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writes: im sure this has been asked a million times before, but will someone (or as many people who have different opinions) tell me what exactly a guy does around a girl he likes? i know basic things, such as questions, touching, etc. but i know there are deeper signs that im unaware of. im really just asking because sometimes i can read people like a book, but for some reason i've had some problems recently with knowing if a guy truly likes me for me or not. for instance, one guy i thought really liked me (he gave me the classic "signs") and it turned out he liked my friend. then there was a guy about a month ago who i would have NEVER thought liked me, and it turned out he did. am i reading men wrong?? by the way, although it sounds like it, im 22, not a teenager. thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, danny m  +, writes (17 August 2009):
im a guy and when i like a girl i try to get to know them on msn because im quite shy, flirting a little and i always pretend that they are my best friend, this gives me a reason to talk to them in person, sit with them at dinner ect, and i always make jokes about myself to see if they defend me because they like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): I am in the same situation as this however I am not with this guy. I really fancy him though and he says that he likes me as well. We work together in a local take away shop and on valentines day he asked me out for a drink at our local club, well at the end of the night we kissed and then we meet up every week on his day...he only gets 1 day off a week from work.When we do meet up we are so loving towards each other, not in the sexual way because we have to meet up in secret cos as we work at the same place our boss doesn't want his 'staff' involved with each other. I can see where my boss is coming from though and too be honest this doesn't really bother me.Anyway as I was saying when we do meet up we are loving towards each other kisses, cuddles etc and we've even talked about marriage. I really want to be married with him and he tells me as well...I will state that although we're not in a relationship we have known each other for 2 years and I feel that I would really love to be with this guy.We get along great and then when we are at work because we don't want our boss to find out anything I find him looking at me and then when I look at him he will smile and then when we are on our own in the shop we will talk and flirt a little bit but then always one of the other staff will walk in!!When we were driving in the car, I let him drive for a bit and he was rubbing his hand through his hair quite a lot, which I secretly noticed so can someone tell me if that is a sign?Please can someone help me and give me a list of the signs that a guy likes you
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reader, charlie432 +, writes (7 February 2006):
Lots of men have different "tell-tale" signs, and like you said the general ones are touching, eye contact etc. but men cant understand that women like honesty. best way to be is up front yeah? men don't do that. if they say they like you and they are in a relationship with you, it usually translates as "I love you, but because you haven't said it, I'm not going to show my feelings first", the male ego is a weird and wonderful thing and it can be highly confusing! I always find the most subtle sign is the classic, "looking". he looks at you, you catch him, and he instantly looks away. thats the best one! Hope I've been of some help! Charlie x
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (7 February 2006):
 ok guys are all different and yes they do usually give off the classic signs, but also i was with a guy not so long ago who constantly was staring into my eyes but then looking at my mouth and then back to my eyes so one day i was like hav i gt something on my mouth and he kissed me, sometimes the most subtle signs indicate he likes you, also sarcastic comments and play fighting which you may think is mean is his only way of getting close to you, sometimes you understand and see more in a guy with your eyes closed have fun xxx
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