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*rincecharming619
writes:Hello everyone sorry to be the umpteenth guy asking this question but how small is small when it comes to penis size? Im 23 and have had sex with over 20 girls but its always been in the back of my head that I'm unproprtional and small. My size is 5.75 inches and about 4.8 in girth and I am 5' 11" tall and weigh 195 pounds. In highschool I was rumored to be small and it still fucks with me. I would say I am a very attractive guy as girls look at me all the time but I avoid conversation because of my "small" penis. My question is should I go for less attractive women because I'm smaller or should I just say fuck it and go for the hotties anyway?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 February 2015):
 The penis is not meant to be "proportional" to the size of the man. The penis tends to be average, no matter the overall size of the man. This means a huge guy will have a penis that might look smaller, compared to a tiny guy with a penis the exact same size.
But sheezes, it's the woman who's gonna have this thing stuck up inside of her, so what does it matter how it LOOKS?!?! It's for internal use.... A big penis will NOT fit into a vagina, and I don't think there's any more to say about it.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (20 February 2015):
What's the size of your tongue? Your fingers?
Penis is to finish what you started with every other weapon in your arsenal. You have the biggest penis in the world and still can't please a woman.
Try rocking a woman's world without taking YOUR clothes off, then you will understand.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2015):
 My 5'6" 145 pound husband had a much larger penis than my 6'4" 300 pound husband. The size of the man has nothing to do with the size of his organ.
As for a small penis making you unworthy, the only thing making you unworthy is your own brain.
stop thinking with the wrong head.
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reader, dayvide  +, writes (20 February 2015):
 I don't think you should be worried about how small you are down there but how to improve your love making. Most women don't give a damn about how big you are but how well you use you member.. A guy can be 8 inches and still doesn't know what he's doing during sex while a 5 or 6 inches might be able to rock a woman to paradise.. I have had a lot of experience with women in this area and I know most just want a good lover not just how big.. Don't let your confidence become low because of your size you can actually do lots with your fingers, tongue and lips
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reader, CMMP +, writes (20 February 2015):
When you first start dating a girl you're big, but when she gets mad at you she'll tell people you're small.
You're normal.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 February 2015):
 You ask if you should go for "less attractive" or the "hotties"...
You should STOP thinking with your dick.
The size of your penis means squat to a woman who CARES about you, and IF you can USE what you got (not just your penis) but mouth, hands, fingers.... BE a good lover. Having a BIG penis doesn't equal good lover. And overall THAT is what women want.
Now if you JUST want sex? Go for whomever will sleep with you, I suppose. But you are not going to find yourself a keeper if you worry about your size that much.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (20 February 2015):
 My husband is exactly like that, everything you described except age. He's the hottest guy I've ever met. 15 years ago I met a man who's 6'3" and his penis was barely 4 inches. I still found him hot.
I've been told I am attractive many times. Maybe go for small girls and Asians? Also athletes are tighter too. I don't know if you are looking for relationships for just hookups. That would make a difference in how a girl talks to you. A girl who is serious about you would be turned off not by penis size but by the way you carry yourself. Because you get with women to boost your confidence, not to make them happy.
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reader, Midnight Shadow  +, writes (19 February 2015):
 You're being superficial - I hope you know that.
To you, having slept with over 20 girls and "going for fitties", is important - as though it makes up for your "small" penis. It doesn't; it makes you look (to me, anyway) superficial for no reason. You don't have a small penis and, honestly, your penis size is almost irrelevant to any girl you date because *her* pleasure will come from the G spot which is, I believe, about 2 - 3 inches in. Orally and manually will do more for most than your penis, but you don't seem to be aware or acknowledge that because your penis size bothers you.
Your penis isn't disproportionate and, even if it is, isn't a major issue for anyone but you. I hope you can feel better about your size because you're normal, rather than feeling unhappy with it and trying to make up for it with number of "fitties" you've had sex with. Anyone who gave you crap about it was wrong and isn't worth paying attention to.
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reader, pepper  +, writes (19 February 2015):
 Hi hunny
Trust me you have nothing to worry about, alot of men worry so much about this it's a constant humming as you said in the back of your head. you should go for girls you like, worrying about this will only ruin your enjoyment and finding a girlfriend, when you feel you are ready for a longer term relationship. If a girl likes you she will like you for who you are. And if she doesn't then she isn't worth your time. I'll try to find a link to help your self esteem..once that is boosted you will feel much better about yourself.
Hope this helps, Take care Peps :)
http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=240&np=298&id=2111 here is a link that I hope helps you :)
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (19 February 2015):
OP, stop obsessing!
You can't change your penis size and your body height, and you don't have to, either, because they are perfectly normal. If anything is slightly out of proportion, it would be your weight, but I've read that most people from the US are overweight (my source is wikipedia, I've never been to the states), so maybe for your age group, your weight is perfectly normal, too.
My advice is to stop obsessing and hiding behind the "I can't talk to hot women because I'm too small". It's an excuse for not being brave enough. There's a million possible reasons why a woman might like or dislike you, and penis size, shape etc. are just one tiny reason.
Each of us is different in taste and you might not even have enough imagination to find out all the reasons why we might fall in love with you or reject you.
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