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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 You are welcome. I hope it helps. :) Thank you for your kind words. God bless and keep you.
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBlue -Angel you are a wonderful person keep on giving me advice even though i dont post a question. am blessed with your answers.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (12 February 2010):
Suggest nicely that she have the phone checked. Mine was acting crazy too! Telling people it was disconnected or no longer in service.My children and my b/f kept asking why I didn't answer my phone! There would be times I would get messages on voicemail days after they came and texes seemed to have gotten stuck somewhere in limbo. This day and age anything is possible!
You do need to consider that (IF) she is not wantng to answer the phone perhaps your overzealous attempts to call may be seeming too much for her. I would suggest if it continues to just leave her alone for a bit and see if she will contact you on her own. If she really likes you this should speed up her thinking. Doing the opposite of what she is expecting could help her to think hard on picking up when you call. Do remember though sometimes people are just busy or may not be in the mood to talk. They may not want to hurt their callers feelings and may candycoat the problem by telling a little white lie. Just be sure you are patient enough and not worrying over it until it makes you feel sick. This will only cause your emotions to be more wrapped up in this one girl.If she isn't the one for you it may be hard for her to say or for you to understand. If she wants to be your g/f then give her some space and she will soon let you know!
Everybody needs time to themselves and some space now and then without their partner. Please keep it in mind and allow yourself to be busy with other things so you don't dwell on this and it will help you to keep a more positive attitude about it all. Ask God to help you understand and cope with your situation. Prayer changes things. JUST BELIEVE!
God bless,
Blue_Angel0316
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe problem recurred in the morning, her phone was busy for some minutes but the girl maintained the answer that she was not talking to anybody. is it the problem of her phone or she is just denying it?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (6 February 2010):
You are welcome and I hope that things work themselves out the best for both of you.
Blessings.
Blue_Angel0316
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 I agree with everything Blue Angel said but also wanted to add that it's possible her phone was off the hook and she didn't realise. One of my phones only needs to be slightly bumped and it gets pushed off the hook but you can't actually see it's off. Blue Angel is right when she says not to get jealous, jealously in a relationship will eventually kill it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for your wise and balanced advice, blue angel
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (5 February 2010):
She could be reluctant to end the call with a good friend or family member as not to seem rude. Perhaps she really wasn't talking to someone and someone else just happened to be calling in at the same time. That will also give you a false busy signal which in fact the line actually is busy trying to intercept another call. She may or may not be intentionally making you wait for a return call or for at least an answer.
Try not to worry. Sometimes obsessing over the fact will actually make a mountain out of a molehill. :) Just watch and see how things go in the future. Don't get jealous or angry it won't do either of you any good. Be calm and respectful while letting her show her intentions. If the behavior continues just simply ask her if she is avoiding you or perhaps doesn't want to be with you.
Allow room for some privacy and interaction with her other friends or you will most assuradly push her right out the door, to which she may be slowing headed to anyway. Only time will tell what's really going on here but if you are too suspecious it could be nothing more than your over anxiousness to have contact with someone who is special to you. Everybody needs a little time and space now and then. Allow a little but keep your eyes and ears peeled just in case.
It may be that you aren't able to completely trust due to another relationship. Either way accept that you cannot make someone act the way you want. You can only hope that they will. Reach out to the Lord our God for the power to overcome the doubts and pray that His Will be done. God bless!
My best always,
Blue_Angel
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