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writes:Hi, Once a week, I go shopping in my favorite store. Well, you see, there’s a guy that works there and I really like him. He doesn’t look too much older than myself. He always says ‘hi’ and I smile and say ‘hi’ back. I’m quite shy, and I think he may be too, so nothing else is ever said. Well, recently, I catch him staring at me. He doesn’t look away either, he just stares, even if I’m all the way across the store. I’m always the first to look away. Many times I catch him staring at me, out of the corner of my eye, so it’s not like I’m looking at him all the time and causing him to stare in return. And sometimes, if he’s talking with a group of people and sees me coming, he steps back into the middle of the aisle, so I basically have to squeeze past him. It always seems to give him an excuse to say ‘hi’ again. So, my question is…do you think he likes me? Even just a little bit? I really am clueless when it comes to guys. I would love to get to know him better, but if he doesn’t like me, I don’t want to be a bother to him.Thanks!
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reader, Bryanz  +, writes (11 July 2008):
Talk to him. Learn more about him. Shy people are ususally really sensetive & nice. By my understanding's from what you said. He does like you. Just talk to him, take it slow unless if he gives off huge signal's.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Hi there, You are cute, the best way, I feel to find out what is on his mind, is to find something in the store, the next time you are there, to ask him about. Formulate real questions, and go up to him and pose the questions. As he answers the questions about the product, then intertwine
something that is about a place that is outside of the store, like what is his choice for a good restaurant in town, from there, ask him, if he is showing interest, if he would like to have a cup of coffee sometime, not dinner. He will get the message, have the courage to ask him, one time, with all of his staring, I think he will take you up on the offer. Have something to do after the cup of coffee, do not stay with him, until he decides to end your time together. Give him some reason, to feel that he has to ask, to see you again. A shortened session with you, should accomplish that. Do have your telephone number available if you have not already given it to him, by that time. This hopefully will put the two of you together ouside of the store he works in. Please, if you do this, let us know the outcome. I wish you the best. Take very good care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): I would say that is a "Big Ten Four Good Buddy!!." Be bold and go up and talk to him....if he isn't interested, you will know within seconds...but my gut say he has a big-o crush on you. And he isn't isn't diggging on ya, thats ok too...There are always bigger fish in the sea. All my Prayers Love!!
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