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writes:HI rite were do i start well im 17 18 in 2 week i have a 2 and a half year old. And today i have just found out am exspecting again i have being with my bf for 3 years we are up and down. I had a abortion a couple of months ago and really dont want another one but then again i dont want another baby. The doctors told me i am not aloud to take the pill or any other contriception because i have problems they are trying to find out what so it's not as if i can use protection. I feel so stuck and afraid Help please.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): you are so young and very fertile. there are so many women out there that would love to be as fertile as you.
I think your doctor is very wrong in saying not to use contraception. there are so many more options than just the pill and condoms. I don't agree with abortion but do you think that maybe this baby is trying to enter the world no matter what you do??? this baby has obviously chosen you and your BF as parents.......good luck with what ever choice you make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank you for the advice i have made my mind up and i'am not going to carry on with the pregancy it's to early And i dont want to bring another baby in to a not good relationship it will only make it worse. And from now on i will keep my legs closed dont want to get pregnant again. And i know am stupid thankx for the advice apriciated x
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reader, carebear +, writes (7 April 2008):
 No poster I am not judging you or giving you abuse, I just think it wrong of doctors not to explain to you what is wrong. Now you are trying to act responsable it unfortunate that lots of young people use the pill and condoms and they let them down and they are faced with hard decisions like this.I am so sorry you are having problems, I had my first daughter at 18, I had a great preganacy terrible birth for her and had complecations, they said it was because I was young and baby was 8lb 10ounce.
I hope you get to the bottom of this as it is a shame that you and your b/f is not getting the proper advice.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Hi,
if you use condoms how come you keep getting pregnant?. I think you are not being entirely honest here.
But that aside, you need professional help , more than you can get here, ask your Doctor for advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe do use condoms i wont do it with out. It's not as if im sleeping around, and so what i had a child at 15 i wont be the 1st and i wont be the last i love my child and wouldn't change her for the world.
And as for the pill i have something wrong with my ovaries i have had every thing from scans to every thing to find out whats wrong but im waiting an opointement at gc. Don't judge me on what you read i have a good job 17 or not i work and earn quite a bit so i dont live on benifits. I came hear for help and all i seem to have got is abuse!
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reader, broken babe  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Stop having sex! whats wrong with you? unless you are using a condom or the pill or whatever you shouldnt have sex! your ruining your life by doing this. and you need to stop. get another abortion and just hold off for now. and i doubt that if you can have sex you cant use a condom or the pill.
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reader, carebear +, writes (5 April 2008):
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You really need to go back to you doctor pronto! have they explained to you why you cannot use contriception and what these problems are?
It is absolutley disgraceful of them knowing you had a baby at 15, then an abortion for them to say to you don't use protection.
My god how may children do they expect you to have if you are only nearly 18?
Get back to them ASAP DEMAND an answer and deciede what you are going to do about this pregnacy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): you may not be able to use contraception, but your partner can. I suggest getting condoms. If your partner doesn't like condoms then it's either a life full of abortions or an army of children, I'm sorry.
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