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writes:I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, 98shanny98  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 First thing to do:
RELAX! No one likes tense lips when their kissing, it would be like snogging a fish (not nice).
Second thing:
Go with the flow. If your not sure just copy him, it'll come naturally
Third thing:
Don't worry!If you're nervous just remember that everyone has gone through this.
If you want to kiss with tongues kiss naturally then gently open your mouth, you can either touch your tongue to his lip to show you want to do tongues, or run your tongue along his bottom lip. If he wants to do tongues then he wil open his mouth too. Then just work your tongues together but avoid 'washing machine' syndrome. Just touch your tongues together and if you want to be more adventurous then start to explore his mouth with your tongue. There is no right way or wrong way to do tongues, so just go with it.
Good Luck, I hope I helped!
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reader, meforyou +, writes (20 November 2008):
Tell him its your first time kissing a guy so he'll know what to expect. I learnt to kiss when i was 18! Its really easy and will come naturally to you, don't rush it and you will be fine, good luck x
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (20 November 2008):
Don't worry, if you're sure you want to be with him, it will be fine.
Be sure he's not pressuring you! OKay? Otherwise talk to him about it.
If you're sure your ready, then just relax, when you kiss him leave your mouth open a bit, and wait for him to make the first move. When he does, copy what he does. Do this the first few times, then you'll be set to be a bit more comfortable.
Good luck :)
Hope all goes well x
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (20 November 2008):
Don't worry, if you're sure you want to be with him, it will be fine.
Be sure he's not pressuring you! OKay? Otherwise talk to him about it.
If you're sure your ready, then just relax, when you kiss him leave your mouth open a bit, and wait for him to make the first move. When he does, copy what he does. Do this the first few times, then you'll be set to be a bit more comfortable.
Good luck :)
Hope all goes well x
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