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writes:I am 25 years old but have never fucked before! I have now gf and we have planned to do sex just after one month. But I am afraid that I might get satisfied before she does. What do you advise me? Reply to this Question
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reader, growing +, writes (25 May 2008):
 You are a virgin.rite??
And you know yourself so well.lol!!i mean,what makes you think that you will get satisfied before your gf?
You have never done this before,so how can you judge your perfoemance?common,you can't learn swimming without jumping into a pool.so just have fun without any fear.
"I am 25 years old but have never fucked before!have planned to do sex JUST AFTER 1 MONTH!!!!"
just???
insane!
goin to wait for 1 month??
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reader, Dawntreader  +, writes (25 May 2008):
Buy your "The Joy of Sex" it gives good advice on techniques..
Remember one thing ....the first time is always awkward, even with a new partner, you need to get to know each others responses, that only comes with experience.
Try not to get too hung up on getting it right first time, no-one does!
The important thing is your considerate to each other, and learn each others likes and dislikes.
You may climax before her first time, or like me, I was so stressed about doing it right, I didn't ejaculate at all
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reader, lady luffaduck +, writes (25 May 2008):
Tell her that you are a virgin if you have not already, she will understand and help you through it. You could do plently of masterbation and foreplay to try to last longer and to satisfy your girl friend
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reader, Dawntreader +, writes (25 May 2008):
Buy your "The Joy of Sex" it gives good advice on techniques..Remember one thing ....the first time is always awkward, even with a new partner, you need to get to know each others responses, that only comes with experience. Try not to get too hung up on getting it right first time, no-one does!The important thing is your considerate to each other, and learn each others likes and dislikes.You may climax before her first time, or like me, I was so stressed about doing it right, I didn't ejaculate at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Alrighty.Well you should know that for a lot of women it takes longer to climax then it does for men.If it is her first time aswel then she may not be able to orgasim during penetration until you have done it a few times. Start with lots of foreplay. Finger her until she is almost climaxing and then begin to have sex. This way her body will be ready to recieve you and if you don't last long then she will still have felt pleasure. It is natural for a man to come quickly during his first time, but if you wear an extra-safe condom then this should help you last a little longer.You could also masterbate about four hours before you have sex. This will help you last longer also.If during sex you feel as though you are about to come and you don't think she is satisfied yet then ask her if she would like you to finger her more.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Fire off some knuckle children beforehand... this way you will last much longer.Do plenty of foreplay and treat her needs before your own at first and bring HER to the brink of insanity before allowing her to orgasm... once this happens it won't matter how quyick it takes you... she won't really be in any fit state to give a shit.Flynn 24
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