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Really bad crush! please advise.

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Question - (5 June 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *roken_Love writes:

okay so i've loved this guy for 3 years now and i don't think he knows and he won't care either. What am i supposed to do? i look at his picture and cry all day long.. i can't take it anymore.. its like suicide.. i love him.. what am i supposed to do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008):

Put his picture on the fire while imagining your love for him burning and then put the ashes in a bottle and bring them to the lack imagining burrying your love for him after that celebrate that it is over.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

Oh, I know how you feel and its hard when you are shy. I have a crush on this guy and I love him to death but he is a pain sometimes. We both know I like him but he's Ignorant. So Don't worry and everything will work out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

Well, I'm sorta in the same situation. I like him so much, it feels like I'm gonna suffocate.

It's hard when you are shy too. You just don't have the guts to talk to him.

However, if you want to be free from him, and take away that intense feeling, maybe rejection is the best thing. It will help you move on, even if it is a bitter sweet feeling. Yet, there is also the other possibility. He might like you.

Be the stronger one of us. Try to talk to him first, get to know him, be friends and try to get what you want. Find it somewhere, it time.

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A male reader, papajoey United States +, writes (6 June 2008):

Hey, Ive been in love with this girl for almost 2 years and feel exactly the same as you. Well I told her everything last night and she pretty much rejected me, but the letter I wrote was pretty much amazing. What I mean is you need to tell him. You have to or he'll never know, you time is running out.

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A female reader, growing India +, writes (5 June 2008):

growing agony auntTELL HIM AND GO AROUND WITH HIM and then you would know what actually suicide means?lol

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (5 June 2008):

cute angel agony auntwell hun i think u have waited long enough!!!u have to confront him no matter what he says!!!if u cant do it then probably your friends could find out for u and then u could go ahead with the whole thing..is he single??if no then i guess u should move on and if yes then there is always a chance!!!u would never know sometimes a guy who you crush on may also have a crush on u!!!only time can tell!!

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A female reader, ServiceWithASmile United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

well thank you for writing in..

i had the exact same thing.

just tell him because at the end of the day, what is the worst that can happen. he may reject you, if so. move on and learn from your mistakes. thats all really

put yourself out there and grab his attention

good luck

:)

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