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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend was fingering me.it started to hurt eventually, but i ignored it. After we finished fooling around, i was bleeding.He pointed it out to me. Did he break my Hymen?? Or is it something else?If my Hymen is broken, even though i haven't had sex, am I still a virgin?
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reader, Bryanz  +, writes (11 July 2008):
Your still a virgin. But he could of been a little rough.
Or your on your period..
either way is quite possible.
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reader, rose the relationship solver  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 it could be your hymen breaking if he was a bit rough but if he has long nails he could of cought u with them inside that could cause bleeding aswell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): It is more then likely that he did break your hymen; from what you describe, the pain and the bleeding;
HOWEVER
There are many different beliefs about what virginity loss is;
it was once believed that a broken hymen meant a girl was not a virgin, but often the hymen is torn or stretched by vigorous exercise,horse riding,cycling or the use of tampons.
BUT
Most people agree that women and men lose their virginity the first time they have penile-vaginal intercourse;
Best wishes.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 July 2008):
Yes you are still a virgin.
Most women break their hymens when they are little girls through climbing trees, riding a bike / horse, doing gym or anything.
The other possibility is that he scratched you inside and that is why it bled. Next time, you should stop when it hurts.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (7 July 2008):
 You're still a virgin. Until you have sex, you will be. There are plenty of ways to break your hymen completely unrelated to sex, like using a tampon.
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