She hasn't got a mobile or MSN. How can I get to know her?
Q. Dear Cupid, Last month I went to a careers interview and I sat next to this girl in a waiting room. Rather then just keeping quiet I started talking to her and I thought she was a nice person and got her name and what subjects she takes at school e...
A. 21 March 2006: Go out for a quiet drink! Make conversation, about random stuff, have a laugh and just generally have a nice time! It's a bit daunting at first but once you get to know this girl things will become easier :) How do you think the last generati... (read in full...)
Why would this married guy lie to his wife?
Q. Why would a married man lie to his wife about his whereabouts? I'm friends with a married couple, I've known them both for about 3 years. They have been working out of state for the last year because thier business failed. They come back once a ...
A. 14 February 2006: Men lie for many reasons, usually to save their sorry asses coz they have lied in the first place! What's probably happened is that he's told his wife he's somewhere else, then she phoned and he told her he was out doing some "shopping"...men just ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my best friend's boy, but now I've fallen in love with him!
Q. Somehow I've found myself in a situation where I am sleeping with my best friend/roommate's boyfriend. What should I do when I have fallen in love with him, too?...
A. 14 February 2006: Friends are the ones who are always there, men come and go. I would never do that to a friend, he obviously doesn't care about her or you, otherwise he wouldn't be doing what he's doing, no matter what he says. stay away from him, admit it to your ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried about my wedding night...
Q. Hello. I am getting married in August 2006. My question is: how to avoid first wedding night discomfort (bleeding, pain, etc...)??? At age 20, I am still a virgin (I believe in sex after the wedding) and I am so afraid of my first sex experience... ...
A. 14 February 2006: It is a bit painful, and there may be some bleeding, it's not painful as such, it's more "uncomfortable" than anything. just relax and enjoy it! good girl for keeping it until you get married I'm impressed! it's not so heard of these days is it? ... (read in full...)
Ladies: I don't want my Valentine's card to my girlfriend to be too soppy. Opinions, please!
Q. Hi people, Simple question for the ladies here... I've got my girlfriend a Valentines card. It's nice and jokey too, about how she's the best kisser ever lol. She's my first proper girlfriend and my first valentine, we're both 19. If ...
A. 14 February 2006: women love cheesey stuff! go for it! if you think she'll like it go for it, trust your instincts and she will appreciate it :) Charlie x... (read in full...)
We broke up and it's been 3 months..why can't I stop thinking of her?
Q. hi there, me and my girlfriend split up nearly 3 months ago,we were together 4 years. to start with we still kept in touch every few days and said that we didnt want to lose the friendship that we have and deep down i kind of thought that we might ...
A. 14 February 2006: four years! I still thinking about my ex of TWO years, and we've been split up for nearly 6 months! to get over something like that takes time, don't rush yourself. don't meet up with this new gil until you are ready, if you do she'll be your ... (read in full...)
For my 14th birthday, my BF wants us to lose our virginity to each other, but I don't know if I'm ready...
Q. Hi everybody I am a 13 y o and turn 14 on the 20th Feb but my bf and I are going out to celebrate. We are going to a kids' nightclub and I'm really exited. He has been saving up for 5 months for my present and I am looking forward to it, but then ...
A. 14 February 2006: nooooooooooo don't do it please! you will regret it in times to come! I lost mine when I was 14, and I wish I had waited, please don't do it, wait until you are sure you are ready and in a secure,happy and loving relationship! Charlie x... (read in full...)
Drunkenly kissing a workmate was a big mistake... Do I have to tell my girlfriend about the indescretion?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her a lot, and I know she loves me back. She's away at uni now, and I get to see her about once a month. Recently our time together has been difficult and we came close to splitting up a couple o...
A. 14 February 2006: I wouldn't tell lol. It's punishment enough to have to live with the fact that you have kissed someone else (drunkenly yes but where's your self control man!!!) and have to see her, knowing she doesn't know. if there's no way of her finding out then ... (read in full...)
Already starting to lose interest in my BF of 3 months, and flirting with my ex...
Q. Hiya, I need help. I have a boyfriend at the moment and we have been together for 3 months. The thing is I don't know if I still love him, and to make things worse, I am having dreams about an ex. I think I am in love with him and people say he ...
A. 14 February 2006: sort out how you feel. obviously your not in love with your current bf, and stil have feelings for your ex. let your bf down gently, and sort out how you feel. remember, your ex is an ex for a reason! so don't just jump back into a relationship with ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're not being paranoid in a relationship?
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly seven months and I feel very insecure about the relationship. I spoke to him recently and told him that I didn't feel desired like I ought to and that he has become very complacent about the relationship. I ...
A. 14 February 2006: you need to sit down and have a chat with him, men don't like to admit when things are wrong "if it aint broke, don't fix it" attitudes with most of them (sorry guys, you know it's true!). You need to make him see how upset you are, sounds like you ... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't want me to find someone else but can we be friends?
Q. Dear Cupid, I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago beacause things just weren't right and i needed space, but ever since he's been calling me and telling me how much he wants me back and he can't live without me though i just want to be ...
A. 14 February 2006: You can be friends with your ex, I'm friends with mine after 2 years, after living together and being engaged and a not so nice break up, it is possible. He has to stop giving you the guilt trip it's not fair on you, it's your life and you can do ... (read in full...)
I came clean and told her I had used her..lied to her in the beginning, but not now. Did I sink my relationship with her?
Q. Get straight to the point...I used and lied to my girlfriend, what can I do? When I first knew my G/F, we were just friends. I'm ashamed to say from almost the moment I met her I wanted to have sex with her. In fact, that desire dominated the fi...
A. 13 February 2006: you may have well sunk your relationship (harsh but true!), unfortunately you had ulterior motives to begin with that you have come clean about, and she will appreciate the honesty, but it's still a harsh blow. If your "new" relationship is strong ... (read in full...)
How do I end this relationship with a controlling and threatening man?
Q. I am having problems with my relationship with my partner. I'm not unhappy. I want an end to my marriage and a new life with just me and my daughter and I want a break with just me and her. My partner won't let us go even to stay for a week with a f...
A. 13 February 2006: the best thing to do is just up and leave. when he's not home, pack your stuff, get friends/family to come down with their cars and take off with your daughter. It'll be a massivelesson for him when he comes home to find out whats happened with no ... (read in full...)
Really sore during sex... What could it be?
Q. I am 17 and started having sex at the age of 16. I never used to have any problems with it but recently it's been really sore during sex, although I haven't had any other noticeable symptoms. My boyfriend is certain something is wrong with me and h...
A. 13 February 2006: Chances are it's nothing serious, go to the doctors, get yourself checked, the longer you leave it the harder it will be to actually go! Don't do it because he's telling you to either, do it for yourself, it's your body not his! Charlie x... (read in full...)
In love with my cousin's husband! They've recently moved to where I live and now I can't avoid seeing him!
Q. Hi, Need some aadvice. Have been in love with a married man for almost 16 years. Problem is he is married and so am I. He knows I love him, as I went and told him. He has admitted to me that he likes me too. He is married to my cousin and they ...
A. 9 February 2006: unfortunately there is nothing you can do. you need to let go of your feelings for him otherwise it will destroy both of your relationships and lives. your cousin comes first over him, you both have children you need to think of, so you need to ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of stretch marks?
Q. Im expecting at the moment, and i have a one year old. So my stomache is coverd in stretch marks and its maing me feel really un sexy for my long term partner. I wanted to know if there is any women that have the same problem or is there anyone that ...
A. 9 February 2006: i haven't had any children and I still have stretch marks all over my bum and boobs! I was very skinny and then put a few stone on, i feel sexier now I'm bigger, but I do get paranoid about my stretch marks. I told my bf that I didn't like but he ... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 9 February 2006: my ex had told me I was number 99...I wasn't impressed! my current bf isn't sure how many he's slept with, but he knows it's over 50...I've slept with 9 people and I'm 18. and I don't want it to go up anymore! thats my opinion!... (read in full...)
He's lost the plot and dumped me for crazyreasons, but still wants to be friends... Will this work?
Q. After dating pretty seriously for a year, when both people think highly of one another and are (allegedly) still in love, but there are (allegedly) circumstantial factors that make the relationship impossible, can they go to being just friends? ...
A. 9 February 2006: you can be friends. me and my bf of 2 years broke up a few months ago, 4 months ago I think. after the initial "i never want to speak to you again" arguments, and all of the other things we said, we are now best of mates, we totally understand each, ... (read in full...)
Any way I can tell if the married man I'm dating will leave his wife, kids, for me?
Q. Why did i have to start dating a married man! It's been almost a year now, he's in his late 30s and says that, even though he loves me, he won't leave his wife because they have been together since she was 16 and they have children together and so ...
A. 9 February 2006: there is no way he will leave her for you, i know it's harsh, but when I was 15 i was in the same situation. the first guy I slept with was 38, he told me he loved me and he would leave his gf of 10 years for me, he didn't he's still with her now. ... (read in full...)
What do I do about his explicit pictures of him and his ex-boyfriend?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and things are wonderful. I knew before we started dating that he had had boyfriends before. He still keeps explicit pictures of him with his ex boyfriend and it bothers me. I found them one day and ...
A. 9 February 2006: I found pic's of my current bf and his ex before...I wasn't impressed as you can imagine. as neither are you. men are weird creatures and can't understand why we don't like to see these pic's. they like to keep them as a "personal collection" of ... (read in full...)
What subtle signs can I look out for that a guy likes me?
Q. im sure this has been asked a million times before, but will someone (or as many people who have different opinions) tell me what exactly a guy does around a girl he likes? i know basic things, such as questions, touching, etc. but i know there are ...
A. 7 February 2006: Lots of men have different "tell-tale" signs, and like you said the general ones are touching, eye contact etc. but men cant understand that women like honesty. best way to be is up front yeah? men don't do that. if they say they like you and they ... (read in full...)
I'm like Cinderella... Always tidying and cleaning up after him!
Q. I guess I am simply looking ensure myself that I am not crazy for feeling the way that I do. I met my boyfriend a couple of years ago and we moved in together last June. I quickly realized that we are incompatible in a big way, and now I'm ...
A. 7 February 2006: Nuts? god no. I was exactly the same a while back, you have to get him to understand you are not his mother. He sounds like he's insecure and needs someone to look after him. make him realize he needs to grow up, and take responsiblity for his mess! ... (read in full...)
How can I spy on his online dating surfing?
Q. hi. i know my other half has been going on to dating sites,etc. i'm not sure if it has stopped. the only way i can find out is to look at his internet history or email but, as i don't know his password, i can not do that. anyone know another way of ...
A. 7 February 2006: I don't think you should. be honest! the best way is to be up front with him about it, not to cause an argument, but to talk to him about why he's doing what he's doing. Men do silly things like this for lots of reasons, usually to boost their male ... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you ever be interested in a girl three years older than you?
Q. Can a 26yr old woman seriously, in good conscience, flirt with a 23yr old grad school classmate? Or is that just creepy? He is so cute, but so young; I feel a twinge of guilt when I catch myself flirting with him. And I can't tell whether he's ...
A. 7 February 2006: there are seven years between me and my boyfriend, and we get along like a house on fire! I'm 18 and he's 25 (26 in a few days! birthday! noooo!) and we have so much to talk about all the time, we never run out of things to say and I'm very much in ... (read in full...)
No sex, just sucking... Is this wrong?
Q. I'm a 15-year-old girl and going out with a guy only a month younger than me. He's a total sweetie and we've been going out for three months. We've made out and he's felt under my bra. But he wants to take my bra off. No sex, but sucking... I'm not ...
A. 7 February 2006: I lost my virginity when I was 14, to someone I wasn't going out with, and someone I didn't have much feelings for. I don't regret it as everything happens for a reason and it has made me the person I am today, *however* if I had asked someone about ... (read in full...)
I am gutted that my girlfriend told all my friends in the pub that I was "average" in bed... !
Q. we was in the local pub a few days ago, and my girlfriend told all are friends that i was average in bed! she says she loves me more than anything! i just dont know what to do i love her too but i cant foget about what she said, and now i'm to w...
A. 7 February 2006: Women don't like to discuss their private lives in public, they will generally make comments like that to avoid the subject, or so as no present females will try to steal you! I understand this has hurt your pride, and maybe it was a way of her ... (read in full...)
Split with my great new guy to try again with my ex... And regretting it!
Q. I really need some help here! My boyfriend and I were together almost three years and we broke up last September. Aged 25 and 26, not living together. He cheated on me (kissed someone else) and then told me he had been having doubts about us ...
A. 2 February 2006: i've been in the same situation. your ex is a control freak, he wants you to be his, if you leave he'll change and be all nicey nicey until you come back, then he'll be the same again. if he's anything like my ex, he's insanely jealous, controlling, ... (read in full...)
Druges help me feel a little better...help
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up 5 mths. ago. He cheated and i do not want him back. i can't seem to get happy without him. I do drugs to numb thee pain. I am a mess. help. ...
A. 2 February 2006: What drugs are you using? certain drugs have more devasting affect than others..but obviously none are good in this situation. you need to sober up, come to terms with what has happened, cry about it, then move on. you don't sound like you have ... (read in full...)
Guy "B" is my sex guy. So how do I dump guy "A" while still remaining friends?
Q. Hi, I have a problem. I was going out with a guy (A), he cheated on me and me on him and i was going to finish it as i thought he'd never want to marry me. I met a guy off the internet (B), it was meant to be just for sex but we clicked instantly, ...
A. 2 February 2006: I think this is one of those situations where you have to please your self, and be selfish. if you truly are in love with guy "B" then go for it, true happiness doesn't come around every day. If you and guy "A" finished, it was obviously for a ... (read in full...)
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