Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!
Q. I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a ...
A. 1 May 2010: HHmmm, maybe you want to be with someone who is mature and not still learning how to behave, or established and can be a good provider. It isn't a bad attraction, what do you think about it that makes you think to look for info. Women over history ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any tips on how to get your boyfriend really horny?
Q. So, i'm a virgin and my boyfriends not. i know it's usually the other way around and all, but not in this situation. he's ate me out, fingered me, and we dryhump all the time. the thing is, i wanna make him really horny. what are some really good ...
A. 1 May 2010: Men like looking at your body so be comfortable, they like scents so perfume, they like nauty talk its hard to do but they like it ask him what he likes. They like girly attire because they are manly. They like confidence and self security, they ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think! Please help me out
Q. Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outsi...
A. 1 May 2010: I wouldn't even give him the honor of being called your boyfriend. Sounds imature and self centered, do not wait for him to break-up with you. You tell him he's not okay and you are bored with him. He sounds like a dump would do him good.... (read in full...)
I need help to bring feelings into the open with colleague please!!
Q. Mod note: OP's own title Please can you advise me on my problem. I have been very intensely attracted to someone I work with for months and need to sort it out so that I can move on or do something about it. The feeling between us is so inten...
A. 1 May 2010: It won't work out unless some one leaves the job. It will mess up someones life. Agree and acknowledge the attraction, decide the most appropriate plan and tell any other relations that may get affected and no cheating and then maybe one risky ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend to lay off?
Q. Heyy, I've gotta question regarding my one of my friends. Im at college and i've recently been considering leaving because of it, even though it sounds a bit stupid. I've known him for nearly two years, and since that time his just started to upset ...
A. 1 May 2010: Just say "that is not okay." or "Stop" or " I don't dig that". Don't change your life for people that have issues, he has just as many as you, we all have the same, help him to be better if possible, use this as practice for it again in the future, ... (read in full...)
Sensitive new age guy vs Cocky and Arrogant
Q. Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...
A. 1 May 2010: Strong and sensitive. Manley but in touch with your feminine side. A man not afraid to stand against the order of men and be uneffected, able to manage their anger, money and no issues drugs etc. Doesn't beat or dishonor women and can lead a woman ... (read in full...)
He's so great that I'm coming across as over-enthusiastic
Q. i was introduced to a this really nice guy who's a lot like me. he's like me as well in the way that he doesn't quite like overly peppy people or people who smile the whole time. unfortunately when we meet i can't help but smile because he seems far ...
A. 1 May 2010: Smiles are one of the few things that naturally stimulates endorphins and dopamine in our brains, this will make your life better. Hang around him more big smiles are very beautiful and it will make him feel good too. Don't be afraid to look like ... (read in full...)
Dreams of sex with my ex
Q. Ok so i keep dreaming about having sex with my ex. The dreams are always the same, we have sex, i freak out and tell him it means nothing and that it feels wrong. Then i go back to my current boyfriend make love to him and everything is right. ...
A. 1 May 2010: Its just a dream, look in one of those dream symbol books It could be about lack of closure or loss of something.... (read in full...)
Acai berry scam.. how to get out of it?! please help!
Q. hi! i am totally aware that this isnt a relationship question, but i didnt know who else to ask! i ordered the acai berry pills online for a free trial.. which ironically is actually legit, but the trick is that in the small print, it says that ...
A. 1 May 2010: Retrace the order phone number, use the address or phone on bottle, go to pharmacist. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give up if there is still a chance! Should I talk to her again?
Q. There's a girl in a few of my classes who I've liked for a few months now. We talk occasionally (class) and have had a couple good 30+ min one-on-one conversions (field trip/class) Also it may just be me but a few times we have met eyes and she ...
A. 1 May 2010: Never give up if there is a chance!! Go for it and have your rejection management plan solid. Awesome attitude.... (read in full...)
Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!
Q. I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a ...
A. 1 May 2010: I am not a psycologist but that sounds like classic father replacement issues. Look at your learning regarding fathers and men, your examples and what you feel you did'nt get and know yourself before you make choices, it looks like you are smart, ... (read in full...)
A 26-year old man is beginning to fall for me after his fight with an ex; how can I solve this?
Q. Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always ...
A. 1 May 2010: That is illegal and he should know better. But he is on the rebound and men aren't very skilled at dealing with emotions like girls are. Stay away from him, tell him you aren't able to help him and that you are not comfortable, let another person ... (read in full...)
I'm very upset that boyfriend spent money he didn't have to buy a gun!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 8 months just recently went on holiday with a little money he saved up. He wanted to do something nice for me and both of us don't have much money at the moment as we are unemployed, so I thought it was a kind gesture. Whil...
A. 1 May 2010: He had already spent his money on you right? It was his money to spend on a gun yes? It probably made him very happy, don't mess with his joy, you want him happy and he will let you spend regardless in the future without freaking too. Calmly ... (read in full...)
Big age difference--I'm afraid of being rejected so I don't show how I feel
Q. I have met somebody who I find completely lovely in every way. He is funny, really smart, he makes me smile all the time, and we share a lot of the same interests, I feel like we kind of have a connection but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...
A. 1 May 2010: Never stop yourself out of fear of rejection. Learn how to master that issue first, second he is more life ahead than you, make sure he sees you as equal and you can communicate over long period of time together, He may grow weary of the connect ... (read in full...)
I love him when he's out of my life, have no feelings when he is in my life..
Q. Why is it that I miss my ex sooo much that i keep on thinking about him but when he comes back I always realize that I don't like him anymore, i find him disgusting and that I don't care if he disappears forever? Do some people experience this?...
A. 1 May 2010: Why do you miss him so desperately, why do you get so disgusted when he's near. Look at the intensity of each feeling and moderate them, it might look different then. You have to manage your emotions, sounds like. They can't be what rules your life ... (read in full...)
I told her she'd have to wait 8 years for us to be together!
Q. I am a 18years old guy in a relationship with a girl of 21years for over a year now. I really do love her,and she does love me,not for my money[which i dont have] or anything. Her parents are in support but i dont know if we can be together in ...
A. 1 May 2010: wow, good choices and hard these days. She will wait if society doesn't manipulate her in her prioitys. Keep your values it will work out.... (read in full...)
I don't mind if my husband watches porn but he lies to me about it!
Q. i have a problem,i think.my husband loves porn and so do i but i dont tell him that.my problem is when he watches it he lies to me about it,and i have told him several times that i dont care just dont lie to me about it ya know.and another thing is ...
A. 1 May 2010: I went through that and I reversed it I got nude men magazines (hard to find), you think you are insecure well watch him!! ... (read in full...)
All he says is what he doesn't like.
Q. My lover only tells me what he doesn't like, not what he does like in our love life. What does that mean? ...
A. 30 April 2010: Is it that simple? I can do that.... (read in full...)
Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.
Q. I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my ...
A. 30 April 2010: Replace him. Go get a new boyfriend. Your lucky he's gone look how he respected friendship and boundaries, he didn't and he was cold and mean. Before you do any love moves you should think about why you want a guy like that you need to take better ... (read in full...)
I kissed a co-worked. Feeling guilty and don't know what to do.
Q. I am completly to blame for what I've done but I need advice. About 2 months ago a new guy started working in my office. We hit it off straightaway and flirted, it was harmless and I have a boyfriend and he has a girl friend. We we...
A. 30 April 2010: you need to pick one and let the other know, the co-worker is okay with deciet ? that says it could be done to you by him if you choose him. Tell your bf of the attraction, that is a rule if you respect him enough to protect himself or fight for ... (read in full...)
Why cant he just be happy with kissing me?
Q. I seem to have a bit of a problem with a guy, everytime we get together and kiss he always asks me to give him a blow job, the thing is we have just started kissing, it's really starting to annoy me because I like him a lot and I have said to him ...
A. 30 April 2010: hes a little greedy and good about being open about wants and needs. Give what you want to.... (read in full...)
Profile says looking for friendship. What does that mean?
Q. my girlfriend and i live apart but been together nearly 3 yrs she is on facebook and has commented on her profile she is looking for friendship what does she mean...
A. 30 April 2010: she means shes not looking for sex and if they do don't bother... (read in full...)
Videotapes of wife with ex....
Q. I found a video of my wife with an ex, she says she thought they had been erased. I knew they had sex and that my wife wasn't a virgin, so I am not so disappointed by that, but rather in the video he finished by giving her a facial. I always ...
A. 30 April 2010: Because she didn't know what the hell she was doing and respects her self more now learned from experience it wasn't so great for the girl. Spray your own face and see the perspective... (read in full...)
Clothes make the woman!
Q. Hey everyone, I heard this one guy say something when i was walking down the street. he said ¨clothes make the woman.¨ What does that term mean?...
A. 30 April 2010: Statistically men are more attracted to a woman whose fasion is whithin 5 years current. They love girly stuff major, because they aren't girly. Men are appearance attracted 1st so they determine the girl by what they see which is your clothes... (read in full...)
Help! My husband is a workaholic!
Q. Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...
A. 30 April 2010: Look up nagging, men hate it and we don't even know we are doing it we think we're helping. Get fun be easy to live with. Help him improve sex men are full about that learn, read books help him get joy, it comes back around.... (read in full...)
I just can't measure up to the vibrator.
Q. My MASSIVE problem, someone please....help me. Part 1 : In the beginning.... I have been with this woman for over a year and a half and during this time we have had sex many times. At first everything was great although I was never sure if I e...
A. 30 April 2010: There is a book that tells exactly how to do it called getting sex you want. You are not responsible for her orgasm, she may not know her own body I just learned. There is an ilaborate map. The vibrators run on exactly the right rpms for women, ... (read in full...)
I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about my wife having sex with other men
Q. When I was 15 and my wife Susan was 16, we were lovers and I was the first one to ever have sex with her. After a couple of years we drifted apart and later when I was 18 my room mate and Susan became friends and wanted to date, he asked my ...
A. 30 April 2010: Men statistically can only mentally deal with knowing about 5 or less of their womens relations it she had more so, just forget it she should not talk about it men can't cope. Maybe you are really looking for threesome fantasy, at any rate It ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a boyfriend in such a long time and feel really depressed about it!
Q. i know i am only young and i shouldnt really be thinking about realionships at this point in my life but i havent had a bf in such a long time i feel like im ugly, fat and just no gd to anyone i know thats stupid to think about myself but i really ...
A. 30 April 2010: First you have to get rid of that depression, its awful and not attractive. You are as pretty and hot as you think you are, the most chased women are the ones that convince men they are the it. Everyone is beautiful, and forget that are they good ... (read in full...)
If I have not had sex for a long time, will doing it again feel like the first time?
Q. I haven't had sex for a long time now.When I do it again,is it going to feel like the first time?...
A. 30 April 2010: Maybe, or it may be loose. The muscle gets tighter when used more so you would be like first time if done alot. Or if you do Keigle exercises. But you are young and it depends on your genetic muscle makeup. Just don't freak or let someone label ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 15 will the age difference be frowned upon?
Q. Just a quick simple question.. A couple of days ago, a girl i'm good friends with asked me out, we get on like house on fire and have all the same interests and stuff but her age is bothering me alittle bit.. Im 18 in a matter of weeks and she's ...
A. 30 April 2010: You are a good man. This kind of consideration is very honorable!!! Rare. I think it is illegal for you and could get you into trouble. Age wise its not yucky, but, socially appropriate, if you treat her with respect, which you already are. ... (read in full...)
Experiences with meeting people online
Q. Hi, what do people think about meeting people online!? Has anyone ever done it? What was it like?...
A. 30 April 2010: People can hide much it istn't really meeting people its meeting the person they want you to see. It's not natural and it is dicey.... (read in full...)
Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!
Q. Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want...
A. 30 April 2010: Why do you want to have sex? Get a book on womens privates, I am 40 and just learned that all of our sexual parts aren't even touched by the guys thing. They get all the pleasure, for females its manual and takes 20 min to get us started before we ... (read in full...)
Should I listen to what he has to say after he has cheated on me?
Q. Hi uncles and aunts! Wel, i'm just gona get on it. Yesterday my bf confessed to have been cheating on me... I'm so confused, angry and sad, i feel betrayed and lied to.. I don't knw what to do, i thought i needed to speak to someone. He confes...
A. 30 April 2010: This has happened to many people before you, go read about it why what when where etc. this is your time to learn how you deal with it for future and now. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend putting her above us and its bothering me!
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem right now with my boyfriend and any help would be appreciated. So we've been dating for almost 4 months and we live about 40 minutes away from each other. Now, we're not used to seeing each other every day but us...
A. 30 April 2010: Get strong be ready for any trauma, look up the signs of cheater, make your boundarys of what is okay with you and not known to him. Never chase a man they hate it or be needy. Go get yourself some facials or nails improve your life show him you ... (read in full...)
Just found out after 2 years of dating he's married and has 3 kids!
Q. Hi Ive been dating a guy for 2years and this morning I found out he was married with 3kids i am in total shock as i loved this guy i thought we had a future together its like the last 2years together have been a lie, I need help what do i do to mo...
A. 30 April 2010: What a dirtbag, take this as a wonderful lesson, and consider yourself lucky to be able to walk away. Learn how to screen better. ... (read in full...)
Fooling around and now worried about the consequences
Q. I was fooling around with a friend (unprotected) and first he said that he didn't cum, and when I was giving him head I definitely tasted something and I was wondering if it was precum. Now, as I was very very drunk, I only THINK that there was ...
A. 30 April 2010: Girl this is way too much action without information ahead of time, you don't drive a car just because you saw it done or heard of it or it would be fun. Okay here goes the info. 1) you can get pregnant (odds sound min, but your body is built ... (read in full...)
My ex's parents don't care..should I let them see their granddaughter?
Q. just wandering what peoples views are on my situation Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have broken up, we lived together and have a child.. His mother was the guarentor for our house, when we broke up she phoned the letting agent and withdrew h...
A. 30 April 2010: You are alone, that is fine. You can be secure without thier kindness or effected by thier abandon. They may choose ugly acts. Do not deny your daughter her rights to family, because you are hurt or dishonored. They can see her if you belive ... (read in full...)
Wife wanted voyeurism, ended up being a threesome...
Q. Ok, I let my wife open a can of worms and now I regret. My wife said she didn't want a threesome, BUT she was interested in a bit of voyeurism. She said she wanted to have sex with me in front of someone. I finally agreed, not too eager ab...
A. 30 April 2010: Wow, that's heavy. Start strengthing yourself and protecting your weak areas. Any threesome period is a mega to do and keep relation in tact. You were supposed to have made rule ahead of time. So now I would really find out about her lust, she ... (read in full...)
I'm desperate to get away from his family and the drama!
Q. So, I'm finally graduating college, I'm engaged to a wonderful guy, but his mother is causing major problems. He has been living back at home these last few months. When I visit my house and he stays with us, his mother goes nuts, screaming and ...
A. 30 April 2010: It will be up to your guy, he must always respect his mom it shows how he'll treat you. The mom needs to let him be an adult, she sounds like he fills some thing for her that isn't his place. He has to have "the talk" with her. Meaning he has to ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll cheat on my younger boyfriend and give my virginity to an older guy, what should I do?
Q. I know I'm very young, but please understand that these days everything varies from person to person, for example I know people barely a year older than me that have actually been together with someone for a few years, others that just sleep around ...
A. 30 April 2010: Men don't actually mature (be truly faithful) until about 30 years old so niether guy is mature. You are making some serios decisions for a 15 year old. The second guy is legally a criminal if you have sex with him. You make sure that you You should ... (read in full...)
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