells me when i go back to my regular school where he is now he said we maybe have a chance of getting back together...after we broke up i had alot of his stuff he had given ...
A. 23 May 2008: He likes you but is not serious about you,he wants you if you join regular school that means if he can see you regularly.this is what i can make out with his condition for being with you.
so if you are not there then he needs someone else.sim... (read in full...)
How do I get my lost love back?
Q. i am a 16 year old girl ...i don't wanna lose my love...it seems like I'm losing everything... I have a very touching love story so anyone please help me... I'll be broken without him...from 2 years i loved this guy...he had someone before but that ...
A. 23 May 2008: This question has been posted earlier!!
There are 3 things bothering you.
1)loosing your boyfriend.
2)you kissed,hugged etc,that somehow compels you to be with him(typical thinking of majority of young indian girls).
3) he getting back to ... (read in full...)
Can't get my Ex out of my head...
Q. I thought i was over her. My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago now (dated almost 3 yrs). At first all i could think was getting her back but i knew i had to give it time Get my life in order and give each other some space. WE never ended ...
A. 21 May 2008: You want her back and deep down you still have feelings for her but if she is dating someone then are you planning to wait for her next break up?
she has moved on in her life and its better for you to do the same.
You come across as a sens... (read in full...)
I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!
Q. I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy. Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy wh...
A. 21 May 2008: Break up is not hard for you.its just that you are not sure if this other guy would be interested in you and you don't want to be left out alone later.So your mind is not conditioned for break up yet but once you know that this second guy is also ... (read in full...)
Should I pretend our kiss never happened?
Q. A couple of weeks ago, i was catching up with my ex girlfriend sally about her life. Apparently she needed me as a friend so i gave her a hug...just to comfort her. She began telling me "you shouldn't bother with me, i'm not worth it, look y...
A. 21 May 2008: Scene is very well explained here.lol!!
Do you still love her???
??
??
yes??
no??
but the way you described your hugging ang kissing,it seems you do.
If you love her and even she needs you then what better you can do with any other gir... (read in full...)
Should I continue to call her or just wait? Is there a chance that feelings will come back?
Q. hello, my g/f from 6 mos. broke up wit me last week bc she said she wasnt happy n the relationship anymore bc she just likes her freedom and wants to be single rite now. she said i am the only one she would want to be wit if she would want a ...
A. 21 May 2008: She says that it would be you if relationship is on cards but am pretty sure that she is not sure and just being a smart ass.
She doesn't want any fuss or guilt if she falls for other guy thus she called off the relationship but she is single a... (read in full...)
I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful
Q. How can I hate someone who clearly doesn't love me anymore? I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful, often disregarding my hurt when he says ulgy things or calls me names. It all was beca...
A. 21 May 2008: Even i have gone through all this sometime back,so i can understand what exactly you are feeling..though in my case ,past was not the issue otherwise everything was same.
It hurts when someone so special abuses you and makes you cry and it gets ... (read in full...)
7 months after the break-up I still want him back!
Q. I was in a 5 month relationship last year which was going really well. We talked loads about our future together. My boyfriend looked at possible building sites to build a house for us in the future! But then he changed jobs and went back to ...
A. 17 May 2008: Its his last year and apparently would be quite busy.You said that you were together for 5 months and used to discuss future but then he got busy with his work and broke up with you,he recently came in contact but he sees you as a frd.
first... (read in full...)
Tell him I like him or keep it at smiles?
Q. I really like this guy but i'm really spotty and struggle to get guys. This guy is unpopular too and smiles at me when I say hi. Should I tell him or should I just keep it at smiles? I really like him, really really really like him....
A. 16 May 2008: Why don't you just wait for few days?enjoy this time when two just smile at each other and then certainly you need to tell him about your feelings.
best of luck... (read in full...)
Please don't tell me to stop caring, because I need answers for closure so I can move on
Q. This is driving me crazy! My bf broke up with ME about 1 month ago. One of his mates has made this break up like hell for me... The friend has been constantly messaging me and passing along things that my ex supposedly says. And he tells my ex anyth...
A. 13 May 2008: when his frd again pass on the information then tell him that you are just not interested.let him know that you don't want to hear about your ex so he should keep this thing in mind while having conversation.
It won't do any harm and then you can ... (read in full...)
I'm a tired, sad mess
Q. This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...
A. 13 May 2008: Look,you are in a long relationship,its not that you just started dating so things definitly won't be same,way they used to be.you are lucky that you know he still loves you and you too.
One can't get happiness everytime and it makes sense,ho... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...
Q. Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...
A. 13 May 2008: SHE IS JUST USING YOU
I don't know what other has to say but after reading all,i am 95%sure about whatever i am typing.
When she was with you,she realised that you are not the one that she was looking for ,but yes you were together for a year a... (read in full...)
If he does these things does it mean he likes you?
Q. -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes whe...
A. 13 May 2008: Not sure about him but you are very much into him as you keep minutiae of details of his behaviour.
lol!!... (read in full...)
When a girl says she's falling for you, does she mean 'falling in love'?
Q. Hey everybody. I don't really know how to interpret this, but what exactly does a girl mean when she says she's falling for you? Does it mean falling in love or basically crushing? I would think it means falling in love am i right?...
A. 13 May 2008: She is falling for you means she is feeling for you and that implies love is in the air.... (read in full...)
My crush took my number, now what do I do??
Q. My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???...
A. 12 May 2008: Just be yourself and real.
don't fake anythng except of sweet voice.... (read in full...)
I insulted my crush, how can I make things better?
Q. I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. ...
A. 12 May 2008: If your exams are not lined up and you have plenty of time to be at your romantic best then you can do a lot of stuff to make things better but you should ensure that he is single so that you don't end up making things even worse.
1)just behave t... (read in full...)
I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.
Q. I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...
A. 12 May 2008: Make sure that you are not getting married in near future.
You still need time to know him more.you are with him now more than a year,so is this incident first of its kind?has he cheated you in past?
You need to be aware.see through things befor... (read in full...)
He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I ...
A. 12 May 2008: What's this mess?
He is seeing sum1 else,you are well aware then what you are waiting for??
for thresome???
He is just having a good time with you and her and only he knows with how many others.
Remember, if you break up with someone or som... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: Has she done something wrong??
That you don't love her the way you used to. Think about her feelings too.if she too is so casual towards this relationship then what are you still thinking??
break up with her.
But if she loves you and was alwa... (read in full...)
Why have I still not got a boyfriend?
Q. hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...
A. 12 May 2008: Something is surely wrong with you.
Till the time ,you won't show your feelings,how can you expect to get a bf?And if somehow ,a guy asks you out and you still prevail this shy attitude then even he will withdraw himself.
So now you know whe... (read in full...)
I'm shy about my underarm hair!
Q. hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...
A. 12 May 2008: Don't worry,even they'll become abnormal in coming days.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: What you expect form us??
What want from us??
You know it very clearly that he is not the one as you gave 20 reaosns not be with him but you still love him!!
PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
Why don't you opt for good things in y... (read in full...)
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