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writes:I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, the first three weeks she was studying really hard, we hung out four or five times and I knew she was really focused on the studying more than anything... can't blame her. Anyway, this week is really the first week that we have been able to hang out and enjoy each others company. Well, my problem here is that I said some things that I shouldn't have while we where in the heat of the moment (not sex by the way), I told her a few days ago how much I liked her and that I thought she was beautiful, and I told her I really saw a lot of potential with her, she seemed like she liked to hear that and seemed to reciprocate the feeling, but last night I had her over for dinner and we had a great time, we ended up kissing and fooling around a little bit, and in the heat of the moment I said some more things, like I think about her when she's gone and I miss her, and mentioned something about a relationship. She stopped everything and told me she wants to get to know me before she can get into a relationship, and she honestly felt a little smuthered and rushed by me. That really scared me! I don't want to lose this girl, or have I already lost her? What do I do here?
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reader, Charleybabes0811  +, writes (20 November 2008):
That is really up to you.It depends on how she was with you last night really, and was it the first time since you fooled around that you hung out? Because it's a good sign that she's still talking to you the same and hanging out as much.From the sounds of it though she does like you, so i'd go ahead with the movie, but maybe say you're busy over the next day or so, if she wants to make plans again, and be hazy about your availiablity over the next few days.It will make her crazyyy!Hope it all works out :)xx
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reader, guy1234 +, writes (20 November 2008):
guy1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice! One more thing, even though we hung out last night we had planned on watching a movie togther this afternoon, do you think I should cancel and wait to see her until tomorrow?
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (20 November 2008):
Take things slower, and say that it was just in the moment.Girls like a bit of a chase, so try not to seem so availiable too.If it's meant to be, it will be :)Hope it woorks out :)xx
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