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What does it mean when your boyfriend flirts with other women?

Q.   What does it mean when your boyfriend flirts with other women? I love my boyfriend a lot and he's a great guy. The thing is, I don't really like the way he talks with other women and the way he is with other women. He's very flirty with them...

A.   1 February 2014: You have two options here, in my opinion. First choice is to talk to him about this and go through all the issues you have with the way he behaves and why it hurts you. This will allow him to understand how you feel and not like you're having a... (read in full...)

I have been seeing a guy, we've become friends and he's fallen for me but I don't find him attractive. Yet I miss him when he doesn't talk to me. What should I do?

Q.   Hi aunts, I'm confused about my feelings. I met a guy at a charity event and was instantly attracted to him for some reason. I really wanted him to take me out and focused all my attention on him. The charity events lasted one week and at the ...

A.   1 February 2014: He said he doesn't want to stop talking, so just be his friend. Maybe the romantic feelings will just need some time. Providing you're open and honest about your feelings and both on the same level then you'll be fine. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

Should he stay or should he go?

Q.   Okay, so. After my birthday in november i started seeing one of my exs again - we had split up as we'd both changed a bit. I had cheated on him too, but he didnt know that when we split. (mistake, long story, blahblah) We were seeing eachothe...

A.   18 August 2010: Thank you for your answer. It was this random girl he went off with, I actually got along with his ex. It's hard to just forget about it after being with them, or seeing him rather, for so long :/. I have changed things already. But Idk... (read in full...)

My Plan to get back with my girl (please critique)

Q.   I need help with this situation, as I'm slightly confused. 5 days ago, I saw my girlfriend for the first time in 3 weeks, as she is off working at a camp over the summer. We have been dating for 4 months and we haven't seen each other on a consiste...

A.   18 August 2010: All i would say is just wait and see? If you say you need more time, she may find someone else. It's best to just be honest, wait for her if you feel you should. Just see where the fates take it? hope it works out :) x... (read in full...)

Advice on secretive ways to keep in touch

Q.   Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. EVER. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot...

A.   18 August 2010: I'd say maybe using different phones to call her, numbers her mom wouldnt recognise... With texts and cell calls, you can always go really old schoo and save you as a different person's name. If she's likely to read them then tellher to save ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to cum really quickly for your first time of getting intimate?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I've grown really close to my girlfriend over the last few weeks and we recently started experimenting with each other - taking steps. Today, we went to third base, she gave me a hand job, at which point I was very VERY turned o...

A.   26 June 2010: Don't worry! not only is it easier on the girls hand, but you'll get better before sex. You'll last longer each time :D Dont worry mate hope it works out :)... (read in full...)

Can a girl like you after saying I think we should be friends?

Q.   "OPs Own Title" Do you think its a possibility that a Girl who wants to be just friends. After being friends for long while hanging out and all that stuff that makes her more comfortable around you. That she can like you again? I mean I guess yo...

A.   3 June 2010: I'd say if you're really interested then just be friends for a while and see how it works out. Maybe she just doesnt want a relationship right now? So you need to show her how easy you are to fall for. Let her make the first move, or look for... (read in full...)

Why Do I keep looking Back if he said he doesn't care?

Q.   Well, I really Love this Guy. He is Emo. And I do not care what anyone thinks of it. I am not Emo, At all. We have Never gone out. He was Never My Boyfriend. He is thee Most Amazing Person I have Ever met. There is NO one who is even clos...

A.   3 June 2010: You're between 13-15, so everything now feels like love. When I was 14 i was with a guy, call him Shaun, and we broke up, i thought it was love and i couldnt see us breaking up.. Then he met my best friends, and he liked them. We broke up and i c... (read in full...)

Is he just being mean?

Q.   If a guy like you does he pick on you and then says joks or is he just being mean???...

A.   3 June 2010: It depends. Some guys do it in a flirty way, but in my experiance it's never been the same as if you were being bullied. They're usually just little things, like you're stupid and stuff like that. Silly things. I've only had one guy be really t... (read in full...)

I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend

Q.   Hey so I still have my foreskin on my penis, and my penis head the skin on it has been pealing off what is going on? I think it is this Lichen Scleroses. what do I do I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend....

A.   3 June 2010: Go to the doctors and see. Everyone is different, try not to worry until after you're sure :) Hope it works out (Y)... (read in full...)

I feel he isn't into me anymore, Please help!

Q.   please help i am so confused and i really dont know what to do. i met this guy a few months ago at a club he spilled a drink on me and i danced with his best friend few days after that i saw that he was at my sisters house and i also found out that ...

A.   3 June 2010: It's best to just try and hang out with him and see where it goes. Trust me when i say that it's really difficult to push someone out when theyre in, so i wouldnt go all out and throw your whole heart into it all at once. Be yourself, but dont get... (read in full...)

Was it all innocent or does he have something to hide?

Q.   I worry my boyfriend has cheated on me when we first started going out, his ex girlfriend is also his best mate an they spend a lot of time together! If one stays round the others over night they will both stay in the same bed, I found this out afte...

A.   3 June 2010: You need to confront him of how you're feelingg.. It may be that she's just more of a sister to him now. Also, think about why they broke up. It helps to know so you feel more secure. If he says he doesnt know why, then either he cheated or he do... (read in full...)

Slept with 2 brothers, now what do I do if I see them?

Q.   I met a man this summer and i fell for him really quickly, we had sex after a few dates and then i found out he was seeing someone. I carried on chasing him and slept with him a few more times until he stopped calling. I recently bumped into his...

A.   18 December 2009: Be in control. You had both of them! And good on you. You may feel used but you should just think of it as fun. You're young! It's what young people do! :). Don't worry about seeing them. I'm sure they will be pleasant and if they're not then... (read in full...)

I want to get out and live!!!

Q.   Ever since I was about 14 I have always been in serious relationships! when I was 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 3 years and I got engaged! I finaly left him due to problems that had been going on for a while and had, had enough of it! but ...

A.   15 May 2009: Personally? I suggest a break. Or just don't take things so seriously! Alot of my friends are in serious relationships, and the way i see it is that you're just too young! You need to get the wild side of you out while you can! I honestly bel... (read in full...)

Is he into me or just likes the other girl or trying to get me jealous?

Q.   Hello, I have dropped by to say and ask for some advice. Well, First of all I *fancy* my brother's Friend. My brother’s friend is 16 years old but 17 this year. We both kind of did like each other but I told my brother and he did freak out but ...

A.   15 May 2009: Okay, firstly, Calm down! You have to take these things one thing at a time. Firstly, i know it's hard when your brother does anything but approve. I don't know if your brother is close to you.. but i'm sure that was difficult.. So I'm glad it ... (read in full...)

I have never been kissed but now I have to kiss on the stage, any tips?

Q.   I am in a school production. I have a few kissing scenes... problem is I have never been kissed. I am ok with a stage kiss and he is also and that is what the director wants but in the play I am a very aggressive character that kisses him. I don't ...

A.   6 December 2008: I agree with TasteofIndia. Just go for it! Hand on the side of the face works best, and get his hands on your waist. You'll rock! :) x... (read in full...)

In love with my best friend's boyfriend, what do I do?

Q.   Ok, here it goes. I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend and I don't know what to do, it hurts just to talk to him, he always says how he's useless and nobody needs him and that he's a waste of space and everytime I speak to him U just wanna ...

A.   6 December 2008: Calm down! You're young, and your feelings will most likely go away. You say he doesnt love you like you love him, so don't do anything, if there is no hope like that, then why ruin two close friendships?? Maybe if in the future he showed an ... (read in full...)

Do men really only want women with big breasts?

Q.   Do men really only want women with big breasts - my breasts are no bigger than Kate Moss's - I'm naturally small, but worry men will be disappointed when I get undressed !...

A.   6 December 2008: Most of the guys i talk to say that anymore than a handful is just a waste.. :) aha x... (read in full...)

I told her I liked her and she said she felt a bit smothered by me...

Q.   I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, the first three weeks she was studying really hard, we hung out four or five times and I knew she was really focused on the studying more than anything... can't blame her. Anyway, this week is ...

A.   20 November 2008: That is really up to you. It depends on how she was with you last night really, and was it the first time since you fooled around that you hung out? Because it's a good sign that she's still talking to you the same and hanging out as much. ... (read in full...)

What can I do and say to help us get together?

Q.   Before i tell u my life story i would first like to say sorry for how much i am going to write its just im becoming more and more paranoid and feel as though im going insane ): So here goes, yes it is about a boy and me and him are both 14. It s...

A.   20 November 2008: I know what you're going through, and from the sound of it, he does like you. But i had an incident like this, where he would do all the little flirty things with me, and then he ended up not liking me at all. Wait for him and his gf to finish... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for accusing him of being with her?

Q.   So after I found out my fiance has a child that he thought was not his things have been weird. Right now we are in two different states for about three more weeks. He constantly tells me he loves me and we have been engaged for a year. His ...

A.   20 November 2008: Calm down for starters. She's obviously threatened by you. She either wants to be with him or is scared you'll take him away from her daughter... or maybe even her daughter will like you more. I'm sure its hard for her, but shes being pathetic... (read in full...)

I told her I liked her and she said she felt a bit smothered by me...

Q.   I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, the first three weeks she was studying really hard, we hung out four or five times and I knew she was really focused on the studying more than anything... can't blame her. Anyway, this week is ...

A.   20 November 2008: Take things slower, and say that it was just in the moment. Girls like a bit of a chase, so try not to seem so availiable too. If it's meant to be, it will be :) Hope it woorks out :) xx... (read in full...)

My best friend and I fight over this boy's love, what should I do?

Q.   My best friend and I are in love with the same boy. We fight over it every single day and hate each other to bits at the moment. This boy told me he loved me and hated my best friend...... what should i do?????? XxX...

A.   20 November 2008: I know it's probably something that you have been told, but its true. "Hoes over bros. Girls over guys." Friends are gonna be there longer than boys, tell the boy, your friendship is more important, cause it seems like he's playing you aga... (read in full...)

He wants to kiss with tongues and I haven't a clue what to do!

Q.   I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do!...

A.   20 November 2008: Don't worry, if you're sure you want to be with him, it will be fine. Be sure he's not pressuring you! OKay? Otherwise talk to him about it. If you're sure your ready, then just relax, when you kiss him leave your mouth open a bit, and wait fo... (read in full...)

He wants to kiss with tongues and I haven't a clue what to do!

Q.   I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do!...

A.   20 November 2008: Don't worry, if you're sure you want to be with him, it will be fine. Be sure he's not pressuring you! OKay? Otherwise talk to him about it. If you're sure your ready, then just relax, when you kiss him leave your mouth open a bit, and wait fo... (read in full...)

I think I only love my boyfriend as a friend!

Q.   I'm so confused! I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and we've said we love each other but thing is i think i only love him as a friend! we were good friends before we got together but i don't want to hurt him. i don't ...

A.   4 November 2008: If you like someone else, you have to decide who you're in love with, or who you would be better with. Lists of Pro's and Cons do work believe it or not, they help to make hard choices, and realise how you really feel. If the other boy wants hi... (read in full...)

Did he mean to kiss her or not??

Q.   Well, today my mate D told me that my boyfriend went to kiss her, but she backed away because she had a boyfriend too. ( me and my boyfriend's realationship is secret till we no wether it will work ). When she told me i was just shocked, i didn't ...

A.   4 November 2008: There a few things you need to consider here. Who broke up with who? Until you know this, you're in no hope. Next, are you close friends? And does she know you're together? There a few ways i see this in... depnding on the answer to... (read in full...)

I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.

Q.   Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend a...

A.   9 September 2008: First of all let me say Well Done! Takes alot of guts to come out! Next, don't worry! All friends that are worth it will come back to you, and if not you will make more. Be confident, don't let them know how much it hurts, cause the will ju... (read in full...)

Getting him out of my life isn't an option. What can I do to get him back?

Q.   I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and rather gorgous. We went out for a couple of months. It wasnt serious, cause i was only 14, then we split up over him liking my best friend. After that he went round my ...

A.   5 September 2008: its me again. I am a virgin thanks, so thee, you sleep with alot of guys really offends me. I came here for help not judgement. Thank you to the male reader, and yes i know that things are different. He used to cheat on people, and wanted to be... (read in full...)

Do our ages really matter if we are teens?

Q.   Does age really matter?? Me and this girl have started talking and we are meeting up soon just to go cinema and that, we are kind of seing each other at the mo but nothing serious, she's 14 and im 17. I dont want anyone to think that im with he...

A.   4 September 2008: There is nothing wrong with that. Some people may think there is, but they are ignorant. Girls mature faster, and that seems fine that you're a few years older as long as you dont pressure her into anything, which from the sounds of things you wont... (read in full...)

Why is he with this girl when he flirts with and misses me?

Q.   I am confused on what to do, please help! My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, after a very long friendship before the relationship and him wanting me a long time before we went out, I broke it off as he became too clingly and wanted me to be with hi...

A.   4 September 2008: You could just tell him how you feel, even if it affects the friendship at first. He may want to be with you but doesnt know how you feel. I think you should tell him, and if he doesnt feel the same just move on. You need to show him you want him ... (read in full...)

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