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writes: Can a 26yr old woman seriously, in good conscience, flirt with a 23yr old grad school classmate? Or is that just creepy? He is so cute, but so young; I feel a twinge of guilt when I catch myself flirting with him. And I can't tell whether he's flirting b/c he's interested, or b/c he's from the south, where charm is everything.Guys, what do you think? Would you ever be interested in a girl three years older than you?
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reader, mystify +, writes (8 February 2006):
 im 8 years older than my husband when i started senior school he was at playgroup, when i had finnished college and was working he was at primary school , it dosent add up to much when it comes down to it! three years sound pretty normal to me, i mean what are the chances of every guy you date being exactly the same age?!
he probably is interested if you are getting that from him, loads of guys love the idea of an older woman
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (7 February 2006):
 3 years is ok, it really should not matter who is the oldest, unless one of you is below 16, you are both not in this catagory so flirt back, send him a valantine.
See how the waters lie, if he wants a date then the valantine card should initiate this, make sure it clearly indicates it is from you.
Good luck you lucky girl.
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reader, charlie432 +, writes (7 February 2006):
there are seven years between me and my boyfriend, and we get along like a house on fire! I'm 18 and he's 25 (26 in a few days! birthday! noooo!) and we have so much to talk about all the time, we never run out of things to say and I'm very much in love with him, and he feels the same. all you need for a good relationship is good kissing (sex can always be improved on!), good conversation, and a seperate life from each other. all you need is a little confindence babes, go for it! Charlie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): Most certainly. Its not like one of those 'I'm 18, they're 15' things anymore. You are two people in your twenties. Go for it!
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reader, willywombat +, writes (7 February 2006):
 My hubby is 5 years younger than me, I was 28 when we met and him 23. We are still together 8 years later, so yes your age difference is tiny!
Go for it!
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): Eek, I was wrong about his age - it turns out he's FOUR years younger. He graduated from high school the same year I finished college. Creepy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): sorry im not a guy but i will say that guys are intrested in older chicks, im 20 and a 17 yr old guy wanted me bad, age is not a big deal its only 3 years, have fun ask him out for some drinks or to go on a date or something, if he declines then you know he is not intrested.
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (7 February 2006):
 Of course you can flirt and/or go for him, three years is nothing. You shouldn't feel guilty about it, you aren't doing anything morally or socially unacceptable. If I was attracted to a girl three years older than me(and obviously single) I would definately be willing. Whether or not he's from the south, if you feel like he's flirting with you, he is. So give it a chance.
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