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writes:ok me and my husband we been togeather since senior year in highschool and we are now 22 yrs old with 2 kids. i was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend we never dated anyone else and now i have thoughts of what it would be like with someone else just sexually dont get me wrong me and my husband sex life is great but i just sometimes think of other things like im curious. i love my husband with all my heart and i want to be with him as long as i can but its just that im very curious i would never cheat on him. i just need some advice about if this is normal or is there something that i can do to make it go away. any advice would help. oh yeah im pretty he thought of it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): It's pretty normal to be curious, especially since you did get married young. I just want to point out that there is no need to get "bogged down" in what modern society thinks.
So many people put emphasis on experimentation and dating around. There's nothing wrong with that - but there's also nothing wrong with settling down early when you're happy with that decision (as it seems like you are).
Curiosity is a natural part of life, including relationships & sexual behaviours. I just don't want you to get caught up in the whole feeling like you've missed out on something.
The fact of the matter is, you're not missing anything! You have a husband that you love & a sexual relationship that you're also happy with? The people you hear about having one night stands, worrying about unwanted pregnancy/STDs, dating around, etc often want exactly what you have!
The key is, that it's okay to wonder but to be happy with where you are.
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reader, doom  +, writes (17 November 2010):
 sur it's normal, at this age people try lot and lot of sexual partners, but as the last answer : i don't think you could cheat...it's just a curiosity, that is normal:) you know finding happynes could take a life time, people may have sex with lots and lots of women and never find their true half, but you hit the jackpot, and found it from first kiss:) so you're ucky, try reading posts of unpleasent love, and you'll see, that you have a great chance by beeing loved:)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Ok so you are 22 you are married and you have two children, wow you settled down pretty young didnt you? Ok well yeah this is pretty normal when people settle down young and have children and have only ever had one partner they will start find themselves thinking what it would be like to have sex with other men, it is normal you just need to balance it out between thinking about it and actually doing it.
I dont think there is any miracle cure here for it, and babe to be honest its pretty normal for you to be thinking these things but it sounds to me like your head is screwed on because am sure you wont cheat and you know that you have a healthy sex life and that is all that matters and should be enough. But dont feel guilty if you find your self day dreaming about another man, its the unknown part of it that makes it so attractive to you. All the best in the future.
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