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writes: i am ashamed even though i dont have any need to be. but i am fourteen and havnt had a boyfriend yet. I just wanted to know how would you begin the relationship without going too slow or too fast or messin it all up. Adivce needed! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): There's nothing to be ashamed about. I just turned 17 in May and I've never had a boyfriend, I've never even kissed a boy and I couldn't be happier with my-self right now. I know that God has a plan for everybody and he'll send the right person along when the time is right and until then I'm not rushing into anything. I did like a boy when I was in primary school but my feeling quickly changed when I saw him for the person that he really was. In my opinion the best way to have a relationship with someone is to be friends with them first, because that is how you'll get to know them and see the personality that they have.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 quit your bitching i'm 26 and still haven't found anyone even remotely worthy of me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was almost 16. It was a really bad relationship, and I just wish I would have waited a little longer. If you want to start a relationship, get out and flirt. Just be careful, and don't settle for the first guy you see, and don't be treat like, or put up with any crap! Enjoy being young x
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (24 May 2008):
 You shouldn't be ashamed about not having a boyfriend. I know people who didn't get their first boyfriends until they were 16/17.
Your still young so enjoy being single and those wild times with your friends.
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reader, growing  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 oh!!
14?
and no boyfriend??
what a shame?lol!!
common,you aren't that old and lemme tell you if you are unaware of, that you are among few lucky teenagers who are actually giving time to these stuffs and there is no specific way to trap a boy.
so just have good time and you won't even know when you are around him and in a relationship .
but for now just enjoy being single and wear a tag saying"ready to mingle"
lol!!it may work.
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 May 2008):
 I know you are going to hear this alot but you are still so young, and you really have got all the time in the world to meet boys and get a boyfriend. The worst thing you can do is be in a rush to meet someone, take things nice and slow, have fun with your pals, enjoy the joy's that being 14 brings because it won't last forever. The likellhood is that you will meet your perfect guy when you very least expect it, it invariably happens this way.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): hey... there is no reason to be ashamed of not having a boyfriend. the best way to start a relationship that does not go to fast or to slow is to find a guy that respects u... u dont want to end up with a guy that pressures u until he gets what he wants... U will know it when u find it and just dont be afraid to go through with it.................................... well i hope this helps... "it really worked with me and my boyfriend" well good luck
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