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writes:I slept with my ex a few weeks ago and his girlfriend found out and split up with him. She asked me if it was true and I told her it was. Now my ex won't talk to me because I didn't deny it for him. He text me calling me a slag and I haven't spoken to him since. Now his ex and all her friends are calling me a slag. What they don't know however is that it was all his doing - he begged me to go home with him, even disconnecting his fone so his gf couldn't get hold of him. I should have said no but I was, and still am, totally head over heels for him. Now I just feel so nasty and ashamed that I'm getting all this name-calling when he doesn't get anything at all and can just get on with his life. I feel like messaging him and having it out with him but I know I will only end up more upset. How can I get over this?
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reader, Bryanz  +, writes (20 November 2008):
Not trying to sound hurtful, but if you really liked him. You would have fucking said no. And you know, people like you are hurting us guys like that. And same with guys like us, hurting girls like you. I don't respect cheating at all, I think you deserve to be called names. I like how to admit that you're ashamed and it was wrong though. That is a very good thing that you know that. Good luck, and I wouldn't talk to your ex or his ex anymore. That will get you in a lot of trouble.
You deserve what is coming at you, but it will go away eventually.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (20 November 2008):
 you could try explaining to the girl i don't suggest you do this in person but send her a message saying that your really sorry and you didn't purposely mean to hurt her but it was not you that was doing all this. as for that guy he sounds horrid how dare he call you a slag for not denying it. get yourself out making new friends you may be head over heels and you may be upset but he has no right to ever call you that you shouldn't let any man speak to you that way next time that nasty guy tries to get sumthin off you tell him straight that you don't need liars. you deserve better sure you've made a bad mistake and even if she doesn't like you and her friends are calling you a slag so what atleast you can say that you have changed for the better. start a fresh leave him in the past and get a new phone number and meet new people, who will love you and not keep you as their dirty little secret
i hope i could help.
don't ever let anybody put you down.
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