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writes:i am a 16 year old girl ...i don't wanna lose my love...it seems like I'm losing everything... I have a very touching love story so anyone please help me... I'll be broken without him...from 2 years i loved this guy...he had someone before but that girl didn't love him..he told me he loves me and we were in love for the past 6 months but after his results were out the problem started..{his results were below his expectations}he told me that he doesn't deserve me and he was very upset and there are many things that happened between us {like caressing , kiss etc..}and now he told me that he doesn't love me and he wants me to move in life but i can't i love him a lot and don't wanna lose him..he's not talking to me from the past 2 weeks....and i always keep worrying about the fact that what if he's back with his first one ?she'll feel proud and i'v to bow my head....I'm scared bout this fact...people plz tell me anything through which i can get my lost love back...plz do help i can't live without him.....plz help me..!
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (23 May 2008):
 A girl from India... !! I'd understand you as well as anyone.. !!
I know how people talk about Girlz going around with guys and thn Breaking up...!! I know there would be a LOT OF TALK if he does go back to his EX..
Look, I think what bothers you the most is that it would all "SPOIL YOUR IMAGE" .. If that's it then you need not worry.. !! People forget... For example, how seriously would you take if ur Class mate goes through a break up..? A few hours of gossip and then you move ahead.. !!
YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO BOW IN FRONT OF ANYONE... You just have to keep your attitude.. When someone asks you about him, just say, "Oh yeah, we're done.. Im looking for a better deal" .. LOL ... Just laugh it out..
The more seriously you take it, the more Painful it would seem.. Trust me, WE ALL FACE IT IN HIGH SCHOOL.. You laugh about it when you reach my age.. ;)
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reader, growing +, writes (23 May 2008):
 This question has been posted earlier!!
There are 3 things bothering you.
1)loosing your boyfriend.
2)you kissed,hugged etc,that somehow compels you to be with him(typical thinking of majority of young indian girls).
3) he getting back to his ex.
Now decide,whats worrying you more among these 3?
lets see from the 3rd one,if he longs for his ex,then what can you do? believe me nothing and if at all can, then also it won't bring any good.somehow you can keep him with you for few more months but if he is not into you then he will dump you sooner or later and you will suffer much more then.PAIN IS INEVITABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL.
If he is going to his ex then its not that you are any less than her but its just that you two didn't tune well.
let him go and put this in your mind that he is those kindaa who keep looking for new one.
Now the second,your physical proximity.rite??you are just 16 and you still have a larger part of life to know.trust me,kisisng and holding hands or may be something more than that should not be the reason to be with someone.i know it makes you feel guilty on thinking that how would you share same closeness to someother guy after him??You havn't done anything that should be looked down upon,its all normal and acceptable in relationships.
Its not that love happens once in lifetime,that's all crap.love can happen any number of times ,at any age and anywhere.all are not lucky enough to meet their real love in a first go,so just be happy that there is someone else who would shower all his love on you.
The first one,FEAR OF LOOSING HIM--if you really love this guy then its really hard to face those last moments of relationship going.you said that he's upset with his results then why not try giving him more care and love and show him how much you still trust in his abilites,this will boost his spirit.but all this,if you know that he loves you and in case you know that he doesn't then be firm and let him go.
i know if he doesn't love you then no matter how badly you cry ,it won't get him back.be strong and speak to him for the last time,so that nothing is left unsaid.
PYAR KO BANDHNE SE KUCH NHI HOGA,USE JAHAN JANA HAI,VO JAAYEGA.
be strong
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