I don't think I love my husband anymore
Q. I don't think I love my husband anymore. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now, we have a 2 year old son. I was married at the age of 23. At the moment we have a lot going on, I've been telling him that I feel lost and that I don't...
A. 7 April 2009: I have read the first 6 paragraphs, and I have read enough. I agree with satindesire, if he thinks you should be a housewife and hold a fulltime job. He is ridiculous, for being a woman working on the mines I honestly bow to you. You are a very ... (read in full...)
They say age is just a number so why is this wrong?
Q. Okay, I'm 13, almost 14, but I am VERY mature for my age. Well, there's this guy, whos name I refuse to mention, and he's freaking amazing. We have so much in common, and he likes me, well, from his behavor I can tell. So, here's my issue, he's 18, ...
A. 16 February 2009: Age isen't "just" a number. He is WAY to old for you, don't bother. That is VERY dangerous to date somebody 19 years old when your only 13. The chances of him liking you back aren't slim but are not likely either. Leave him be, and stay friends. You ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to forgive in time even when the trust has been broken?
Q. My boyfriend and I had a falling out. We live together and I broke his trust. He hasn't moved out or anything he's refusing to when in the past he has just left me. Saying he didnt love me anymore and that we were over its only been 5 days. But what ...
A. 16 February 2009: He obviously does love you if he hasen't moved out. Give him sometime to think and stuff. Try to make him feel better, say your sorry. I can provide more information and help if you told me how he broke your trust. If you don't want to feedback on ... (read in full...)
Why is my vagina burning during sex?
Q. I was having sex with my boyfriend tonight and at first it felt really really good, but then my vagina started burning! its never happened before, so I don't know what's wrong. help! please....
A. 1 December 2008: Well.
For 1, you're to young for it. You're vaginal area's haven't fully grown, a little tip: If your "boyfriend" is having sex with you, he dosen't love you. He just wants in your pants. Let yourself grow, you don't want to be pregnat do you? It'... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says his priority is his drinking!
Q. my boyfriend says his priority is his drinking, i'm expected to buy all household items, baby items. i'm surprised he gives me half for the babysitter. he recently lent me 30 dollars because i needed to buy OUR daughter a thanksgiving outfit, the ...
A. 1 December 2008: Okay. Thats the beggining of what my parents have it sounds like.
My mom and dad fight constently, and my dad is very selfish and heartless. He thinks all the money is his and everything is his, but my mom works to. They share bank accounts... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to have sex with him?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. I am 17 and I've already sex once before. He has not. We have talked about it. How long should I wait to have sex with him?...
A. 21 November 2008: You should wait another 2 years at least. You are to young. Even though I'm younger and I have. I understand it was a mistake. You shouldn't have sex until at least 19 years old. ... (read in full...)
What do you do with a hubby who creates dating profiles and views porn?
Q. My fiance and I have been together on and off since middle school. He was logged in to my computer and forgot to log out so I glanced at the first page of his email (being nosey) and seen that he had registered with a dating website. I then clicked ...
A. 20 November 2008: As a male speaking, the male mind is very complex and a lot difernt then females. A lot of guys just want in girls pants, all I can say is if he is looking at pornography and signing on dating sites, does he honestly love you? If your expecting a ... (read in full...)
I feel sooooo depressed about the future sometimes.
Q. I'm so scared of the future. I'm not religious, but I think of the world really coming to the end. There is bad news everywhere. What do you guys think about all of that? Is this right to feel depressed about the future,or its just me?...
A. 20 November 2008: Its fine brother. Everybody is depressed about the end of the world, but try seeing a psychological therapist. I'm not saying your crazy, but it could be something troubling your mind. Completely normal. And not trying to make it worst, but the ... (read in full...)
I'm the one getting called all the names and he gets away scot free!
Q. I slept with my ex a few weeks ago and his girlfriend found out and split up with him. She asked me if it was true and I told her it was. Now my ex won't talk to me because I didn't deny it for him. He text me calling me a slag and I haven't spoken ...
A. 20 November 2008: Not trying to sound hurtful, but if you really liked him. You would have fucking said no. And you know, people like you are hurting us guys like that. And same with guys like us, hurting girls like you. I don't respect cheating at all, I think you ... (read in full...)
I've made my life again and I'm terrified to go back with him in case he hurts me...
Q. well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship ...
A. 18 November 2008: Okay. Due to the fact you're only 16, you shouldn't worry about your love life. Not trying to be mean or hurtful but, there's a big chance that you guys won't last. ... (read in full...)
What do I do? I'm out of options and I can't figure this girl out!!!
Q. Hey guys, I stumbled across this site in search of an answer... Backround, I go to University of California at Berkley, and there's this girl that lives near me in my dorm. She's a floor below me, but we have become really good friends. I would...
A. 18 November 2008: Ok. As a male reader I think know how it is, but what I think is you should leave it up to her. I'd say fuck it, I give up. But i'd still give her a chance. People drift apart, but always get together. When people say "I'm done with him and I don't ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared about leaving school... did anyone else feel like this when they left?
Q. I am a graduating student and about to leave school this week. I have just got a house that me and my partner are renting... I'm just so scared about leaving school! Did anyone else feel like this when they left? Did anyone else have any really ...
A. 18 November 2008: Yeah. Although I still am in school, i'm positive i'll have a very hard time leaving school. Leaving all my friends, going seprate ways. ... (read in full...)
Is my penis length natural?
Q. Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said ...
A. 18 November 2008: I told you girls to stop answering. This is very ungreatful I hate female opinions on male things. Now leave me alone, read if you must but keep your answer to yourself.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of his feelings - does my ex still love me?
Q. I really need some help over here! my ex- boyfriend is gonna visit me the next month and i don't know what' going on in my heart, so i wanna know what should do i?? and i don't know if he still loves me! it can be really confuse but i need help to ...
A. 18 November 2008: Need more information, private message me and i'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
He's taken back up smoking and I'm so disappointed it hurts.
Q. My boyfriend is an "recovering" addict/ alcoholic. He goes to the AAA meetings and everything. When he started to sober up, he made me promise not to drink. Which Im fine with, since, I never do it much anyways. He also, wanted to quit smoking. So I ...
A. 18 November 2008: You definatly first talk to him, if he won't respect and won't stop smoking. Then I agree with Fade878, he isn't worth it. Tell him that, tell him that he is hurting you and if he dosen't stop its best for you 2 to be over, because he's hurting you ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 17 and want to have a baby, but I'm worried what my Mom will say.
Q. Hi. Im 16, nearly 17 years old and i want a baby. Im in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend who i have been with for almost two years, and i just feel i am ready. at the moment i am living with my boyfriend and his parents as me and my mum ...
A. 18 November 2008: Far to young too have a child. Do not have a child at that age, you'll throw all your life away. Wait untill your AT LEAST 20. And for you're parents, they sure and the hell aren't gunna be by your side for the child. ... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older man but falling for his son who's my age.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months who's alot older than me. Recently I've been spending alot of time with his son who is my age. I've found myself developing feelings for him but don't know what to do....
A. 18 November 2008: This may sound very mean. But... In that situation there is no way out but to break up with his father and have nothing to do with both of them. I'm sorry if this may hurt you, but it's the truth. It's a very odd situation that normally doesn't... (read in full...)
Is my penis length natural?
Q. Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said ...
A. 18 November 2008: I'd acually rather male readers, so females please don't post.
I only rather male readers because they would know a lot more then females. and something tells me, you girls are only here for curiosity ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl of that age to be like that? What made her do it?
Q. My girlfriend walked into my room without knocking and I was caught doing sexual activity's. After 3 seconds she came directly onto me she started to take off her clothes and I asked her what are you doing because I was scared, I wasn't ready to...
A. 18 November 2008: Well. Thanks for the advice you to, but may I should have probly should have added another detail:
It was not sexual assult, I let her. And I find it sorta hurtful Emilysanswers abouyt saying don't see her again. I've been with her for 13months... (read in full...)
Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs
Q. Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs? Because thats how i am. I like me and i wouldnt change anything. But if i get together with a guy...do you think he'll lke my body?...
A. 17 November 2008: As a male reader. I find a small chest, and wide hips VERY attractive. Im guessing you're cup size would be Late A - Early C. Which is highly attractive in my opinion, its what you call a petite body which usually is a big turn on for males. Like ... (read in full...)
Problems with maintaining erection, could you give me any tips?
Q. I have a girl that i really like her i have tried having sex with her 4 times but it won't go up i don't know why, i have never experience this problem before its not like i don't like her because she is the finest one i have had and i mean fine, ...
A. 17 November 2008: If you have a lot of stuff on you're mind or if you've been using drugs lately, that is mainly the problem. I mean I agree
with LonelyButNotAlone because it could be almost anything. Depression, health, diet, and drugs.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, I think I'm gay, help!
Q. I think I'm in love with my best friend, I've known her for a couple of years, but we've been through a lot. I have some medical problems, that she helped me through them. I'm not the um well I don't know a lot about sexual stuff, I'm told ...
A. 17 November 2008: If you love her, you should tell her. Speaking as a guy, I know it sounds very wierd. But like, I am bisexual but only my girlfriend knows. Because im very scared that my bestfriend and friends will think of me as a freak. But you know what, just 2 ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend believe that I don't watch porn?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with a great girl, we have been together for 3 years. One problem we have is that she doesn't believe me when I tell her that I don't watch porn at all. I don't watch porn, at all, but she thinks I am lying. Why does ...
A. 17 November 2008: I agree with EbonyBlossom. Just be patient But like, it could be because most teenagers (yes that means females too) look at or watch pornography. No matter what, and yes same with me. My girlfriend caught me watching it and playing with mys... (read in full...)
Please explain to me if I experienced female ejaculation.
Q. This may sound weird but when my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral i squirt, but i don't fully orgasm. It's like it feels so good and i just release. The other day i orgasmed and it was really amazing and when i came the same stuff was coming ...
A. 17 November 2008: I know I know, before I answer I just gotta say. You probly think im just a pervert because im a guy answering your question, but I came across this question and I enjoy helping.
Intercourses MAY help, oral sex dosen't always make you scream. ... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!
Q. Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself ...
A. 24 October 2008: I disagree with Danielepew.
You are probly bi-curious. Try having encouters with guys, put aside if you do like guys. Gay or bisexual is NOTHING to be ashamed of. If it is because you're friends would be against it, that means they aren't reall... (read in full...)
How can I get my wife to discipline her kid more so I don't have to deal with is snotty attitude?
Q. My step-son is spoiled as hell and my patience is wearing thin. My wife is freakin bitch and wont discipline him and gets so defensive when I lose my patience with him because he throws stuff around and tells us to pick up after him like he owns our ...
A. 24 October 2008: I TOTALLY dis-agree with fade. That is wrong
If he keeps getting spoiled, its just gunna get worst. Its best to punish him. And talk to him and your wife
BUT NEVER lay a hand on him, a appropriate punishment is grounding if he is in early teen... (read in full...)
How important is sex in a relationship?
Q. Opinions sought -- how important is the sexual portion of a relationship?...
A. 24 October 2008: Sex isen't everything. They're is more importaint things in a relationship. Not trying to offend or anything but if all you want is sex in a relationship, that means you are a inconciderate jerk.
Best of luck.... (read in full...)
He doesn't satisfy me sexually.
Q. I have been in a loving committed relationship with my boyfriend for over four years but the intimacy and sex has been insufficient (for me) for the past two plus years. We have talked about it a number of times but eventually after all is said and ...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree with DoubleM. Time is on you're side, but sex isen't the whole part of a relationship. And yeah, I am younger then you. So you might think im a idiot but its true. If its a stable and healthy relationship keep with it. Sex isen't ... (read in full...)
I can't get passed his relationship with his cousin. I want to go back to my ex but I am engaged. Who do I choose ?
Q. I met this guy about 3 years ago and we dated for a long time, i found out he was cheating on me with his cousin 4 months into the relationship. I was furious and broke it off. I got back with him, but in between i met this wonderful man. Hes older ...
A. 24 October 2008: In my opinion. You shouldn't go back with your ex, if he cheated on you. But said he wouldn't again, chances are he will do it again. If you are engaged and you acully love him with your heart. Be with him, not the other person. Remember, marrage is ... (read in full...)
He got drunk and made out with another girl. Do I give him a second chance?
Q. My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a$$ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was making out another girl. I did took him home before he do something more stupid. My question is...
A. 20 September 2008: It's hard to say, most guys are jerks when they are drunk. They don't know what they are doing. If it was me (im a guy) so if my girlfriend was caught making out with a guy while she's drunk, I would probly give her another chance. But the thing is: ... (read in full...)
Please help. I have a really strong ache in my stomach that wont ease no matter what I do!
Q. help! I'm in pain after I had fairly rough sex a couple of days ago, it didnt hurt at the time but gradually its increased. I thought it was cystitis, but it doesn't hurt when i go to the toilet, just a really strong ache in my stomach that won...
A. 20 September 2008: Your obviously not pregnat as you said. Because it takes atleast 2 weeks to get a test. All I can see is that you broke your hymen and the pain traveled. Its probly just nothing because it was to rough. Start off slow if it was your first time. ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you are 'bi' and like a 'straight' girl?
Q. I like this girl who's straight and i'm bi. I told her i liked her and tried to be her friend, but she said i was weird and blocked me. I really want to just be friends with her, but i don't know. What i should do?...
A. 20 September 2008: Good. You did tell the truth, thats the way to go.
But try just letting time pass and not be so upfront. You need to find out if she likes to meet new people, a lot of stuff that go on in the female brain and male. They start to stop wanting ... (read in full...)
I haven't had sex, as such, am I still a virgin?
Q. I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend was fingering me. it started to hurt eventually, but i ignored it. After we finished fooling around, i was bleeding. He pointed it out to me. Did he break my Hymen?? Or is it something else? If my Hymen is broken,...
A. 11 July 2008: Your still a virgin. But he could of been a little rough.
Or your on your period..
either way is quite possible.... (read in full...)
My friend keeps wanting to hug me - does she like me?
Q. my friend keeps insisting on goin to watch a movie. She than states she would like to hug me throughout the film. Does she like me? She tells me about this other guy she likes yet she talks to me like she does....
A. 11 July 2008: Well. Sometimes hugs mean nothing. I always get hugged & stuff by people I know that don't like me. & they know im tooken.
But it could mean she likes you. You need to explore & talk to her about it.... (read in full...)
I need opinions - does he like me?
Q. Hi, Once a week, I go shopping in my favorite store. Well, you see, there’s a guy that works there and I really like him. He doesn’t look too much older than myself. He always says ‘hi’ and I smile and say ‘hi’ back. I’m quite shy, and I think...
A. 11 July 2008: Talk to him. Learn more about him. Shy people are ususally really sensetive & nice. By my understanding's from what you said. He does like you. Just talk to him, take it slow unless if he gives off huge signal's.... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls 'squirt'?
Q. Hi there! Wondering if you could help me out here, last night my boyfriend and I were being intimate and he was giving me oral, all of the sudden I climaxed. The problem here is that as I was finishing I 'squirted', that's never happened before. ...
A. 11 July 2008: Me personaly don't like it when girl's squirt. But if he kept licking. Im sure he enjoyed it. Don't be puzzled, he liked it.... (read in full...)
We used a condom during sex, but my period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. okay, three weeks ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of some time. we used a condom, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. i was supposed to start my period yesterday and.. i didn't. today: nothing either. i'm very worried. i'm 15,...
A. 10 July 2008: It depends on the age of the guy. Take a pregnacy test, & as far as I think is that you shouldn't even of had a sexual matter with anybody.
Usually guy's that are under 17 or 18 can't produce eanough sperm.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be cheap, is it just my imagination, or is he really a tightwad?
Q. I have been seeing a man for about 2 months. Great Guy. I am 39 and he is 43. Good dad, hard worker. He has two children, I have 3. I am writing to ask if he is just frugal or if you think he is really cheap. Went to a concert with him. He ...
A. 10 July 2008: Im really sorry to say this. But you have to move on, don't let him guilt you into buying him stuff. A real gentleman is when they help you get through things. He's not a real guy.
2months of a relationship is really nothing. Im 13 years old &
i'... (read in full...)
We have two sons, one mine, one ours, but this relationship is not working, he is lazy among other things, and I want him gone yesterday, what can I do to end this?
Q. I am in a relationship that i have been in for about 5 years. i really want out of the relationship but he will not go anywhere. We have a 4 year son together and i also have a 7 year old son from a previous relationship. He is very lazy and will ...
A. 10 July 2008: A man that dosen't help you & has a son with you isen't a very good guy. A relationship is about support.
But if you are not married with him, you have to say something to him. Only you can think of something to say to him. You have the words. But ... (read in full...)
I am happy with my boyfriend, even though he is 28 years older than I am, does the age difference matter, if the relationship is working??
Q. i am currently going out with sum1 28 years older then me ever since i've met him i've felt happy and more confident he supports me in everything i do. but then there's my dad who's telling me he's just using me and also my sister who wont talk to ...
A. 10 July 2008: If you really love him, you shouldn't care what anybody thinks. Put everything aside, you said he made you happy & he supports you. Thats all that matters. There are 3 main things in a relationship... truthworthy, happyness, & support. By the sounds ... (read in full...)
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